Just joining after longtime reading:)

female denial | experience | hetero female | sub female
Hi everyone. I've been reading this site for quite some time, and have engaged a great deal in short term solo denial. (I'm a real lightweight compared to some of you folks.) Now I have a Dom who controls my orgasms, and it's been very exciting. I think I've spotted some of you all on Fetlife so I thought I might as well show my face so to speak:)

Hi. . .

Hope he's making you climb the walls.

I'm also a lightweight. I was

I'm also a lightweight. I was worried people wouldn't like me here because of that, but that's not true at all. Everyone is welcome Smiling
collie's avatar

You're not alone

My Mistress and I only do short-term denial games, so I guess that makes me a lightweight too! But people here seem pretty understanding that everyone can only do what works best for them (and their dom).

More than that

I think it's not just understanding, it's an appreciation that "hotness" is not merely a factor of extreme feats of intensity. Even a brief self contained scene of power exchange, begging, panting, squirming and just all out uncontrollable arousal with "release" granted at the end (or perhaps better yet in the middle) is no less, and frequently more even, than some of the longer term denial olympics that others might engage in. I think what you're doing is cool and certainly welcome here whether it's a matter of an hour or half a year or beyond. It's like the old saying--length doesen't matter. Smiling
WFEATHER's avatar

Mongojerry_2 is spot on. I h

Mongojerry_2 is spot on. I have yet to deny someone for more than three days, but whether it is simply 15 minutes or 3 days, it is still quite fulfilling for me and still sweetly frustrating for the woman denying herself for me. A large part of it is simply the general connection between the participants - I could certainly deny someone I'd just met, but without the chemistry and the personal history, there is no point (at least, not for me). Certainly I would love to deny someone for much longer periods of time (several months?), but that is a long-term goal.

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