vibrator

I recently became acquainted with a semi-professional Domme--let's call her O--who, as she let slip in a lengthy conversation laced with flirting, has fantasies about having her own orgasms controlled. I was intrigued. Here was a self-professed female dominant (who I knew to be into denial already) confessing to a fellow top that she could, very easily, be persuaded to come only with permission. I compared that to having a leash put on her clit.

She had a very interesting and visible reaction to that.

Greetings all,

I've read -- and participated in -- a number of discussions and stories, both here on tantalism and on similar sites, about making a "smart vibrator" or a related "teasing device" that can bring a user (or subject, if you prefer) repeatably to the brink of orgasm -- and then either deny orgasm or eventually permit orgasm (but only after a long time or other conditions are satisfied.) As you might imagine, some sort of bondage is often employed to keep the subject (err victim) from, "taking matters into his/her own hands." ;-)

Did I leave you hanging after my orgasm. I can't believe it has been 3 weeks since.  I do have to say I have not been denied the entire time.  We have been trying new and different things which I will try to explain.

We are no longer keeping track of "how long".  My orgasms are at his discretion and are for his entertainment.  So this is a different dimension than I had even imagined.  But as I was going thru the last denial and reading other posts, I realize just how open the world is to try new and different things.  As long as my dom is up to it.  

okay, so i at last went and got myself a Hitachi vibrator, after hearing many a favorable comment..my question is, what's the best way to use it???
lol, so far, it just makes me totally numb, and gives me no fun at all...hints please. Maybe i should just stick to the trusty finger, and the electric toothbrush, those seem fail-proof.

a very disappointed nelia

So the day finally came...and so did I...LOL!

Sunday night he made me orgasm, repeatedly. Lucky me!

My first love is bondage, although denial in bondage is even better. Orgasm in bondage is great too. He tied me. My leg bent at the knee, the rope wrapped tightly around my left ankle, passed under my right leg and tied to my right wrist. The same arrangement for my right ankle and left wrist. I couldn't extend my legs because my arms were already extended and tied with a short length.

"Go get cleaned up," he said to me. "Yes, sweetheart."

Off to the shower I went, and he joined me in the bathroom. I was ready to step into the shower when he smacked my right ass cheek - hard. He kept advancing on me, sort of forcing me toward the wall a the end of the shower, and cracked me across the left cheek twice. Of course it had the desired effect of making me more aroused.

The rope encircled my ankles and knees. The vibrator held trapped between my bound legs. My arms bound, unable to reach the tormentor to adjust the angle, touch, or speed. I was so wet that the vibrator slid every time I got the head of the vibrator on the right spot. He let me writhe like that, teasing my nipples. He asked me if I wanted to cum, and I responded with a whispered "yes."

"Get close. I give you permission, if you can," he said.

I tried..OH how I tried...

And I got to the edge. "Please," I begged.

"No. You don't get to cum now."