*torture

I'd like to increase the intervals between ejaculations and make the most of teasing/edging/denial and "get to cum? games" for the times when I do orgasm.

I last ejaculated over a week ago so now seems a great time to start. I decided no touching until I couldn't stand it any longer, which was this evening. Wanted to cum or at least edge some. I decided to allow edging as long as there were no interruptions. Cum not likely but not impossible either. Well..I got to enjoy a glorious 15 minutes or so of edging when something erupted, but probably not what you're thinking. A fierce thunderstorm unexpectedly erupted. I took this a my cue to STOP edging. So I was able to edge without cumming with a little help from Mother Nature. I did NOT cum.

Update: Now I've made it to the end of yet another week without cumming. Been doing a bit more edging lately, and it's getting harder and harder to stop in time without ejaculating. Incredibly horny would be an understatement!

UPDATE:

I haven't cum since Jan 31, 2013 and for several days now I'm desperately horny like hell too and want to cum so badly it's driving me to more intense sexual frustration than I thought possible. All I can think about is an orgasm. 22 days without ejaculating feels like my absolute limit. I had only agreed to 20 days, but then rolled the chastity bingo, which says my next chance to cum isn't for 19 more days! And even then no guarantee. omg I can't wait 1 more day, let alone 19 or more. Please let me cum...I really NEED to cum. I've never been this desperate to cum.

Hello everyone! I've been a lurker on this site for over a while but haven't really had the guts to and actually post something until now. This is largely due to the fact that I haven't really been able to define my interest in orgasm denial or D/s. Though I've finally delurked, I realize I still only have more questions and half formed thoughts than anything concrete (or interesting, most likely). It's not that anything has changed it's just that just thinking through things is not getting me anywhere so there's really no reason not to join in the community to the best level that I can.

For those of you who have been following my blog and like some continuity, I'll briefly catch up before continuing.

I didn't get to orgasm on my birthday; The reason being, Sir gave me a special birthday beating which involved:

Started to T&D on my wife : i told her that every morning i'm gone tease her and bring her 2 or 3 times on the edge without letting her orgasm.
Curious about the effect that will have in about one week.
Any ideas about (not to complicated) teasing methods are welcome off course.
Keep you informed.....

She arrived home from work and read the note trying to make sense of it.

Strip to your panties and wait for me at the foot of the bed. Today you are not my wife and I am not your husband. Today you will learn about obedience in a new way. I will no longer tolerate your disrespectful mouth and attitude. You will speak when spoken to but only in an agreeable and childlike manner. No questions, complaints, or arguments will be allowed. Follow my lead and we will be fine. Signed, your loving husband.

Time for some fun sweetie, take your panties off, lay back, spread those legs, now gently stroke her, feel every inch, just enjoy. Daddy thought you should have some pleasure and a big release from tension to get you all relaxed for our special time together. You would like that, right? Yes daddy, I would love that, thank you. When you feel close just tell daddy, ok? Yes daddy, I will, do you like watching me play with myself daddy? You like that pretty pussy so naked and beautiful? It is all for you daddy, I do not even touch her without your permission. That is a good girl, it is all for daddy, little girls cannot be trusted with such a big responsibility, they dont know what to do with it unless someone tells them, right sweetheart? Yes daddy, I am not grown up enough to know what I am doing, when I used to touch her I would be in a rush and get so excited then a little baby cum would rush out so quick. Thank you for teaching me to hold in that baby cum since it is not ready to be let out. I always send it back in now like a good girl, I am learning so much, daddy is such a good teacher. Only big girl cum gets let out now and only when daddy says yes. Are you proud of me daddy? Yes honey but today is a big day for you. I will expect complete obedience to everything I say, will you do that for daddy? Yes absolutely. Good because this is the most important day of our relationship and if you dont obey daddy completely every step of the way daddy will add up each infraction and you will be punished quite harshly. I just want to make sure you are aware of that now before you choose to disobey. Yes daddy I understand I will obey every word I promise.

The Box

She dreaded the box. It meant total loss of control.

It took him six months to build with the proper tools and materials. He wanted it perfect and stopped at nothing to get it done exactly how he desired.

Sometimes, she was inside for 30 minutes, sometimes two hours. The first time she was placed inside he made her endure six hours and then promised that would never happen again unless she did something so horrible as to deserve it.

She did not feel human in the box, just chopped up into parts to be used any way he wished. And he was rarely kind while she was in there. He used his imagination to invent new ways to torture her. And the spankings were longer, harder, nearing the point of unbearable.