*mutilation

I'd like to increase the intervals between ejaculations and make the most of teasing/edging/denial and "get to cum? games" for the times when I do orgasm.

I last ejaculated over a week ago so now seems a great time to start. I decided no touching until I couldn't stand it any longer, which was this evening. Wanted to cum or at least edge some. I decided to allow edging as long as there were no interruptions. Cum not likely but not impossible either. Well..I got to enjoy a glorious 15 minutes or so of edging when something erupted, but probably not what you're thinking. A fierce thunderstorm unexpectedly erupted. I took this a my cue to STOP edging. So I was able to edge without cumming with a little help from Mother Nature. I did NOT cum.

Update: Now I've made it to the end of yet another week without cumming. Been doing a bit more edging lately, and it's getting harder and harder to stop in time without ejaculating. Incredibly horny would be an understatement!

UPDATE:

I haven't cum since Jan 31, 2013 and for several days now I'm desperately horny like hell too and want to cum so badly it's driving me to more intense sexual frustration than I thought possible. All I can think about is an orgasm. 22 days without ejaculating feels like my absolute limit. I had only agreed to 20 days, but then rolled the chastity bingo, which says my next chance to cum isn't for 19 more days! And even then no guarantee. omg I can't wait 1 more day, let alone 19 or more. Please let me cum...I really NEED to cum. I've never been this desperate to cum.

Ever since I was old enough to run, I have accepted control over any that allowed it. I am most comfortable when I am in control and it seems I now generate a feeling of competance to most people.

I have enjoyed both real time key holding, and online tease & denial. I seem to do quite well in both areas.

Will add more when I can.

I last cum over 24 days ago--and that was only once, after not cumming for weeks. So I've waited to build up an enormous amount of pent up sexual energy before posting here. Been furiously horny the past week, and absolutely desperate for an ejaculation since day 19. So on day 19 I finally begged "Please let me cum. PLEASE!" for a chance to cum. I was asked if I'd like to be allowed to stroke and eager said yes, assuming this meant stroking leading slowly but surely all the way to ejaculation.

Hello everyone! I've been a lurker on this site for over a while but haven't really had the guts to and actually post something until now. This is largely due to the fact that I haven't really been able to define my interest in orgasm denial or D/s. Though I've finally delurked, I realize I still only have more questions and half formed thoughts than anything concrete (or interesting, most likely). It's not that anything has changed it's just that just thinking through things is not getting me anywhere so there's really no reason not to join in the community to the best level that I can.

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Started to T&D on my wife : i told her that every morning i'm gone tease her and bring her 2 or 3 times on the edge without letting her orgasm.
Curious about the effect that will have in about one week.
Any ideas about (not to complicated) teasing methods are welcome off course.
Keep you informed.....

Hi, I'm Kathryn, and I'm creating this blog entry to be sort of an introduction/profile.

I'm 41 years old and used to be very much into denial and teasing, especially in as relates to sub/Dom relationships. I got away from it though, when some things happened in my life, and I wasn't able to really pay attention to my sexual side.

Soon after things calmed down a bit, I just started having sex all the time, not worrying about sub/Dom or controlling my orgasms or serving my male partner, as is really my nature to do.

Then I stopped having sex completely, even with myself. I burned out a bit and am not really sure why, but just completely avoided that part of life and rarely even got aroused. I certainly never teased myself or looked for any stimulation.