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Alright here is the question in a nut shell...Why are they necessary?
The human body is an amazing thing it can adapt to nearly any physcial state required. Every human response causes a chemical reaction and response from the human brain, a glan in the brain creates what are called peptides, these are little information cells that are a response to a physcial condition or emotional state, since every physcial condition generates an emotional state, these peptides are program with receptors that look for simular receptors in your blood stream and other glands. So say someone is alway depressed, the brain creates an abundance of peptides that look for a cell with a receptor for depression, lock in and aid in maintaining that state...it becomes in a sense a mindless addiction, everything we do drink, eat, lust, get angry all have the same response, the more you get of one physcial and emotional state the more you need for it to give you that same feeling.
So while teasing, edging and what have you in the begining of the denial creates the proper response, and the responses depend greatly on the individual as well, soon what happens is they crave more and more of the teasing, the climax they are denied becomes secondary. The begin to replace the orgasm and its release of endorphines and the like upon climax with the endorphine and peptides associated with edging and near orgasms.
Denial isn't about the conditioning of anothers body, anyone can do that over time, even someone to themselves to get the proper chemical reaction they are addicted to. The human body can manage any physical state from intense pleasure to intense pain, it has a chemical reaction to assist in all those states, denial is about crisis.
It's the crisis of the event that is the power behind the event. Take any woman that has had orgasms on a regular basis, and one night take them away from her, that first night is the HEIGHT of the crisis, thats when we all ask, "Can you handle this?" has nothing to do with your body, everything to do with the mental crisis as the new emotional event cascades into her brain. Therefore, you have to keep fresh in there mind the greatness of the loss of the orgasm. If you condition her to simply accept denial she and her body will slowly over time replace the orgasmic needs with the denial needs, you have to prevent that. The only way is to allow her to cum, and it cant be a lousy orgasm either, you have to tease her to the point where she normally is in denial and then thrust her over the edge in a mindblowing orgasm, my suggestion is a night of orgasm after orgasm till she literally can not think of having another, but never pushing her pass the association of the orgasm as bad. The orgasm MUST remain the Ultimate goal...to have the crisis reamain. And no ruined orgasms dont count as orgasm, they are another tool useful in dramatically reminding her of the sublime release she has given up.
Your Pet, Lover, Slave whatever you call her, needs to orgasm minimum four times a year MINIMUM, I suggest once every two months if you make her ruin one a month. Remember, the Orgasm needs to be the center of the crave and need, if the denial becomes the center of the need...you have to restart with letting her orgasm several times in a week to get back into the need of it, then start over.
It's the Crisis....not the physcial conditioning that is the key. And again you can't purposely make it a lousy orgasm, or it means nothing to lose it.
The human body can adapt to any physcial stimulation, it's the crisis that is key.
Ok I will stop ranting hehe have a wonderfully denied time ladies!
May your orgasms be few..and glorious...so we can taunt you with them later...*evil grin*
