piercing

The first time Master and i made a 'serious' attempt at orgasm control and denial, it ended badly. We didn't communicate enough about what our individual desires were before we started playing with it. i should've asked him more questions regarding his vision and goals about it before i agreed to anything. And, as his submissive, it's much more difficult to propose an adjustment once play starts than to have myself heard and considered BEFORE play starts. Anyway, after a short trial, i was back to giving myself an orgasm whenever i wanted, so long as i reported it to him. i was both relieved to be without such strict rules and feeling kind of depressed that i had so much freedom. (Freedom sometimes feels so empty and lonely.)

And then i found this site...

The day had arrived. The one thing I was looking forward to was being on the west coast, a dream I never thought I would ever accomplish, let alone by myself. Oddly enough, it was not how I had envisioned it. I was going to meet my Dom. We had been together 8 months through the most traumatic time in my life and he had stuck with me through it all and helped me through it. All those conversations and chemistry, would it hold up in real life? Would I get there and find out some of the details of himself were made up or completely false? Would I not be attracted to him?

So . . here I am at day 18 of denial. Six days since I got my piercings. My whole hood bruised into a dark purpleish blue color. I'm quite sore, but it's not so bad now. It only hurts when I touch it to clean the area and when I pee and wipe. Well I guess that does sound like it is still bad, but it did hurt to walk and sit or just sitting still, so this is a big improvement. There is some pleasurable sensations going on, but there is absolutely no way I can do anything about it. On my pussy, where my clit peeks out from under my hood slightly, that is where the bottom ball sits.

First of all I would like to say I am happy to be a part of this community. I stumbled across this site some time last week while in the first few days of my second journey into denial. I must say, I was delighted to see that sick minds abound here. So, I just want to quickly bring everyone up to where I'm at today (day 14), I told my hubby that I wanted to see how long I could go in denial again. He didn't seem to crazy about the idea, but I promised him I would not constantly get on his nerves with my aching, needy, pussy.

Thank you for all the comments, I loved them. Last night I put IcyHot all over my pussy mound, clit and in between my pussy lips. At first the burn almost hurts, especially with my tight panties and jeans on. I sat down and let myself suffer. My pussy was very wet after that. I would love for someone to bring me to the edge using only their mouth. My pussy wants to cum so bad, it is very wet. The last time I let myself cum was 3 nights ago and my orgasm was ruined. Afterwards I was so frustrated! My job makes it even harder.

I would like a Master to tease my pussy and not allow me to cum. I want you to get pleasure from my pussy ache. I always keep my cunt shaved.

I found this blog of a submissive who is under orgasm denial and multiple edging. I found it pretty hot... Her master had her edge 100 times yesterday, got her nipples pierced last weekend.

her profile on fetlife has a few pictures - incredible tits...

http://smoochieslut.blogspot.com

http://fetlife.com/users/681989

So it finally happened. The promise / threat that Sir made me to me after my last orgasm, that he was going to have my (His) clit hood pierced. I was doing the clamps last week and, in a fit of submission and masochism I told him I'd love to be pierced, and he decided that now was the right time to do it. So on Monday, 3 months to the day since I last came, I nervously bathed myself, shaved my legs and pussy, touched my clit one last time, to remember what it had felt like, and then we went to the piercers.

After weeks of frustration for me I finally maintained enough self control to suprise and conquer her. I knew she was already aroused since she had been very successful in her teasing of me, and she can never resist a good massage. Her legs are an extreme erogenous zone, and I'm always carefully kept away from any area that "seduces" when she wants to keep control. These areas are clearly known and she is very diligent to protect herself, so I snuck in from the back! I massaged her legs until the muscles relaxed enough that I could reach between them and brushed ever so lightly against the back of her labia. I increased the pressure in small bits until I had her juices flowing fairly well. Then I began to alternate clitoral and labial stimulation bringing her very slowly to the edge and keeping her there. I never did go around the to the front. I raised her hips by grasping her with my thumb on her clit and fingers on her pubic mound and placing her pelvis in the air where I wanted her. I gradually placed more and more of my hand into her until I was fisting her and she began to feel a bit sore. I lightly scratched her to keep her reminded of what I had done the next day and went back to fondling the base of her clit, but massaging only the base of it doesn't get her off. She begged for me to put my member inside, and I eventually abliged. At first I put it in only shallow depths with my left leg over her back to maintain impecable control of the depth. This was to ensure that I didn't hit her g-spot and there was no clitoral stimulation that would bring her off. When she started asking if I could cum that way (she couldn't) I switched to another rear position and penetrated her deeply until I exploded in the best orgasm I have had all year!