Experience

A thread of interest

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Interesting, entertaining

And a time to reward

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'Sbeen a long time without opportunity to play. "Get naked and get into bed, we don't have long." Imagine my surprise when I asked her about her obedience to her one real rule and this time she indicated that she had, in fact, awaited my pleasure like she is supposed to. Really I had been anticipating a need to punish but it turned out I would have to reward instead. I asked her, as her pleasure mounted, whose pleasure she was thinking about. "Yours, of course." Wrong answer. "You're lying. What made you think I wanted you to lie to me." Correction followed quickly, as my open hand connected repeatedly with her sex. Panting, she answered my questions about the difference between punishment and correction. This was correction. Later as I spanked her, I asked her again whether she thought it was punishment or correction. "I think it's just for fun." That's right. Still, learning to always keep my pleasure in mind when we are together remains important so the flogger came out to use while she took me in her mouth. Neither pain nor pleasure permits you to forget that your body is for me, not you. When the lashes circle around her ass to flick up into her sex it produces such a yummy response. We experimented to see whether her pain or her pleasure felt better to me. I think I mostly enjoyed the effect of both simultaneously.
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Sensitive, Tingling and Plump

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I decided to try some of that lip-plumper lip gloss that my spa sells the other day. I noticed that it made my lips really tingly and kind of tickly/sensitive. So, twisted girl that I am, I thought I would try it on my nipples.

I used to have a Dom who had me under orders to us one of those stiff tongue-cleaning brushes on my nipples twice per day and apply alcohol to them and let them air dry, and I still do this sometimes when I am dressing up to go out. I enjoy feeling that secret undercurrent of sexuality that I used to love when my Dom would direct me to treat my nipples and edge before going out in the world. Then have some task for me to perform while out.

A fun (and safe) kind of solo breath play

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If you like doing things with breath control, here's a fun easy thing to try.

Masturbate until you are nearing orgasm. By then, your breathing will be very ragged and gulpy. Look at the computer time display at the bottom of your screen. When the last number (minute) flips to the next number, hold your breath. You must cum before you can breathe again.

The tough part is you may have just taken a nice deep breath before you have to hold it, or you may have just exhaled. If it gets to be too much, you can always just breathe, nothing is stopping you.

Enjoy:)

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A simple command

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I find that tons of instructions are a waste of time. I usually only give one instruction. Get your clit as hard as you can for me, without cumming. Then stop.

Simplicity is better sometimes.

Experience in the real life of a lady doctor.

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I have not talked about my gyno clinic for quit a while. I still have lots of interesting women come in to see me and most are college girls from the nearby university. I love asking them about their sexual activities and listening to some very interesting things. Most seem to talk freely to me about their sex life. Most are single with at least one boy friend. Most masturbate and some play the field. Most like to tease the male students in all kinds of interesting ways.

Last week Susanna came in for an appointment to see me. I am her regular gyno doctor and know about her very active sex life. She has had a few boy friends in the last three years and masturbates from one to several times per day. She is very good looking and sexy as can be. But most of all she love to tease and to enjoy sex.

A time to punish

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Things have been very busy with "real life" around here but she still can't be fingering herself to orgasm without my knowledge or blessing. Seems to have been about a week ago. And I was going to pleasure her today, too. Change of plans. So she spent a bunch of time muscles tight like a spring being incredibly slowly stroked and now she sports a tight rubber band on each erect nipple and a generous dose of Tiger Balm down below as regular life resumes. Later a movie with a remote tease, then a fitful sleep and in the am with little people at school the actual punishment: Tweezer clamp on that clitoral pleasure center she abused--now transformed to the source of her pain--and 10 serious strokes of the cane. One for each minute she reports it took her to get herself off. Then I'll take my pleasure as the clamp does its work to make sure my pleasure is equated with her pain. Then I'll go to work.

Just joining after longtime reading:)

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Hi everyone. I've been reading this site for quite some time, and have engaged a great deal in short term solo denial. (I'm a real lightweight compared to some of you folks.) Now I have a Dom who controls my orgasms, and it's been very exciting. I think I've spotted some of you all on Fetlife so I thought I might as well show my face so to speak:)