Hi, new girl here!

Hi! My name is Sheri and I've been interested in teasing and denial for a long time. This, however, is my first time on Tantalism (great site!)so please be gentle(ish) with me! I love to tease myself, but it would be interesting to give control to an online master or mistress! I'm married, but my husband has no idea. Men eh?!?! lol!
Well, I'll stop babbling now.
Take care
Sheri.

Welcome

Welcome Sheri! I'm in a committed relationship as well, but she's not really into this at all.

So I write here for fun, because it's an intense turn-on for me. I have three kinks, and this is one of them.

When did you first realize you were interested in teasing and denial? What's your earliest T&D memory?

non T&D homepage: http://www.wompadan.com

My first memory

I think it was when I used to live with my parents. I must have been about 16 (I'm 26 now) and masturbating while they were out. Suddenly, they came home and started calling for me, and naturally I had to answer. Quickly removing my fingers from my clit and putting my knickers back on, I ran downstairs to see what they wanted. I can't remember what they were talking about, all I can remember is the wonderful feeling between my legs as I realised I wouldn't be able to finish that day. The frustration at having been interrupted was somewhat addictive!

Wompa, you say you have 3 kinks and this is one of them - may I be so bold as to enquire what the other 2 are? ;o)

You can be as bold as you want

But I like to not throw them at everyone at once. Although as people around here can porobably guess, another kink is hypnosis.

Imagine the amount of control someone could have over your body, if you were hypnotized to respond to their instructions. For instance, imagine if I hypnotized you to feel everything that is done to the character in my story...

Even in real life, can you imagine how much more intense a teasing session would be if I could keep doubling the sensitivity of your body every few minutes?

...

I have to think about baseball or something now... :wink:

non T&D homepage: http://www.wompadan.com

Thanks for replying, we're on

Thanks for replying, we're on fire today aren't we?
The hypnotism side of T&D is something I've looked at, but I can't even imagine the level of arousal that would take me to!

Yeah, thinking about baseball now!

It's your fault

I'm addicted to this site nowadays. It's your fault for giving me someone to reply to. :o) And you get to be punished by thinking about sex and orgasm the entire time. :o)

If you followed the instructions, where are my notes? :evil:

non T&D homepage: http://www.wompadan.com

Notes?

LOL oh my god you are NOT getting those! Go think about baseball ;)

Notes.

That was part of the instructions. You don't want to be punished, do you?
:evil:

non T&D homepage: http://www.wompadan.com

Notes.

Don't I? Besides, I'd be far to embarrassed to send the notes on. Come off it, it's my FIRST day here!

I like you.

Something about your personality really clicks with me.

Just promise me you won't delete the notes. I'd love to read them someday, when you're comfortable enough with me.

non T&D homepage: http://www.wompadan.com

Same here.

I can't believe I've already met somone like-minded on this site! You'll get the notes when I'm feeling...brave lol. Anyone else out there want to say hello to me? I'm aware there's only 2 people in this conversation!

They want to meet you.

Most folks on here don't check in as often as I (and apparently you) do. Give them a day, and I guarantee they'll love you.

non T&D homepage: http://www.wompadan.com

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Hi

Traffic on this site is a little slow, but everyone will sa hi eventualy, apologiesfor all the typos my keyboard is screwy and Im not much of a speller at the bst of ties.

Hi! Welcome! Suddenly,

Hi! Welcome!

Suddenly, they came home and started calling for me, and naturally I had to answer. Quickly removing my fingers from my clit and putting my knickers back on,

Man, does this sound familiar to me. ;) My first denial memory is probably from when I was 15, masturbating while reading erotic stories or having dirty chats on the computer. (7 years later, I'm still fucking myself in front of the computer...some things never change!) My computer was in the family office, so my parents used to walk in on me all the time. The feeling of pulling my hands away just before the door opened, and sitting there with my heart pounding and my pussy wet...well, it's a pretty vivid memory, to say the least.

Hi

Hi Sheri,
Welcome to the site glad you are here posting with us! I really enjoyed your description of being frustrated at home lol I find the whole idea a big turn on , being made to stop due to your situation.
I am involved online/by text with a submissive girl who follows my instructions at her house where she is often in fear of interruption.
I tease her sometimes for 3 or 4 hours and sometimes her final march towards that long awaited orgasm is cut short by a phone call or someone demanding something from her Its sooo sexy at my end to know she has to wait just that bit longer (or not get to come at all )
Welcome
Mx

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Welcome

Hi Sheri. Welcome to the site. Small group posting, but we manage to post enough to keep us (and a few lurkers) coming back (if not coming... ha).

I think you'll find more than one or two like-minded people here.

I hope you find someone online to tease you and control your orgasms. Wompa sounds like a good choice!

Please keep us posted. It's always good to read what's happening (or not happening, as the case may be) to someone else.

My b/f isn't terribly interested in this either, but he's beginning to see the benefit to him when he makes me wait more than a week for an orgasm. He loooooooooves oral, and the hornier I get, the more I like it too, and the more enthusiastic I am, the more cooperative and compliant I am in general. It's a mutually beneficial dynamic ;-)

Hope to hear from you soon.

Girl Next Door

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Hi, welcome to the site. L

Hi, welcome to the site.

Love the image of you having to pull your fingers away when your parents came home! Can just imagine the deliciousness of that feeling.

Can't wait to hear more

Welcome

Sheri, welcome to the best T/D site I've found. If you know of anyone in the Reno area who likes to be teased, I want to meet them. My marriage is dead. But you're obviously alive. And hot. And needy. And horny. And responsive. And wet. And throbbing. And squeezing. And open.

hello

Hi Sheri ... How are you ?

Calendar check

Dude, this thread's been dead for years. Like 6 years.

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