Female Orgasm Denial Film - Please help make it happen

her reality
With Reynard's kind permission, I want to post an announcement of sorts about a film with a female orgasm denial theme that I want to make.

The initial concept is this: a film that follows a woman over the course of a week where she is repeatedly stimulated then denied. It would be shot "reality" style... in other words it would not be "acted", as the model would be genuinely brought to the brink of orgasm over and over again. I would hope that by the end of the week, the poor woman would be quite desperate for an orgasm and that her frustration would yield some delicious footage that make the whole effort worthwhile.

I have thought about little else over the last 48 hours, and have a ton of ideas about the project. However, all that thinking is wasted effort without one critical thing: I need to find a woman who is willing to participate in the film. That's where I'm hoping the members of this forum can help out. Does anyone know of a woman who might be interested in the role?

In anticipation of questions that a prospective participant would have, here are the answers:

1) yes, the woman would be paid for her participation. A flat fee is my preference, but for the right woman I'd be willing to offer her a percentage of the profits from the movie in lieu of an up front fee. In either case, all travel, accommodation and other expense would be fully paid for.

2) I am am experienced, professional filmmaker, and while the movies I shoot are adult in nature, every participant is treated with the utmost respect and care. I will happily provide references from any of the models I have worked with in the past who can vouch for me. If the woman wishes to bring an escort along with her to ensure her safety, that is perfectly fine with me.

3) This is meant to be a tease & denial movie, so the model will not be asked to participate in humiliation scenes, punishment sessions, etc. If those things are turn-ons for the model, I'm willing to discuss how we might include those in the week of filming, but there will be precisely zero pressure to do anything other than offer up herself for a week of intense orgasm denial.

4) The woman must be comfortable showing her face on camera. Wearing a mask or a hood would prevent everyone from seeing arousal and frustration expressed on her face. Smiling

5) the person (or people) doing the "stimulation" is negotiable. We can make it work in almost any conceivable way, from having relative "strangers" (pre-screened and done in a controlled environment, of course) edging the model, all the way to having the edging done by the model's spouse/lover/Master/Mistress. A model who is flexible in this area would be the best case scenario, but I completely understand why that might not be the case.

I could write for hours here and share all my ideas, but I think at this point the best thing to do is focus on finding a woman who would enjoy challenging herself in this way. If you know someone who might be interested, please post here with a way to get in touch with you and I will be contact you right away.

Please also feel free to add your thoughts, comments and questions about the project here. I will be very interested in hearing what this forum's members want to see in a film like this.

Cheers,

Indy
Wood's avatar

bravo

but personally, I'll be making the film myself if I find someone willing Smiling

Some suggestions

If you look around at the scenarios at thebondagechannel.com you'll see he frequently has his models "ride the orgasm bar." What he's done is to rig a Hitachi Magic Wand to a bar that the model has to straddle. The only way she can get herself off the vibrator is to stand on tiptoes which she can only do for so long. The higher the bar is raised, the less possible it is for her to escape the vibrator, assuming she wants to which even is she doesen't initially she does eventually. I would suggest modifying the set up just a bit: First I would remove the possibility for her to get off the vibrator (for example by positioning it too high) and add a variable speed controller which is now available for the wand for about $40 (I posted about it earlier). Then manipulate the controls to keep her just this side of cumming.

I agree with asking her not to act. I would not use her compensation as a part of the scene. I would require her to ask for/beg for permission, or require her instead to offer a warning--"If you don't stop I will cum," "would you like me to cum?" or "Please don't make me cum." Mostly, though, I think the basic "Please can I cum" would work quite well. I think one ideal would be >1 day of shooting where in the first go round she does not get to cum but subsequently does but of course this requires one to trust that she did not cheat overnight. To avoid this it could be that she cums at the end of the shoot and it's all done in one day. You could send her away horny as well.

I don't think it's realistic to control when she has cum prior to her shoot but certainly she could be interviewed in advance of it--"When did you last cum? What were the circumstances?" etc.

Personally I would hope there was other BDSM elements included as well.

By the way, for a sample of the kind of video you're considering, look for the video Chains from Thundershouse.com. It's a little harder to find now that the site has been censored due to PayPal issues but you should be able to track it down either through the site or perhaps through Google. In that video one watches a still camera filming the reactions of a sub chained kneeling with her ankles up to cause her to tilt forward on a Sybian--she really cannot back her clit off the toy--and the controls are manipulated to keep her unable to cum--nice. The only thing missing was her actual verbal pleading. Other than that it was the very video you're picturing.

Where would the shoot take place?

Hi,
Just wondering where the movie would be filmed (which country?)?

aussie girl

Bump

So who remembers this brief thread from 2 years ago? This is the guy who is now finally experimenting with female teasing on his site teasing-video.com, where the sapphic teasing set was produced (http://tantalism.org/node/view/2208). Seems if he'd gotten more of a response from us then it might have been made sooner. Smiling

Personally I would love to see a site dedicated to the topic. Needless to say what any potential producer would want to know is whether there would be a viable audience. So I'm thinking I'll set up a poll here. Last time he posted it here as a trial balloon we were mostly silent but then when he made it anyway it seems to have done pretty well so I suppose if it gets little response that won't necessarily be very predictive and the risk is a quiet response here might be disuasive but I hope that won't happen since I'd love to see such a site.
ObsidianSin's avatar

Movie

I'd be interested in playing a role in the movie. I can send pics if you'd like. As for the mask part-- what about a masquerade mask? The emotions are visible, though enough of the person's identity is hidden that it wouldn't be a Huge issue. More comforting for the person being taped in case family, co-workers, etc were to stumble across the footage. Just a random thought. Love the idea, though. Smiling
neverthat's avatar

bump

well lets get this started.

seems like every one wants this to happen so bad

Commercial site

The original author of this post runs the commercial site teasing-video.com.
Hektors Spear's avatar

I don't think he will be too

I don't think he will be too enthusiastic about making new female teasing videos if he sees that people here are posting them to free upload sites.

http://tantalism.org/node/view/2312
tsuki's avatar

Where?

I'd really like to do something like this, though I've only got amateur experience, and nothing to do with T&D. Out of curiosity, where are you planning to film this? x

an interesting concept

i will think about doing such a long term orgasm denial video. i am working on doing hour to two hour long tease and denial sesisons on the site, to do a wekk would be a most interesting study...

to mongojerry, i do have one of those controller boxes. the reason i do not use it on the orgasm bar is that on high speed the rpms are not the max that the hitachi puts out. i do use it for private play and will consider using it more for the site

david mack
www.thebondagechannel.com

The hottest thing for me woul

The hottest thing for me would be a movie or documentary following one girl as she teases and denies herself, then goes out about her business, comes home after work and denies herself some more, etc. As soon as a guy enters the picture, I start to lose interest. I'm not at all into watching a guy deny the girl. I like self-denial.

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