Just joining after longtime reading:)

Hope he's making you climb the walls.

I'm also a lightweight. I was worried people wouldn't like me here because of that, but that's not true at all. Everyone is welcome

My Mistress and I only do short-term denial games, so I guess that makes me a lightweight too! But people here seem pretty understanding that everyone can only do what works best for them (and their dom).

I think it's not just understanding, it's an appreciation that "hotness" is not merely a factor of extreme feats of intensity. Even a brief self contained scene of power exchange, begging, panting, squirming and just all out uncontrollable arousal with "release" granted at the end (or perhaps better yet in the middle) is no less, and frequently more even, than some of the longer term denial olympics that others might engage in. I think what you're doing is cool and certainly welcome here whether it's a matter of an hour or half a year or beyond. It's like the old saying--length doesen't matter.

Mongojerry_2 is spot on. I have yet to deny someone for more than three days, but whether it is simply 15 minutes or 3 days, it is still quite fulfilling for me and still sweetly frustrating for the woman denying herself for me. A large part of it is simply the general connection between the participants - I could certainly deny someone I'd just met, but without the chemistry and the personal history, there is no point (at least, not for me). Certainly I would love to deny someone for much longer periods of time (several months?), but that is a long-term goal.