Ruined orgasms as a coping mechanism?

Reynard,

As a doctor, it seems to me that the way the human body functions, a healthy normal person is going to crave sexual release. Male or Female both do. So, I think that if someone is in a tease and denial situation, he or she will at sometime crave an orgasm so much that it will happen in some way. So, if the choice is to stay in denial, then the orgasm can be ruined or in case of men they might have a wet dream, which they can not control.

I don't know if you want to consider it cheating or not, but I think there is a good chance it can and will happen to some people at times.

Reynard Im wondering if you have experienced ruined orgasms and if so how it made you feel psycholocialy. I am curious.
Always.
craving

I cannot speak for anyone else, however the ladies I know that have experienced ruined orgasms say it is very difficult to deal with. They liken it to over extreme teasing but no release. I think they realize their body went through the motions of orgasm, however they were denied the pleasure and release that normally would accompany that release. For most women, having them restrained in some manor that prevents them from applying any pressure or touch the the vulva, the legs being open, taken to the point when orgasm starts, then just as she begins to cum, removing all contact, leaving her in a helpless state as she struggles to deal with the denial, leaves them with an overwhelming feeling of having their orgasm stolen from them, and in a unbelievably desperate state, adding a numbing agent keeps them from achieving that orgasm in the short term.

Unlike just edging or getting very close then holding off, you are left with an achy empty feeling, left to struggle with yourself, knowing your body just had all the contractions and reaction that should have given you much pleasure, however your left knowing you just missed that wonderful feeling. It is something to see, the look and reaction to this extreme form of denial, the pitiful looks, just the overall reaction.

This happened to me once and that is very much the way it felt. I wanted to scream. I hope I don't have to endure any of them.

Reynard,
It is a very different thing the ruined orgasm of a man and woman. I see many women talk about ruined orgasms and it isn't a big thing at all. For a man it is, he is unable to get hard or ejucalte again, but a woman can do hundreds in a row.
I know this as I have done it to many women.

Men should be allowed milkings to keep the prostate happy, ruining his orgasm doesn't need to be done for a milking, though can ease some frustration, which in my books for a male is not the point.

Ruined seems to be hyped alot, and yes it is much harder for the woman, but not that much harder.

I am a hard task Master, I really am and expect anyone who serves me to be kept at the peak levels of frustration at all times. So ruined orgasms are regular and enforced.

Women want to have a ruined to make their frustrations more extreme. I have found that women tend to be much more masochistic than men, so if they are going to suffer then why not make it as bad as possible
As for their ruined, I adore them

CMUK

I have a few times, craving. Psychologically, I guess I felt a bit "let down", but physically it leaves me feeling really congested and tender (sore feeling). That's what I notice more, anyway.

What fluid does come out is very runny/watery. And I think it's possible for men to have what's called a retrograde ejaculation, where the bulk of the semen ends up getting redirected into the bladder.

That's kind of how it feels, anyway. Quite unpleasant.