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In lieu of paraphrasing what these fantasies have said, let me instead quote my highlighted favorites from the two which are written as "advice" for others. (The final two are written as experiences of scenes the couple enjoyed.) The quoted bits are emphasized, and the regular text is my commentary, where I have something to say.
From "Lifelong female keyholder offers advice":
I heartily recommend the Lori chastity tube, it is far and away the best and most inescapable device available today. Nothing around the waist to hamper movement, or require constant attention. With a Prince Albert Piercing, the male certainly cannot "pull out" of the tube. The new locking device seems as perfect as I have ever seen, and any male locked in this device will remain so until unlocked with the key.
It's not a Lori's chastity tube that I'm set on, but--as all chastity fetishists are--simply a perfectly effective device, mercilessly enforcing the denial of stimulation and orgasm.
Find out what turns him on and drive him crazy with it...If dinner is to my satisfaction, he will be securely bound (I love tape mummification over shrink wrap, or a spread eagle on the bed, or anything in between) with just his penis sticking out. I will get comfortable and tease his penis for several hours. He is so strung out by now that I never fully grip it, just lightly touch it, and kiss it and tickle it with my nails. If it gets too big, I ice it down, and begin all over again. He is never allowed to cum, and I love to hear him beg and cry, which he does with each teasing. See, I get aroused to no end by knowing he is so frustrated sexually. I just have no desire to end this feeling, each day that passes brings new reasons why he should orgasm, more delicious begging, tears, real honest to goodness tears of frustration, and best of all, a stream of pre cum that never ends. He is like a male stallion dripping and dripping!
I have begged for orgasms before, but I've never cried. I don't know how much it would really take for me to get to that point, but I want to know. As I've recently been discussing in comments on this site, I think that one of the keys (no pun intended) to that goal is successfully managing the difficult task of figuring out how to "go with the tide" of my arousal as it ebbs and flows, peaks and troughs. The idea is that too little teasing is simply uninteresting, but way too much teasing is not realistically feasible while maintaining real-life responsibilities like work. Finding a middle ground with an appropriately heavy level of teasing (the more creative the better, as it's the mind that's the ultimate cornerstone) is a challenge that a dominant partner is constantly tackling. (And I thank you for that! I love you!
) As a side note, that's also a challenge I'd love to undertake myself...the thought of having a lovely submissive begging me certainly gets me hot, too.In return, I have the best sex life a woman could want. I make him use strap ons sometimes, but more fun is a special gag I found on the internet. Penis on the inside, nice and wide, and penis on the outside, just for me. I enjoy the rides immensely, while he struggles under me just for air! Oral sex whenever I want, back rubs, foot rubs, and best of all, I do not even keep the keys at home. I used to keep the keys at the neighborhood bank in a safe box, and I have since moved 30 miles away from the bank, and the keys remain there. So on weekends I could not unlock him even if I wanted, and ladies, don't think for a minute that you won't give in at a weak moment. I would have let him out on more than one occasion if I had the key available. But after the heat of the moment, and despite the best tears he can muster, the key has never been removed from the bank for purposes of sex. I have removed it for periodic cleanings and occasional planned torture tease sessions (as I call them).
Making the keys inaccessible (though hopefully still with an emergency release of some sort) seems not unlike Rapid's idea for solo denial that lucy_w wrote about: at the point when one decides one absolutely needs to cum, one must wait another 24 hours before granting that orgasm. That allows the heat of the moment to pass and allows the reflection of rational thought. Seems this can work both ways, for solo denial and otherwise. I want to keep that in mind should I ever find myself in the dominate position.
Also, I like the idea of a torture tease session. It implies that the tease is itself something that is being done for the pleasure of the torturer. The torturer takes her time, lengthening and drawing out the session to maximize the opportunity for the sexual sadism. Obviously, this sounds like something I'd like for my own horny purposes, but my strongest turn-on is pleasuring my partner, and this hits that right on the head.
Torture tease sessions are held at times that are convenient for me and my whims. I use bondage always, and never ever let him cum. He always starts out thinking this is the time, and ends up with him babbling crying begging and pleading. I get so hot from this I sometimes use his face for hours afterwards. ... Gag him until you want to hear the wonderful begging, then remove the gag. Ever use a rubber hood? They go crazy in there all day. Just keep teasing away. And do not feel guilty.
Punishment. Ever spank a man till he cries? It's time you did, because he will then be afraid of something that you can do to him. I always save up infractions, then tell him when the punishment will be. He is so good after that! He just gushes with obedience. Never go back on your word, at the promised time, get out the paddles and restraints ... Only sissify the guys who hate it. Use pantyhose as a reward for real sissies, not as punishment.
Punishment isn't always so black and white, because a large part of certain (rather enjoyable) fantasies is the fantasy of discipline. I suppose this would be a good topic to write more about one day as well, but for now, punishment can briefly be described as being in two groups. Punishment is either an extension of play, in which case it is arousing and enjoyable, or it is a disciplinary action that begins to cross the boundary between the play and real life. That, in itself, can be used as a tool for "enhancing" the play, but it can be a slippery slope.
Again, he asked for all this when he gave you the keys to his penis. Don't disappoint him! Your relationship is going to heights you never imagined. Enjoy it.
^_^;; True...be careful what you wish for? ^_^;;
Does he need to cum? Once a year is more than enough. Once every 2 years is better. Never is best! He will leak, his prostate will release enough semen when it needs to. Don't let him use that to get you to let him cum.
I'm still not sold on the medical accuracy of this. But it is a sexy fantasy. However, I am fairly certain of the medical accuracy of using milking techniques to negate the need for pleasurable ejaculation. Some terminology helps here. In my head, I've often used the terms "cum" to refer to the physical act of ejaculating and the term "orgasm" to refer to the pleasurable sensations that are typically associated with cumming. The question then becomes, is two years without orgasm something I can really take? Back to harmonizing with the tide of arousal...
By keeping him chaste, he will always be waiting for the next tease, the next chance at a cum. Let him think it is just around the corner. He's so close, but when you see his boner waving wildly in the air, fucking the air like it was the worlds best pussy, remember these words, "not time yet honey. But soon it will be, just keep trying and you will get there, I promise!"
...while maintaining arousal and desire through the anticipation of release.
All in all, an intense fantasy...for now.
Second, from They Always Lose, referring to experiences a female dominant wrote about milking submissive men:
I get a kick out of it when guys try to resist. Because they always lose. The male organ, raging and hard as it may seem, is weak. Every cock has a weakness, and if you try hard enough, and long enough, never giving up, you can find it and break it. I have a perfect record when it comes to breaking cocks and forcing them to give up their thick, ropy prize.
My hubby has a foot fetish. I found this out when first I caught him staring at mine, and I knew then I would use it against him to control him. It's been three years, and he's learned that male orgasm is a privilege he'll rarely get to experience again. Ejaculation makes a man cocky, so to speak, and while I enjoy seeing a man lose his load, I don't like the macho hangover afterwards. So I milk my men. I get to watch them give up their cum, without giving them the unnecessary pleasure of orgasm.
I don't think I've ever gotten cocky after an orgasm...but that's kind of off topic anyway.
The procedure I use is the same, although the stimulus varies depending on the man's weakness. Like I said, my hubby loses it over my feet. Any woman's feet, if they're attractive enough, I guess, but I've limited him to mine for a while now and find the results... adequate. Hubby is locked in a CB3000 most of the time, although I have ceded control of him to Goddess Kali and her stingy teeth when he's misbehaved seriously.
Use of the Kali's Teeth Bracelet (KTB) is another fantasy I've entertained, though almost entirely in the context of a punishment or torture by an extreme sexual sadist. There's also been a recent thread on Milovana.com about this. (Not surprisingly, I'm known as maymay there, too.)
And watching a cock lose gets me hot. Sexually, I live to see cocks struggle against futility.
Again, the crux of my fantasies center around the fact that the dominant is pleasured by all this.
So, the procedure. Hubby, or my slave of choice- whoever I feel like breaking down- is restrained. Tight. Hands above his head, straps across his chest. I use a tilted board, almost like an ironing board at an angle, with the victim strapped to the top. I make sure there's no way he can even hope to get anything untied. I want no part of him able to move, especially his head, since I want him to see everything that's going to happen. After I've made sure he's nice and secure, with his legs slightly apart, I get down to business.
And adding bondage doesn't hurt, either. The more immobile the better. ^_^;
I tell him if he manages to escape he can have me any way he wants. I've never given it a second thought.
Another tease.
No man wants to see his orgasm dribble away, and he'll fight to keep it in him. It's my job to see to it that the inevitable happens- that his milk flows out and he's drained dry to the last drop. Doing this makes sure he knows his place, and he stays horny even though there's nothing he can do about it. After a man has been deprived of a good ejaculation for a few months, he'll settle in and accept it. The milk flows easier, in glistening strands. If he wasn't securely fastened, I'd swear he'd grind against the vibe in his ass.
Oh yes, the vibrator. It does all the work, really. I position my charge so he can see our computer's monitor. ...
In a darkened room with rhythmic pulsing music and an insistent vibe up hubby's ass, he stares at [arousing] pictures ... as they flash by on the screen. Quickly he's aroused, and his cock has filled out the plastic tube that holds it close to him. Two weeks of endless teasing and oral servitude have swollen his balls with a bucket of jism, and they're dying to shoot it across my soles. Or down my throat, or up my ass. Whatever he'd like to do with it, it doesn't matter. His load is mine, and I'm doing what I want to do with it.
The pictures vary. If a guy's into asses, I'll give him what he wants. Some men can't cum until they see some other guy blow his load. Sure, whatever. I've got a decent library of porn. Not for their pleasure, so much as to weaken them. After a while of looking at the erotic imagery, the steady force of the vibe will start to work its magic. This is where the fun is for me, fingering myself as my man struggles to keep his load in- to not lose it in such a humiliating manner for so little reward. I know what he's thinking- if he can just outlast the machine, he can keep his cum and fuck me with it. But there's no use. The vibrations grow more urgent, more forceful. The slideshow turns him on more and more, and he can't hold it back much longer. He's been through it a hundred times, and knows how it will end- with his juices dripping into my bowl, the contents then poured across my toes, and him licking every drop up and back into him. His wasted orgasms are recyclable! They're distilled back through his mouth and down to his cock again, purer and purer, each time through leaving him hornier and hornier, but unfulfilled.
The dripping begins. First a moist drop at the tip, then a dribble, then a steady flow. After an hour or so, I've gotten almost everything. It's time for a little extra coaxing- in hubby's case, I usually turn off the monitor, tilt the table almost upright, and place my soles firmly against his face. As he breathes in my aroma, the last of his will crumbles. He relaxes, under my spell, and the flow picks up again. Each inhalation courses through his body, exiting through his cock with a couple more drops. The milking is complete. Another hard cock bites the dust and slowly shrinks back within the chastity device.
Sometimes I let the man wank afterwards. It's not like he's going to get anything out of it.
It may be more difficult, but I can see myself getting something out of it....
For variety, I'll invite a girlfriend over to watch in secret, or to help tease him during the procedure. You haven't seen a red-faced man until you've seen him strapped down, with a flaccid, embarrassed cock, dripping semen at the sight of young woman in the apartment down the hall as she gyrates in front of him topless. She's going to tell her friends all about his little caged cock and how he doesn't get to fuck like a man.
Most of my friends know of the power exchange dynamic with my girlfriend, and I'll admit that when they remark about it, I do get aroused. That's not really something I've thought too much about yet, but I know well enough that the thought of additional people knowing, and taking part in, my frustration is very arousing, too.
So those are the parts I feel as though I almost wrote myself, but I didn't.
Finally, here're the other of my favorites, real-life accounts that incorporates all of the above and even some more: long term (2-year) denial, torture teasings both physical and verbal, cuckolding (which is an extension of the turn-on from having other, additional people enjoying me being teased), milking, enforced chastity devices and more. Appropriately, the first is titled "Teased to Agony". The second is "Richards Birthday Surprise", both written by the dominant wife of this married couple.
While not my favorites, the precursors are three shorter pieces that were written by both the wife and the submissive husband, and are here: "A tale of Chastity - 1", 2 and 3.
Addendum: For reference, I found another submission by this couple, which is another short one like the last three: Richard Gets Denied - AGAIN.