another longtime lurker (19/Female)

Let me tell you all a little story. A month ago, I was ordered by my online dom not to come unless I was talking to him. He then promptly disappeared for about 3 weeks because of work stuff. I will admit that I kind of sort of illegally came the next day... But then I started denial for real. By the end of the first week, I was a little horny, but I could deal. By the middle of the second week, need started to kick in. By the END of the second week, I was a hungry desperate needy animal, and also moody as anything. I would tease myself every day with the unbearable (but also arousing) knowledge that I wasn't allowed to come. At around 2 weeks and 4 days, I was doing three teases I had been given, with my newly purchased first vibrator. The first was to edge, and then put the vibe in my pussy for 20 secs, which I could handle because I can't come like that anyways. The second was to edge, and then put the vibe on low and leave it in my panties for 10 mins. The third was to edge, and then put the vibe on my clit for 10 seconds. Aaand that was wear I came by accident. I had the most primal, explosive orgasm ever just then, and then amazingly came again 3 seconds later which has never happened.

My dom wasn't really into the orgasm denial thing, I could tell he just did it because he knew I wanted to, and for that reason I wasn't really able to stick to it afterwards. I'd be teasing myself, and then I'd be like 'Why am I even denying myself if my Dom doesn't want me to?' and then I'd come. But I really want to recapture the awesomeness of my first (and only) denial. (I know some people have gone 44 years or whatever without an orgasm, and well done you guys, but I think 3 weeks is good for a first-timer no??)

Baasically, I'm looking for a Dom who enjoys inflicting orgasm control as much as I enjoy receiving it. And who has delicious ideas for teases and edges. Now is perfect timing, because I'm not going to have much opportunity to orgasm, as my friend is coming to stay next week for 2 or 3 weeks, in my room. I'm fine with webcam, but maybe would save it for when I ACTUALLY get to have the big O(s?).

Anyone not looking to be a Dom but still have good teases please do also share!

And now if you'll excuse me, I think I'll take advantage of the time I AM allowed to orgasm.

Goodnight xx

Build up

Starting out with...
No touch 2 days
Touching breasts only 2 days
Touching but sex covered by panties 2 days
Bare sex but no hands allowed touching 2 days

This post is on behalf of Eienleox

Eienleox is a new user currently awaiting to be registered on Tantalism but would like to post the following so I am doing so on his behalf.

Hi, you definitely deserve better than a non-caring dom !
I have previous experience with orgasm control, on both sides, with my
(past) partner as well.

I am firm but caring. I would never disappear ruining someone
experience, but I expect you to be committed to your tasks as well.

I do not really see this as 'inflicting' something, it's just a
different kind of pleasure. But yes, I *absolutely* love controlling.
I am well aware of the intensity (and duration) of the
emotions/sensations involved, which are what makes oc interesting.
Also, I am not really interested in the role-playing aspect, being
called Sir, ecc ecc
I am determined and resolute in my control, I am just a bit more
'vanilla' than most around here I guess.

If you are interested, would like discuss this more, and eventually
move forward (rest assured I have lots of teasing/edging ideas,
samples available on request >D), contact me at:

eienleox @ gmail.com (no spaces)

Eien

P.S. in any case, if you ever decide to use a webcam with anyone,
please make sure *no* geographically identifying information at all is
shown (famous building seen from the window included, ecc ecc). One
can never bee too careful with these things.

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Interested

I'm fairly new to the entire dom/sub thing but I do think I've been reading up on sites like this one and hearing about others' experiences enough that I'm ready to control some lucky women's orgasms. You should know up front that you'd be my first sub, but I'm very much interested in this. Contact me at jaymes48@rocketmail.com if you're interested (I'm also on yahoo chat under the same name). Even if you don't want a first-time dom, it'd be nice to have someone to chat with about orgasm denial, to trade ideas and discuss experiences (I'm a switch, and I have had some experience as a sub).

Hi, thanks for your reply!

Hi, thanks for your reply! When you say bare sex, what do you mean? Do you mean go about my day without panties?

Hi

Yes I meant for your sex to be uncovered or bare ( no panties) but you will not be able to touch for 2 days.
After the 2 days you may rub against any object but no hands allowed.. 2 more days of this and you are allowed to touch your sex with your hand but using one finger only ..
Obviously no orgasm allowed at this stage but you may edge if you can :-)
Have you been practising denial recently or about to go into a period of no cumming?

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