His reality

I am a newbie to tantalism.org, but am not new to control. The thing is I try to control myself and fail. I started edging again, about 5 days ago. When I restarted, I of course got at the edge 3 times and stopped. As I surf the web some had stated they got to the 10 times. My first try at ten got me a little pre-com. My second try at ten got my chest and stomach covered. I was mad so the next day my cock and balls got anywhere from thumps to swats with a metal ruler. So last night 10-3-07 to 10-04-07 I edged and I got to 15 edges and no cum wanted to pop. So, when I woke early this morning I used velcro straps around my cock and balls. I pulled each tightly. I went for 15 edges again and luckily no cum. I want to simply edge and never cum. I would not plan on trying to milk myself, I would prefer to see if my cock and balls would throb and stay very sensitive to touch. By that I mean everytime I edge all I have to do is look and the cock and pops up hard as a rock.

Apology to Minx and Mistress Andrea.

Introduction describing the situation which lead to this apolgy:

This morning Mistress Andrea was back again as Mistress Andrea. She spent lots of time using her very talented dominant skills to control me.
I was happy for her that she was back in control.

One of the first things she had me do was to remove the CB I was wearing, so she could order me to edge to images she collected from the internet.
She started with having me edge to some very nice images. Thank you for putting up the effort to look those up Mistress Andrea. After 4 edges to some very nice pictures of beatiful women in bondage. She had me edge to 2 less appealing pictures including animals. She was being very kind to me this morning.

...but not sure how to start.

I've been lurking around this site for some time now, and I'd kind of like to try a denial period myself. Nothing too intense or long-term, since I've NEVER done it before... and I don't want to lose my mind in the process, or end up depressed that I couldn't carry it out all the way. Of course, I'm also concerned that, if I make up the rules myself, I'll just find ways to bend them and twist them around, or just ignore them... I don't know if I have enough discipline or self-control to do it on my own, without someone else either making the rules (or at least coaching me along the way - someone I can be accountable to).

i have been thinking about this for quite some time now. Although i am controlling my own denial period now, i find it easy to give in and adjust the denial.

i would be very grateful if one of the mistresses or female switches here would control my orgasms.

i will obey you in the best way i can, if some of you really want to control me.

Please be considerate, the longest i have ever gone without an orgasm has been 3 weeks, which was while i was on vacation with a friend with lot's of distraction during the days, and little privacy at night.

i hope i don't offend any of you with this request, i am aware that tantalism.org is mainly focussed on female denial so i can understand it when you don't want the denial of a male to be requested on this website.

I've been descibed as having a "voluptuous" body, that is well rounded and built for pleasure. Most men call me "Leggy" because I have shapely legs and often wear stilettos with ankel straps. I also enjoy wearing "Slouch Socks" when I'm naked.

I gave my first handjob when I was a teenager while living at home. I had been dating this boy for a few months and things were "progressing" quickly if you know what I mean.

We were both young and inexperienced, but ready to explore. I took my clothes off infront of him and I could see that his cock was really hard. I kneeled down infront of him. unzipped his pants and took his cock into my hands. I had barely started stroking him when he stiffened and came all over me without any warning.

Since I stumbled on this website I thought I should introduce myself and my wife. We have a loving T&D relationship. We have been playing on and off with T&D for a while and from new years eve I have been denied any orgasm. It's done in a playfull way with minimal domination... almost like a cockteaser by my wife. Needless to say I love this play and she enjoys herself a lot. Since we have looked at this website we may have to start her on a denial program too which she thinks would be fun to se who would last the longest. Of course I have a headstart but she feels that with 3 teases a day for herself she would soon be catching up.

This afternoon during my tease session, Mrs Rapid and I ended up going a little too far. I hung on the edge of orgasm for a few seconds after she stopped stimulation, but then a fair of Semen erupted. I did not have a really good orgasm because the stimulation had stopped and I was trying to stop it, but the amount of semen discharged makes it count as an orgasm. A little cuddling and them Mrs Rapid wanted to roll the dice to see what happens next, so I am back in a new Denial Period. Tomorrow will be day one of the new period. By now I think we have both learned the limits so there should be no more accidents, but as I have said this was and is a learning experience.

today is my day 17. i decided to wait till a series of wet dreams occure. tonight i had an erotic dream about inserting anal dildo to female's bottom, which was very interesting. very slow and sensual. now i feel i need to cum badly uuu. i do not masturbate at all, no stroking, no edging... sometimes it is very frustrating.

hi, i am new here. i live in uk, north yorkshire. currently for longer time alone. i am addicted to masturbation badly so i decided to kick habit off. today i am on day 12 without orgasm and any sexual stimulation. i employed 'no hands policy' which is maybe helpful but on the other hand it causes a lot of stress because of fatal lack of sexual pleasure. i first learned of orgasm denial when i was reading dali's biography 'secret life of salvador dali' . he mentioned there he decided to restrict his masturbation for once a week and described the feeling as 'pleasure from denied pleasure'. i was curiouse but had no power to try it.

My body won't behave. I have tried several times in a row now to prevent the orgasm and let the "milk" flow. Well, I've been able to do so many times in the past, and now that I'm required to I can't. I'm always having at least a little bit of an O. Now that O is growing in duration (but not yet satisfaction, still very very horny here). What gives? Why won't my body do the things it did given the same attention in the past. The only things I can think of are 1) I used to take much more time to build up, but that's not an option now and 2) I'm so turned on that She is requiring me to do things this way that I'm cumming from the increased mental arousal.