Her reality

Hi, all. My first forum post.

I've seen a number of webteases online, but I haven't found most of them very satisfying because of the need to sit at my computer, time things on the clock and hit 'next.' There's one that's a timed slide show and that's better. But even so, every single one I've seen has only had pictures of women and I'm straight. I don't mind looking at women, but it just doesn't add a lot for me.

LolitaLynn's comment in the blogs about recording a hypnosis script got me thinking how hot it would be to lie in bed with an MP3 on my iPod and listening to someone's voice guide me through a tease, telling me what to do, when to start, when to stop and generally talking dirty in my ear.

Lately it has seemed to me that it takes more than one orgasm to sexually satisfy me, that is before I went into denile, temporary though it may be. So I was thinking this, if I have already worked my sexual energy up very high, and I orgasm but only allow myself one, I wonder how that would work out. I might be able to reach a point where I could cum every day and still be constantly aroused. Everything in moderation?

Now I wonder if I did this is two weeks the perferable time to wait before starting the one a day? Someone said that's how long it takes for the body to gather peak energy. I honestly don't know if I can hold out that long, but I've been thinking of it as a future adaption.

Hello Everyone,

I am experimenting with orgasm denial and I'm quite glad I found this site. I just got my account activated (Thanks Reynard!) I've been reading your posts and got inspired to go without and see what happens.

Let me give some background, I've been masturbating and orgasming as far back as I can remember. My first experience with orgasm denial was when I had a girlfriend who was very strange about sex. We'd have fantastic foreplay with some rubbing against each other and that was as far as she'd go. I stopped masturbating so that I'd be more sensitive and quicker to come. It worked. The longest I went was 6 months. After that it seemed any touch there would get me off. But that was years ago and different from what I'm doing now. When I wasn't with my girlfriend I kept my mind off of sex as much as possible, now I'm masturbating, edging myself and staying very highly aroused.

Hi all, i decided it was time to let you all know what being a slave to Sir NS means to me. i have been denied by Sir NS since late last fall. i had some experience with denial and always had submissive feelings. Since the chance email on this website, my previously orgasm pleasuring life has all changed. His experience in knowing how and what to say is very powerful. i have never been happier knowing that there are real people out there that i can make happy. My fustration began to peak soon after a few days of denial. The vibrators and the edging and other things only increased my fustration.

Coming home late last night from a New Year's party, DH and I were very tired and a tad tipsy, but still wanted to make love as usual before turning in. Bad idea!

We were floundering around, out of sync from the start, moving in uncoordinated ways and having trouble reaching that pre-orgasmic bliss state that usually comes so readily. Several times we had to stop abruptly to avoid an orgasm, and that hasn't happened in many months...

A few minutes in, with little warning I suddenly feel VERY engorged, very tense inside, with a sinking "uh oh, too late!" feeling as I realize what's about to happen, that I've slipped over a threshold I shouldn't have. No sensations of pleasure, then, only of pressure, inevitabilty.

Hello, dear visitors!

My name is Diana, 25 years old, I live in Moscow, Russia. Since I remember myself, I always was a masochist. As my inquiries seems too scary for men, usually I torture myself.
Recently I have found this blog, and have understood that it what did not suffice me. Today, 12/16/2008, it is equal 3 weeks as I have given a word that I shall not have any orgasm anytime, whatever happens.
It is difficult for sustaining, as my libido is on constant fire even without denial. I can not sleep more than 4 hours per day because constantly I wake up because of my now titanic frustration.

Ok, so this is probably only tangentially related to our central theme here but rather interesting nevertheless. Seems to me to cast the fetish of vaginal fisting (which is not and has never been my "thing") in a different light. Craving's recent adventure with the inflatable dildo also comes to mind.

http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2008/12/11/orgasms-during-childbirth/?hp
http://www.orgasmicbirth.com/

Alright here is the question in a nut shell...Why are they necessary?

The human body is an amazing thing it can adapt to nearly any physcial state required. Every human response causes a chemical reaction and response from the human brain, a glan in the brain creates what are called peptides, these are little information cells that are a response to a physcial condition or emotional state, since every physcial condition generates an emotional state, these peptides are program with receptors that look for simular receptors in your blood stream and other glands. So say someone is alway depressed, the brain creates an abundance of peptides that look for a cell with a receptor for depression, lock in and aid in maintaining that state...it becomes in a sense a mindless addiction, everything we do drink, eat, lust, get angry all have the same response, the more you get of one physcial and emotional state the more you need for it to give you that same feeling.

This is some kind of joke right? Anyway, maybe this has something to do with "denial" but I'm not really sure exactly what but if it's a chastity belt it must be relevant here, right?

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/worldnews/article-1082707/Outrage-chastity-belt-lingerie-fitted-GPS-tracking-system.html

Then again, maybe it's just ridiculous.

Hi. I've just got my account authorised and wanted to post a hello. Like Aussie Girl, I just wanted to acknowledge this great and extraordinary community.

8 days ago my wife gave me control of her orgasm. It's a bit like being given a new car. You know how to drive and at first you are happy to just get in and get the feel of it. You take it out onto the highway and are happy just cruising along at a steady 50, taking in the scenery and enjoying the car. But it isn't long before the thought enters your head about bringing the car to a stop.

Right now I'm happy just cruisin' along. In reply to my wife's enquiry about when will she be allowed to cum I meet her with a genuinely unconcerned blank. I don't know and haven't decided. She finds this sincere unconcern deeply frustrating and a real buzz. However I do know that I have no intention of just rewarding her length of days of denial with an orgasm like a long service medal for days of duty served deeply unsatisfactory. It's a bit like, "Oh alright, you've been pretty good, so OK then you can have one..." It's just not for me. It’s too much like weak parents being brow beaten by their kids in the mall.