tantric sex

Practices based on sexual yoga.

Abstinence, Edging, and Denial Adventures

I'd like to increase the intervals between ejaculations and make the most of teasing/edging/denial and "get to cum? games" for the times when I do orgasm.

I last ejaculated over a week ago so now seems a great time to start. I decided no touching until I couldn't stand it any longer, which was this evening. Wanted to cum or at least edge some. I decided to allow edging as long as there were no interruptions. Cum not likely but not impossible either. Well..I got to enjoy a glorious 15 minutes or so of edging when something erupted, but probably not what you're thinking. A fierce thunderstorm unexpectedly erupted. I took this a my cue to STOP edging. So I was able to edge without cumming with a little help from Mother Nature. I did NOT cum.

Update: Now I've made it to the end of yet another week without cumming. Been doing a bit more edging lately, and it's getting harder and harder to stop in time without ejaculating. Incredibly horny would be an understatement!

UPDATE:

I haven't cum since Jan 31, 2013 and for several days now I'm desperately horny like hell too and want to cum so badly it's driving me to more intense sexual frustration than I thought possible. All I can think about is an orgasm. 22 days without ejaculating feels like my absolute limit. I had only agreed to 20 days, but then rolled the chastity bingo, which says my next chance to cum isn't for 19 more days! And even then no guarantee. omg I can't wait 1 more day, let alone 19 or more. Please let me cum...I really NEED to cum. I've never been this desperate to cum.

A wonderful memory

Many years ago - I must have been 27 or 8 - I began to have fantasies of being teased. I had visited pro dommes - or the version of them that prevailed at the time - I don't think that 'dominatrix' had even been invented. But my fantasies of the excitement and arousal of being tied and caned were not confirmed in practice. My skin was too sensitive and my pain threshold too low.

Edge Training in progress

It has been a few days since an update. Real life started to happen and I couldn't find a chance to relay the events. Suffice to say, I have been without any orgasm since Tuesday and have either been edging or had cunnilingus every day morning and evening.

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What would you be interested in, if you found a full site aimed at female orgasm denial?

Videos of females masturbating/edging
13% (10 votes)
Videos of females being denied orgasms by female/male individual
54% (41 votes)
Stories Real/Fantasy of Female Orgasm Denial
9% (7 votes)
Captioned Images with short phrases or stories
3% (2 votes)
Orgasm Denial Contests
11% (8 votes)
Pictures of Females being denied an orgasm
1% (1 vote)
Webtease fantasies for females
9% (7 votes)
Total votes: 76

Mary's Little Experiment

Predictability in a marriage may be comforting, but it tends to dampen the excitement, particularly the sexual excitement, attending the blissful period of discovery and familiarization through which a marriage passes all too quickly. Mary and my marriage had passed through that phase and had entered the comfortable, if somewhat dull, stage in which each of us could predict, with increasing accuracy, what to expect from the other. Thus, it should be easy to understand my shock when, upon returning home from work one day, Amanda greeted my arrival in a fashion which I would have never predicted.

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Five weeks so far, still loving it

Our last orgasms were five weeks ago today -- on Guy Fawkes Day, as it turned out. Remember, Remember the Fifth of November! ;)

With each passing week, my need for intimate time with him has grown. We've started waking earlier on weekdays, in order to make love for a bit before breakfast ... something we rarely did before, not being morning people. There's something *so* yummy about cuddling up, him inside me and nibbling at my neck, while we're still half asleep. The oxytocin rush is very strong now, and a great start to the day. I'll make it into work still smiling, feeling all warm and tingly inside.

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