switch male

Well....in the past Ive gone 1,2 and 3 months orgasmless. Ive got one of my best female friends helping encourage me ths time. Seh's a good friend of my wife and myself. The wife and I practise Tantric to an extent..but not outright denial. My friend is into learning about giving denial..and Im the gunie pig! Anyhow...6 days in...3 weeks plus a number of weeks to be determined to go. Ive got a CB2000 and she's got a 3000 for her new boyfriend/sub. Looks like we'll both be locked up at times. Anyhow..thats me at the moment.

I've been impressed by the well-thought out information architecture of Tantalism.org for quite a while now. Its interface is simple and efficient, its support for features I enjoy is ample (threaded discussions, blogging, and—best of all—RSS feeds), and its content intelligent, well-written and very hot. The amount of personal detail that this site's members portray is inspiring. A big "well done" to everyone here!

With these positive aspects present in Tantalism.org, and with some prodding from recent personal experience of my own, I've decided to start my own tease and denial journal of sorts, and what better place to do that than a site dedicated for just that purpose. So here I am; long-time lurker, newbie poster to Tantalism.org. Consider this first post my way of dipping my toes in the water. I hope that I'll be welcomed here.