*bestiality

I'd like to increase the intervals between ejaculations and make the most of teasing/edging/denial and "get to cum? games" for the times when I do orgasm.

I last ejaculated over a week ago so now seems a great time to start. I decided no touching until I couldn't stand it any longer, which was this evening. Wanted to cum or at least edge some. I decided to allow edging as long as there were no interruptions. Cum not likely but not impossible either. Well..I got to enjoy a glorious 15 minutes or so of edging when something erupted, but probably not what you're thinking. A fierce thunderstorm unexpectedly erupted. I took this a my cue to STOP edging. So I was able to edge without cumming with a little help from Mother Nature. I did NOT cum.

Update: Now I've made it to the end of yet another week without cumming. Been doing a bit more edging lately, and it's getting harder and harder to stop in time without ejaculating. Incredibly horny would be an understatement!

UPDATE:

I haven't cum since Jan 31, 2013 and for several days now I'm desperately horny like hell too and want to cum so badly it's driving me to more intense sexual frustration than I thought possible. All I can think about is an orgasm. 22 days without ejaculating feels like my absolute limit. I had only agreed to 20 days, but then rolled the chastity bingo, which says my next chance to cum isn't for 19 more days! And even then no guarantee. omg I can't wait 1 more day, let alone 19 or more. Please let me cum...I really NEED to cum. I've never been this desperate to cum.

Ever since I was old enough to run, I have accepted control over any that allowed it. I am most comfortable when I am in control and it seems I now generate a feeling of competance to most people.

I have enjoyed both real time key holding, and online tease & denial. I seem to do quite well in both areas.

Will add more when I can.

I last cum over 24 days ago--and that was only once, after not cumming for weeks. So I've waited to build up an enormous amount of pent up sexual energy before posting here. Been furiously horny the past week, and absolutely desperate for an ejaculation since day 19. So on day 19 I finally begged "Please let me cum. PLEASE!" for a chance to cum. I was asked if I'd like to be allowed to stroke and eager said yes, assuming this meant stroking leading slowly but surely all the way to ejaculation.

Hello everyone! I've been a lurker on this site for over a while but haven't really had the guts to and actually post something until now. This is largely due to the fact that I haven't really been able to define my interest in orgasm denial or D/s. Though I've finally delurked, I realize I still only have more questions and half formed thoughts than anything concrete (or interesting, most likely). It's not that anything has changed it's just that just thinking through things is not getting me anywhere so there's really no reason not to join in the community to the best level that I can.

Started to T&D on my wife : i told her that every morning i'm gone tease her and bring her 2 or 3 times on the edge without letting her orgasm.
Curious about the effect that will have in about one week.
Any ideas about (not to complicated) teasing methods are welcome off course.
Keep you informed.....

I know, this is geeky. Who has sexual fantasies about cultural paradigms? I do! Chalk it up to too much National Geographic when I was a kid. This is a very old sexual fantasy of mine. I started masturbating and orgasming as far back as I can remember. This is one of my earliest fantasies...

The setting is some comfortable and ideal wilderness of your choice and herein people live in a very interesting culture. These people are very superstitious and will not even go out of their homes without taking precautions. The most important thing is that a person, when outside of their home or other protected space, must stay sexually aroused so that their spiritual energy will be strong enough to ward off attacks from evil spirits. To begin their day they must masturbate or be masturbated into arousal before beginning there day. Staying sexually aroused is so important, that people help each other stay aroused as much as they can. Instead of handshakes, nipple play, dick stroking or clit manipulation make up a friendly greeting. Of course its necessary for people to do some labor intensive work in which this is difficult, so individuals who will stimulate the workers (and themselves) are highly valued as part of the workforce.

Last weeks T and D session has both Master and I contemplating more such events for me. This is what happened today

After reading all the info on Tantalism.org I was pretty worked up. A lot of these things are a little scary for me because they are new. However I DO know how to edge pretty well so I am thinking this is something I realy want to explore with my Master.

Anyway...... long story short... I am on free orgasms and I was so turned on, I decided to play this morning. It was nice and quiet in my house and no one was around.

I moved to the bedroom and placed the pad on my bed, got out my glass dildo and my magic wand. I needed to orgasm badly.

Hi, I'm Kathryn, and I'm creating this blog entry to be sort of an introduction/profile.

I'm 41 years old and used to be very much into denial and teasing, especially in as relates to sub/Dom relationships. I got away from it though, when some things happened in my life, and I wasn't able to really pay attention to my sexual side.

Soon after things calmed down a bit, I just started having sex all the time, not worrying about sub/Dom or controlling my orgasms or serving my male partner, as is really my nature to do.

Then I stopped having sex completely, even with myself. I burned out a bit and am not really sure why, but just completely avoided that part of life and rarely even got aroused. I certainly never teased myself or looked for any stimulation.