solo female

As you can tell, I haven't had the time to post blog entries lately. I had a very busy April, full of deadlines and unexpected complications and emotional roller coasters. I have managed to stick to my masturbation denial routine. In a way, I think the discipline of it has helped me to stay centered through all of this stress. Anyway, I'll probably be continuing to take a bit of a hiatus from the site. There's not much I could write anyway.

So.... I know this is going to sound like a really basic newbie question but... how do you.... just... stop?

Are there personal methods or tricks you girls (& guys) use to prevent yourself from accidentally cumming? I know it supposedly gets easier with experience, but the urges also get stronger the longer it's been since I... since I.. *sob*

I've only got 12 more days to go for this denial period, but the edges are getting more and more brutal.

Day 12. I've kept to all the proscriptions, but I realized that it's Monday morning now, and I never did any of my 2 hours of ginger-on-clit meditation time that I've prescribed for myself every week. So, naturally, I'll have to do a total of four hours this week: the two I skipped last week and the regular two for this week. I'm trying to decide what would be an appropriate punishment for not sticking to my regimen. Any suggestions?

I've always had a tendency to develop emotionally intimate and deeply loving friendships. For a long time, I just sort of thought that was how friendship worked, but it would appear that what I'm experiencing is a bit outside the norm, and acknowledging that it's always difficult to really compare one's internal experiences with another, still, it seems like I feel love and compassion, in general and specifically for platonic friends, more intensely than the average person.

So it's nearly 10pm on March 31, and I've decided to go through April without cumming.

I'm notoriously bad at this (trying this before resulted in only lasting 6 days). But that was one of my first times, and I touched myself a lot during that week, so I kinda doomed myself from the start. I will say that those 6 days were very intense and exciting - but if I'm gonna last a month, I need a way to slow things down.

Two things for you today Tantalism:

A) I found this lovely video! If anyone finds part 1 (or 3) let me know!
http://fapdu.com/girl-tease-2

B) I mentioned this tumblr I found a while back that was kinky and queer but fooling around with T&D but now ze appears to have gone all the way doing self teasing and self denial with dice. Ze's been denied 7 days so far and has to go another 5 before having a CHANCE to cum again...

http://queerroux.tumblr.com/

If you click the Teasing and Orgasm Control link at the top you'll just get the posts related to that.