It is just a story. Nevertheless: Don't be so arrogant. Ever tried yourselve to push a sexual activity double or longer than you like it or can perform it? After that we may talk again in earnest.
Besides: Do you want to have fun with a women or treat her like a cockroach? And would that be a desirable kind of relationship ?
Submitted by sadisticdomcpl on Fri, 11/23/2012 - 10:32.
Why yes, as a matter of fact I have. Everything we do to others we try on one of us first. I can do this to myself for about an hour and three or four edges before it becomes uncomfortable, and my wife can outdo me. And I'm sure any number of the regulars here can equal or better both of us. 25 minutes and what reads as one edge is simply not intense.
As for your other questions, note the name we have chosen. It really does describe us.
Submitted by legendarylinda on Sat, 11/24/2012 - 10:24.
I can do tens of edges for hours so a 25 minute teasing session doesn't sound like a real punishment to me either. But in the story the sub really hates orgasm denial, so being denied after an edge can be as hard on her as 20 on me. Our limits and boundaries are all different and punishments should be given accordingly. I like spanking but I don't like to be spanked so hard my butt turns all black and blue, only moderate slaps and a bright red bum is what I tolerate, yet to someone who is used to severe spanking this might seem more like a gift than a punishment. A good dom will adjust to his sub's needs and limits and won't push them too hard unless both of them really want to.
Submitted by legendarylinda on Tue, 12/04/2012 - 22:30.
Each to their own. If everyone did hours of edging and years of denial that would be the lightweight. And I can't speak for anyone else, but to me, it's really all about the effects your actions have on your partner's mind and body. You need to be in the right state of mind while edging or being edged, spanking or being spanked and from that point it really doesn't matter how hard those slaps are.
Fortunately, sadisticdomcpl, you do NOT define the world of others, just your own. Maybe one day you have the inner capacity to understand. I just contradict you to prevent newcomers from believing your personal view to be a view "all" share.
Submitted by sadisticdomcpl on Mon, 11/26/2012 - 21:51.
Nothing we post is ever anything but our own view. We neither speak nor remain silent for anybody else. When have we ever said otherwise, except perhaps in your imagination?
Did I understand correctly, that "lightweighdom" to you is no term of appreciation but a term to make someone look silly? If so: Why did you state it twice?
To me this leeds to the assumption, you need to lower others - maybe to feel better? I have to admit, this assumption is not nice in itself and may be wrong. Sorry for that. And certainly my own history in sadomasochism plays a role in my reaction. When I was a newbee, I believed people making statements like yours. Was I just dumb? naive? No bones in the back? No. Just new to SM. I did not know I could get what I want without the parts I did not want. And my first Dom took no pain to tell me. On the contrary. So I learned it the hard way.
I do not object you being proud of yourselves. On the contrary, it is nice to meet people who live dom/dev fullheartedly. BUT I object you to call someone else names with an other way to live SM.
Submitted by sadisticdomcpl on Tue, 11/27/2012 - 20:39.
It is simply our view of where a scene like that sits in the range of activities we typically see described right here on this site. It was not in relation to the way we do things ourselves.
And since this was a link to something Molly apparently found elsewhere, the people involved aren't here, so any comment made about it is hardly likely to "lower" them, assuming that they even exist and this isn't just fiction.
Perhaps the next time you see an opinion you disagree with, you might simply post your own differing opinion about the same subject so readers can see there is a range of views on it and not devote so much of your time and energy to expressing your opinions about other peoples' opinions. We will not turn this into an endless war of words by indulging in offering our opinion of your opinion of our opinion.
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Only 25 minutes? Lightweight
Only 25 minutes? Lightweight dom.
Depends upon personal circumstances
It is just a story. Nevertheless: Don't be so arrogant. Ever tried yourselve to push a sexual activity double or longer than you like it or can perform it? After that we may talk again in earnest.
Besides: Do you want to have fun with a women or treat her like a cockroach? And would that be a desirable kind of relationship ?
Why yes, as a matter of fact
Why yes, as a matter of fact I have. Everything we do to others we try on one of us first. I can do this to myself for about an hour and three or four edges before it becomes uncomfortable, and my wife can outdo me. And I'm sure any number of the regulars here can equal or better both of us. 25 minutes and what reads as one edge is simply not intense.
As for your other questions, note the name we have chosen. It really does describe us.
I can do tens of edges for
I can do tens of edges for hours so a 25 minute teasing session doesn't sound like a real punishment to me either. But in the story the sub really hates orgasm denial, so being denied after an edge can be as hard on her as 20 on me. Our limits and boundaries are all different and punishments should be given accordingly. I like spanking but I don't like to be spanked so hard my butt turns all black and blue, only moderate slaps and a bright red bum is what I tolerate, yet to someone who is used to severe spanking this might seem more like a gift than a punishment. A good dom will adjust to his sub's needs and limits and won't push them too hard unless both of them really want to.
Ok,fair point. Lightweight
Ok,fair point. Lightweight dom and sub.
Each to their own. If
Each to their own. If everyone did hours of edging and years of denial that would be the lightweight. And I can't speak for anyone else, but to me, it's really all about the effects your actions have on your partner's mind and body. You need to be in the right state of mind while edging or being edged, spanking or being spanked and from that point it really doesn't matter how hard those slaps are.
defintions
Fortunately, sadisticdomcpl, you do NOT define the world of others, just your own. Maybe one day you have the inner capacity to understand. I just contradict you to prevent newcomers from believing your personal view to be a view "all" share.
Nothing we post is ever
Nothing we post is ever anything but our own view. We neither speak nor remain silent for anybody else. When have we ever said otherwise, except perhaps in your imagination?
Why?
Did I understand correctly, that "lightweighdom" to you is no term of appreciation but a term to make someone look silly? If so: Why did you state it twice?
To me this leeds to the assumption, you need to lower others - maybe to feel better? I have to admit, this assumption is not nice in itself and may be wrong. Sorry for that. And certainly my own history in sadomasochism plays a role in my reaction. When I was a newbee, I believed people making statements like yours. Was I just dumb? naive? No bones in the back? No. Just new to SM. I did not know I could get what I want without the parts I did not want. And my first Dom took no pain to tell me. On the contrary. So I learned it the hard way.
I do not object you being proud of yourselves. On the contrary, it is nice to meet people who live dom/dev fullheartedly. BUT I object you to call someone else names with an other way to live SM.
It is simply our view of
It is simply our view of where a scene like that sits in the range of activities we typically see described right here on this site. It was not in relation to the way we do things ourselves.
And since this was a link to something Molly apparently found elsewhere, the people involved aren't here, so any comment made about it is hardly likely to "lower" them, assuming that they even exist and this isn't just fiction.
Perhaps the next time you see an opinion you disagree with, you might simply post your own differing opinion about the same subject so readers can see there is a range of views on it and not devote so much of your time and energy to expressing your opinions about other peoples' opinions. We will not turn this into an endless war of words by indulging in offering our opinion of your opinion of our opinion.
Let's end this here, shall we?
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