Still more about my needs for chastity...

cumalong's picture

Greetings again everyone...

Whew 5 comments, and offers of people willing to help. Thank you to all who posted. Now here is the dilemma: Some of the people who contacted me are quite a bit younger than me, and I could see putting them into chastity, but not being put into chastity by them.

For myself..personally, I would require the KH to be older, uber-driven to complete this task fully & hopefully in Northern California with the resources and committment to make this multilevel power exchange come to fruition.

I haven't written to anyone who posted ...with an address. Rather than have ongoing conversations with several people at one time, I'd like to weed out the ones who I obviously couldn't submit to in a chastity device. That includes the younger ones. So to be specific, I would like the top in this situation to be over 55 preferably, not frightened to realize this entirely. Willing to meet with me and fit me with this device, and willing to assist me with a negotiated regime of chastity. I would prefer someone who is familiar with the concept of being under strict rule.

So if you are willing to self disclose here in this open forum (or send me a private message here-- is that possible?) if you think that you understand what I am looking for & you believe you are the right KH to complete this task, please tell me here why. I am not interested in games, please be serious.

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Hi, Cumalong. I can't help

Hi, Cumalong.

I can't help you with your own chastity, as I don't meet the age requirement, but I am very interested in exploring the opportunity to be your sub. I did post a comment on your previous entry, but then I chickened out about having my email up here. I wish Tantalism had a private message system.

I'm sure you've had plenty of volunteers already, and maybe you don't need another one, but here I am. I've had only one other mistress previously. It was a great experience, but she had to take a break, and now I'm without. I would look forward to discussing details and terms with you. Maybe once you have my address I can delete this. Please write me at valcor1245@gmail.com.

Thanks.

cumalong's picture

your proposition

Well Valcor.. I don't have a problem with you deleting it now ... I have it in my brain.

I would also be interested in

I would also be interested in submitting to you. Please let me know. I'm in Washington, so I think the timezones won't be an issue. Please let me know. I know I would have loved to be your dom, but I lack the age, sadly.

cumalong's picture

your offer

Julian what has been your experience in the past and why does a relationship with a woman who maybe locked herself appeal to you? What is most exciting to you?

How do you see your submission and have you ever been locked in chastity?

I've been locked in chastity

I've been locked in chastity before.

I guess you're not interested. Oh well.

cumalong's picture

Unclear why you've given up

I haven't even had a chance to write to you and you are eliminating my interest already! Whats up with that?

I hope you find your

I hope you find your keyholder. For my part, I'm still interested in having you take control over my orgasms, if the distance isn't a problem, and what we're looking for isn't too different. What I'm looking for is someone who I can give the power to say if, when and how I have orgasms, and who will use that power for her own arousal and amusement. I'm intrigued by that person being denied herself, because I imagine that would make her mind turn gradually more filthy and desperate, and I want to find out what that would do to your dominant side. Not sure about chastity belts, though.

sadisticdomcpl's picture

Story of our lives

When we lived in NorCal we were constantly getting messaged by people in SoCal. Now we live in SoCal and you're up there. Do you have any idea how rare it is for someone to say she actually wants a control-driven top who's over 55?

But if you want to talk about it anyway, sdc92078@cox.net

cumalong's picture

thank you costelar

Appreciate the good wishes. I also am curious about how the chastity would effect my Domme side. I believe it would perhaps create a more ruthless Kh for you.

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