another longtime lurker (19/Female)
Let me tell you all a little story. A month ago, I was ordered by my online dom not to come unless I was talking to him. He then promptly disappeared for about 3 weeks because of work stuff. I will admit that I kind of sort of illegally came the next day... But then I started denial for real. By the end of the first week, I was a little horny, but I could deal. By the middle of the second week, need started to kick in. By the END of the second week, I was a hungry desperate needy animal, and also moody as anything. I would tease myself every day with the unbearable (but also arousing) knowledge that I wasn't allowed to come. At around 2 weeks and 4 days, I was doing three teases I had been given, with my newly purchased first vibrator. The first was to edge, and then put the vibe in my pussy for 20 secs, which I could handle because I can't come like that anyways. The second was to edge, and then put the vibe on low and leave it in my panties for 10 mins. The third was to edge, and then put the vibe on my clit for 10 seconds. Aaand that was wear I came by accident. I had the most primal, explosive orgasm ever just then, and then amazingly came again 3 seconds later which has never happened.
My dom wasn't really into the orgasm denial thing, I could tell he just did it because he knew I wanted to, and for that reason I wasn't really able to stick to it afterwards. I'd be teasing myself, and then I'd be like 'Why am I even denying myself if my Dom doesn't want me to?' and then I'd come. But I really want to recapture the awesomeness of my first (and only) denial. (I know some people have gone 44 years or whatever without an orgasm, and well done you guys, but I think 3 weeks is good for a first-timer no??)
Baasically, I'm looking for a Dom who enjoys inflicting orgasm control as much as I enjoy receiving it. And who has delicious ideas for teases and edges. Now is perfect timing, because I'm not going to have much opportunity to orgasm, as my friend is coming to stay next week for 2 or 3 weeks, in my room. I'm fine with webcam, but maybe would save it for when I ACTUALLY get to have the big O(s?).
Anyone not looking to be a Dom but still have good teases please do also share!
And now if you'll excuse me, I think I'll take advantage of the time I AM allowed to orgasm.