Just driving along at 50 .... thinking about trying the brakes!

I love your thought process here, Ab. (And welcome, BTW). I love the idea of permitting an orgasm, but with conditions that, if it occurs, awful consequences attach. And then, of course, forcing the poor dear over the edge.

Consider a scenerio along the lines of "You my cum, but only after a full hour has passed. If you cum before that time [fill in the blank]". Then, restrain your sub and mercilessly stimulate her. I know my pet, Cassie, revels in such.



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Talon, thanks for your comment and greeting. Apologies for not responding sooner. I had to test my theory about 'braking technique'. (I hope this metaphor is not becoming too opaque!)

As you know my sub has just been introduced to denial and is a natural! After her first 14 days without orgasm she was already feeling intense frustration. All the while, as you know, I had been considering carefully the issue of how best to allow her release in accordance with my view that the release must be painful. I have to confess I just couldn't resist it and I achieved a perfect test result on day 15. I feel entirely vindicated. Here's what I did.

Sub was extremely aroused - or rather her state of arousal was by now continuous. I had not given her any hint at all that she was to be given any release. At bed time - she has to sleep pretty much naked always now - I made her edge and hold the edge for as long as she could safely manage. I can't recall how long she managed to maintain it but no matter - you could see the effort etched in her face and hear it in her controlled breathing. It is having to breathe and pant with her mouth open to stay in control that is such a giveaway.

I then explained to her that I was going to push her as hard as she could manage to test her limits. I made it clear that she was not to cum, but I did not indicate any sanction. (I have previously hinted that such a sanction would almost certainly be a ruined orgasm, but I have not ever had to make this threat explicitly.)

I can manage her teasing very effectively by asking her constantly for her 'number': She can quantify her state of arousal for me instantly and very discreetly at any point in the day in public or private using the range 1 -10; where 9 is the edge; 10 being orgasm. She was consistently at 6 - 7 or above at all times of the day throughout these first 14 days.

She was by this point at 9 and struggling. I then prepared her anal plug and made her kneel on the bed with her arse very high so that the cheek of her turned head was flat on the bed. I inserted the plug with as much longeur as I could manage. She likes anal play very much and this would have brought her very close indeed to her tipping point.

I then instructed her to lie on her back on a long stool at the foot of the bed and proceeded to tie her wrists and ankles low down on the legs of the stool, so that her arms and legs were pointing down and apart. Because her neck was tipped back at one end of the stool, her bare and completely bald cunt was now the highest point of her arched body. The width of the stool forcing her legs sufficiently apart to leave her completely open and exposed.

I then fingered her to feel her wetness - which was considerable and then told her that I was going to spank her cunt. Something she has always found extremely exciting, but has never experienced in this context [of denial] before. I then proceeded firmly to spank her open cunt and mound building up a firm but mounting rhythm for a good 10 seconds until I spoke to her again, at which point I told her she could cum if she wanted to. Her moan in response was truly exquisite and I continued to spank her to an orgasm; which she told after me was the most intense of her life! Her words not mine.

What is significant is that although she described the spanking as painful, and ordinarily pain is a real turn off for her, she was still able to cum, as I had hoped. I suspect that the intensity of the orgasm was the sheer eroticism of how it had been forced. She did say that although it was the most intense she'd ever had, she still felt the ache of frustration. In other words the full release was not there. I did not allow her any more that night.

However, two nights later - again unknown to her - I announced when she was edging / at 9, again wearing her plug, she could never again beg me for release. That from now on she must suffer entirely without being allowed to express or articulate her need to experience release. She readily agreed and has not done so since.

I then gave her a choice, explaining that as she had still felt frustrated after her orgasm of two nights ago I would allow her as many orgasms as she could manage until I woke up the following morning, provided she accepted a minimum 28 day denial. I made clear that it was entirely her choice.

It was interesting to see how she weighed this dilemma which obviously was not perfectly circular! The desperate prospect of the 28 denial only increased her arousal and so her need to come. I was extremely confident that she would choose orgasm, and indeed she did. However, imagine my delight when she begged me to spank her to orgasm again, even though she was unbound, her legs and arms untied. Happy to oblige I spanked her to a very big orgasm that went on much longer than she is used to. The orgasms continued - obtained through full sex, me performing oral on her and her masturbating - more or less unbroken, merging into one another. Sub explained the following morning that she thought there had been 8 distinct climaxes but she could not be sure. She described it as the most intense sexual experience of her life.

She is currently on day 3 of 28 days and although she cannot discuss it I can feel the tension in her rising. She is already never below a 5 after only 3 days. I look forward with real anticipation to discovering her minimum number after her first 28 days of continuous arousal, when she knows I can now achieve orgasms the like of which she had never imagined.

Three plots on a graph confirms a trend and I will be sure to let you know how we progress some time after 26th October... I hope that the spanking required will be intense and commensurate with the 28 day period. It creates all sorts of possibilities don’t you think?

I am stunned and nearly speechless. Abnegator (are you from U of F? ha), that is an incredible post. Serious effect!

I hope you will post more. Your thought process is.... scary! and profoundly arousing.

gnd

Hello GND. I'm flattered by your comments. Forgive me but I do not understand "U of F"? Please explain this to me.

Don't worry, I will be sure to post more in due course. Today is day 18 only of the minimum 28! Sub's average daytime number is now at 7. Which, needless to say, I'm very pleased with. She has overreached herself on just one occasion which produced a profoundly horrible failed orgasm which left Sub feeling very wretched, producing tears of total agony and frustration.

Inevitably its been necessary to impose some additional conditions which I've explained to Sub have also to be complied with before any release can be considered. I have repeatedly stressed to her that 28 days was a MINIMUM and there is no guarantee of release on day 29. She accepts this of course.

One of these conditions is total depilation of her cunt allowing for a narrow graze of hair high above her slit which I can remove at will with a couple of deft strokes of a razor. As depilation is to be achieved by a salon laser hair removal system at home, 29 days might be optimistic to say the least. I do not consider this unreasonable as it has been a long standing goal and she is actually grateful to have been given a powerful incentive finally to achieve it.

You would not believe the effect denial has on her. Remember that she is a relative novice. Her perpetual arousal is extraordinary and all she can thing about is sex. I love this indirect (one-track) mind control! Her constant preocupation with sex has become male; not female! She now thinks of sex just like a man: It's permanently on her mind and she wants it all the time. It is a caricature inversion of the sexual male / female stereotype.

It was not my intention to turn what started as a genuine forum discussion topic into a personal blog, which is what it is in danger of becoming. I see that someone else - whose use of language is clearly more precise than mine - has started a similar forum topic called 'T&D, then spanking the vagina' which seems very similar only is a great deal more accurate as a description.

Any suggestions on more accurate posting gratefully received.

Thank you again for your kind comments. I'm glad someone has enjoyed this little backwater that seems to pass others by.

U of F is University of Florida, due to the gator in your name. By the way I intensely enjoyed your posts. I don't believe I have ever been quite so intrigued by any other writing before.

glad you found it arousing i agree w/ Abnegator its always good to push your lady to her limits and i have noticed limits grow just like muscles....funny how that works out
JJ