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Site restored

I'll write a more detailed update later because I'm in the middle of something at work. Needless to say, if you're reading this, the site has been successfully raised from the dead.

Chat will be down until further notice. Sorry about that. I'm working on getting everything back to normal.

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FlashChat 6

I've installed FlashChat 6. You can get to it from the Chat link at the top of the page. It should open a new window or tab, depending on your browser settings.

Fingers crossed this sorry saga is finally over. And thanks for your patience!

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Spammers begone!

The unrelenting attacks on this site by spambots over the last few years have been sapping my will to live. Probably more than half the accounts on here are phony, and they've all had to be dealt with manually.

Finally, we've got a reCaptcha form for user registrations and password change requests. That should put a stop to most of the nonsense at last!

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Major upgrade

OK, I've just finished upgrading the site software to the latest version - for the first time in years! This is in preparation for getting the chatroom up and running again. It should lead to some nice extra features in the not-too-distant future as well.

I know there are things that are a bit wonky, not working properly, or just plain missing. It will settle down with time, but please bear with me. It's been a nightmare getting it this far!

If you notice anything massively wrong, please add a comment to this post!

hiya

Hi there! 24 year old male here, recently lost my edging buddy and find myself missing it. So if you're bored, curious or just wanna chat don't be shy! You can contact me at eatdrinkrumham@yahoo.com

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One Year! (not what you think ...)

I just realised I've been a member on here for one year ... well, one year and two days according to my page. Just wanted to say that I come her regularly and read most every post and really appreciate this site. Not many female orgasm sites out there. Even though I don't post a ton ...

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Enthusiasm Denial

Here I sit in a hotel room in Washington D.C. Dreading another day of professional seminars and wishing there were some compelling excuse to extricate myself from the monotony. It occurred to me that there may just be someone in this vicinity who might be interested in meeting over a drink or a casual cup of coffee to discuss like interests in tantalism (a subject that actually interests me!).

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And we're back...

My payment info had expired when the renewal came around, so the site was dead for a few days. Oops... Sorry. :P

Not a technical problem this time, at least!

Contest of denial

Dear all,
inspired by Elisha, valcor and me start a denial contest on who lasts longest without orgasm. he manged 2-3 Weeks already whereas 1 upt to 1,4 weeks is my longest, most times few days suffice. We are 7 hours apart - me in Europe ahead off him in the USA. Maybe Elisha will still join us tomorrow.

Working Automated teasing/tantalizing devices: some links on the state of the art. Comments and/or opinions sought

Greetings all,

I've read -- and participated in -- a number of discussions and stories, both here on tantalism and on similar sites, about making a "smart vibrator" or a related "teasing device" that can bring a user (or subject, if you prefer) repeatably to the brink of orgasm -- and then either deny orgasm or eventually permit orgasm (but only after a long time or other conditions are satisfied.) As you might imagine, some sort of bondage is often employed to keep the subject (err victim) from, "taking matters into his/her own hands." ;-)

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