tantalism.org - female denial

Something to think about

Sun, 21 Mar 2010 10:04:31 -0700

Hmmmm. Problem in even contemplating the chastity belt concept--how to unlock the belt remotely. Solution: KeySafe. Nifty concept.

A thread of interest

Fri, 19 Mar 2010 09:59:05 -0700

Interesting, entertaining

It could end so easily

Tue, 16 Mar 2010 11:59:06 -0700

Why does she want?

Why does she need?

Why does she seek the deviance of denial?

Why suffer like she does?

It could end so easily

One more touch

One more rub

One more stroke

One more buzzing moment

It could end so easily

The waves crashing

The tension relieved

The suffering ceased

The release so sweet

It could end so easily

She seeks not release

She aches for sweet suffering

She lusts after the tension

She finds strength in holding back the waves

It could end so easily

Relishing that penultimate stroke

And a time to reward

Tue, 16 Mar 2010 11:57:00 -0700

'Sbeen a long time without opportunity to play. "Get naked and get into bed, we don't have long." Imagine my surprise when I asked her about her obedience to her one real rule and this time she indicated that she had, in fact, awaited my pleasure like she is supposed to. Really I had been anticipating a need to punish but it turned out I would have to reward instead. I asked her, as her pleasure mounted, whose pleasure she was thinking about. "Yours, of course." Wrong answer. "You're lying. What made you think I wanted you to lie to me." Correction followed quickly, as my open hand connected repeatedly with her sex. Panting, she answered my questions about the difference between punishment and correction. This was correction. Later as I spanked her, I asked her again whether she thought it was punishment or correction. "I think it's just for fun." That's right. Still, learning to always keep my pleasure in mind when we are together remains important so the flogger came out to use while she took me in her mouth. Neither pain nor pleasure permits you to forget that your body is for me, not you. When the lashes circle around her ass to flick up into her sex it produces such a yummy response. We experimented to see whether her pain or her pleasure felt better to me. I think I mostly enjoyed the effect of both simultaneously.

candle wax, O-denial

Tue, 16 Mar 2010 11:46:24 -0700

I don't know if this is a good idea to post this link or not. it's a rapidshare link of a Rar file, which contains 2 .mov files. They are of a Domme and her sub. the first part is candle wax play, the second part is orgasm denial, which is a punishment. The rar file is 102MB in size.

You may not cum tonight, my angel

Mon, 15 Mar 2010 05:14:22 -0700

This is a very hot blog. I've pulled the orgasm denial topic for you. The woman is a masochist and a poet of considerable talent. She's given all her orgasms to her sadistic owner. Her submissive journey is far beyond my own, but I'm sure many of you will be impressed and envious.

Here we go again!!

Thu, 11 Mar 2010 13:13:08 -0800

I haven't posted in several months, but now I'm back and horny as Hell.
Hubby spent six days teasing and denying me when he wasn't making me tease and deny myself.
Now I'm in my third day of no touch and I'm going crazy.
He decided to have me watch a few videos to really peak my interest in getting an O.

For course it was once again denied.

Then he thought of having me read about how others were suffering just as I am.
And decided to have me post so he can have me check back for responses, be they sympathetic or sarcastic.

And as always your comments and/or suggestions are welcome.

Tied Up And Teased

Mon, 08 Mar 2010 12:56:00 -0800

I hope you enjoy,

...is seeking

Wed, 03 Mar 2010 18:42:53 -0800

I am once again seeking one who craves this and is willing to manage her fears, do what is required, and looks forward to a whole new level of existing.

Serious inquiries only, please.

Delayher@gmail.com
(put Tantalism in subject line so it's not deleted as spam)

Switch Revenge Fantasy

Wed, 03 Mar 2010 17:29:04 -0800

I was thinking today, when I should have been working, about switch specific fantasies. I used to belong to Natalie Demoreâ��s Bondage Orgasms, which I think is an awesome site. One of the themes she repeats is a scenario where one girl is domming another girl, only to have the situation reversed and she ends up being the one dommed. Essentially, a switch revenge fantasy.
Of course this reminded of a girl I used to date. Okay, not date per se, but play with. She was very pretty and had amazing breasts â�� just the perfect size, shape and perkiness. Typically, I would bind her hands behind her back and take her over my knee. Iâ��ve spanked a fair number of ladies in my life, but never as hard I would spank her. She loved it. The harder I hit, and the longer I spanked her for the better. Then I would re-bind her to the bed, spread eagle. I usually put clothes pins (pegs) on her nipples. I would tease her a little and edge her, but only a couple of times as I wasnâ��t as into T&D then as I am now. Then I would make her cum, untie her and have her give me oral sex until I came.

Sensitive, Tingling and Plump

Wed, 03 Mar 2010 11:15:42 -0800

I decided to try some of that lip-plumper lip gloss that my spa sells the other day. I noticed that it made my lips really tingly and kind of tickly/sensitive. So, twisted girl that I am, I thought I would try it on my nipples.

I used to have a Dom who had me under orders to us one of those stiff tongue-cleaning brushes on my nipples twice per day and apply alcohol to them and let them air dry, and I still do this sometimes when I am dressing up to go out. I enjoy feeling that secret undercurrent of sexuality that I used to love when my Dom would direct me to treat my nipples and edge before going out in the world. Then have some task for me to perform while out.

hello to all!

Mon, 01 Mar 2010 08:47:54 -0800

hello everyone. i guess it's proper form to say that i've been around this site for a bit, but am just getting around to saying hi. so, hi everyone!

i figured i would start out my blog with a little narrative about myself. i am a switch. personally, i think switches make the best doms/subs, since we understand the psychology of both. i find that i go through cycles of dominance and submissiveness. right now, i'm cycling dominant. extremely dominant.

i've never had a full on bdsm relationship. i've had girls that wanted to be lightly dominated, spanked a bit, and some that have wanted to be occaisionally dominant. i find bdsm, and lately tease and denial, to be the subject of my masterbation though. always.

This Week's Command in weekly_command

Thu, 18 Feb 2010 05:55:13 -0800

As mentioned previously, I run a community, weekly_command on LiveJournal, which gives the female slaves a particular command or task - sometimes an action, sometimes a writing assignment. This week's command is a task, and one which would likely be of interest to readers here, either to complete themselves or as idea fodder for something to use with their subs/slaves:

Find a two-hour period during the week in which you can comply with this command without being interrupted.

Lay naked on your back upon a bed, floor, table, sofa, etc. However, you are to remain on your back for the entirety of the two hours, so choose carefully. There should be a clock nearby - one which you can read in the dark if necessary, as timing is critical.

Here

Mon, 15 Feb 2010 12:43:01 -0800

she suffers, therefore, she exists...

I am the beginning and the end of her suffering...I am the cause of her suffering, therefore, the cause of her existence.

I am the recipient of her suffering - it feeds Me - her need nourishes Me - enthralls Me...

she is that I may be...Me

A simple command

Fri, 12 Feb 2010 22:20:30 -0800

I find that tons of instructions are a waste of time. I usually only give one instruction. Get your clit as hard as you can for me, without cumming. Then stop.

Simplicity is better sometimes.