switch female

Well, for once it's my GF who's frustrated! I just pulled the seven of spades, which makes for the THIRD spade card in a row (King, 13 days no touch; Ace, Almostgasm that kind of was a full orgasm instead; seven of spades). So by the time the 18th rolls around (if it ever does) I'll have spent most of the month of July on no-touch.

For God's sake, don't tell my GF this, but it's actually not so bad. The thirteen days drove me up the wall, but the seven sounds like a much needed rest and I'm pretty tired. I started a new job this week, for one thing (YAY!!) However, my GF has been grumbling about not getting to tease me, as apparently tickling me with feathers, vibrating my nipples, reading me erotic stories and watching me squirm over the Lena Ramon video isn't enough teasing for her. She's talking about changing the Spade designation to something else.

(So to speak)

Well, they're 1/4 of the deck, so it makes sense that I'd pull a spade sooner or later. Last night I pulled the biggest, baddest spade of them all: The King. Thirteen days of no touch. (9,10, Jack = 11, Queen =12, King = 13--get it?) No touch means no touching the clitoris or the vaginal area, and that still leaves quite a lot of real estate to cover. I'm told to expect Ben-Gay, clamps and suction cups on the nipples (hopefully not all at once), intense tickling everywhere except where I need it the most, watching teasing video clips (Lena Ramon is a favorite right now), reading erotic stories out loud, pleasing my GF, and of course sitting with my hands tied behind my back, watching her pleasure herself while I leak sweet frustrated juices onto the sheets.

I checked the number of cards we've pulled and it's only eleven. That doesn't seem like enough to be in the frenzy I've been in for the last few days. Last night as soon as I got home from work I was instructed to put a vibrator on a low setting. I picked a cute little G-spot vibe we have that's only about four inches long. The area that curves up went just inside me, and the rest was held in place with my labia.

We watched a movie and some show on A&E. I don't remember much about either one because I spent most of it trying to figure out how to get more stimulation to my clitoris. The thing was stuck at an angle so that it just missed my clit and buzzed a centimeter or so away. Crossing my legs did the job. So did pressing my thighs together but every time I did either one, my GF said, "Stop that. I want you nice and warm later." Halfway through the movie the battery died. Did I get a reprieve? Nope. New battery and back in it went, still maddeningly out of reach of my clitoris. I never got very close but I never got to relax, either.

I was carrying some files at work today and as I went through a door one of them brushed my nipple. I went from zero to fully, maddeningly horny in the space of about half a second. Grrrr!!!

Last night, four of hearts. Edged four more times.

Well, I should have paid that gypsy an extra piece of silver because an orgasm is NOT in the cards. Here's what's happened the last few days:

5 of Diamonds--five trips through the Pulsatron Vibrator of Doom Cycle. And since my GF is so enamoured of the way I've been teasing Cassie (check out this node: http://tantalism.org/node/view/1235) she left me with the stupid "ramp up and stop" feature on for some unimaginable length of time afterward.

10 of Hearts--edge TEN TIMES!! I didn't think it was physically possible to calm down between edges and then get all the way back up in, say, a 24-hour period. My GF decided she would edge me, let me back off a little, then edge me again. Each time she let me fall off a little bit farther so the buildup was worse until I was going out of my mind with need. And, after that was done, it was back to the "ramp up and stop" feature. I spent at least ten minutes holding perfectly still, right on the ragged edge, knowing if I clenched even once I'd have the most tremendous orgasm ever and not daring to move even a butt muscle.

I'm glad my GF has a mathematical mind because I can't keep track of half this stuff.

There are four suits. Each suit means one of four things:

Edging that number of times
That many cycles through the Pulsatron Vibrator of Doom
That many minutes
That many days of no-touch before the next card can be drawn!

Don't ask me which suit is which. I have no idea. I'll figure it out eventually. She picks a card, and I pick a card. We both have to do whatever's on the card, unless she likes my card better, in which case she reserves the right to switch them. She still gets to come afterward of course. I don't. Well, sometimes I do. And if I get to come I think that means I get to pick if she does or not. I told you I couldn't keep track of all this.

I'm allergic to nickel, a common metal used in jewelry. Well, much to my embarrassment it's also used in some vibrators!! Specifically a vibrating egg we've got--I guess we left it in too long because I've got serious itch, like I get when I use earrings that are made of the wrong stuff. Geez!! Ladies, beware; if earrings make you itch, use condoms on those metal vibes!

Hi all,

We've both been sick, so no action around here. I did get one "pity orgasm" a few days ago because I had cramps--my GF has had a hysterectomy so she doesn't get that excuse--but other than that not much happening. Hopefully we'll get back to it soon.

The last thing that happened was our second experiment with forced o's. The Hitachi wand didn't go over so well. A single bullet, though, turned on "High," had an interesting effect. I only manged to come once in 20 minutes (I think I was too nervous!) but after the initial panicky stop-stop-stop overstimulation, which lasted an eternity or maybe a minute or two, my body settled down and accepted the vibrations again. I was maybe halfway back up when the chime rang, ending the session.

This day was the big day for me. I got to tease Mistress Andrea by the hands of Susan, Mistress Jen en Kirstie.

When I got out of bed round 3:45 am I was really nervous. I didn't know if I could keep Mistress Andrea teased for a long period of time.

She had told me before that being tied to the coffee table is very uncomfortable so the sessions should take 30-45 minutes tops.

When I joined chat lots of familiar names were there already. This included t&d doll, restlessly, Mistress Andrea SirDraco and some more.

It seems they had already been discussing the tease that was about to happen.

Hello everyone, I've viewed this site for the last week and have (finally!) just got round to signing up. It might take me some time to get used to it all so please forgive me if I've submitted this in the wrong section.

My name is Holly, I am 22 years old and I live in the UK. For about the last year me and my boyfriend have experimented with denial and chastity, I own a mysteel chastity belt (very similar to the one the model in my avatar is wearing) and my boyfriend a CB-3000. We have both experimented at taking turns in controlling the other, as well as both locking ourselves away at the same time (a brilliant experience!). Do we have a preference? Not really although normally it's me being the Dom and my boyfriend being denied orgasm.