new at this
What are some good ways to deny my bf an orgasm over the phone things to say to tease things like that. I am in complete control and just want to step it up a little. Pretty much he cannot touch or cum without my say so. I really enjoy this just want to step it up some make it hot
So he obeys you 100% in terms of touching and cuming?
The way I look at it, the first thing is to understand all the themes that are hot for both of you and then play with them verbally. Perhaps repeated edging and begging to cum and not always being allowed to is exciting for both of you. If so, tell him to get in some position (perhaps on his knees) and stroke himself until he can't almost hold back but come back from that edge repeatedly.
Perhaps the image of having to lick you (and your friends?) to lots of wonderful O's but having to wait for his is hot for both of you... talk about creating that situation. (This does not mean you ACTUALLY do or do not make this happen in reality - the description of it can turn both of you on and be lots of fun on the phone...)
Does any of this help?
yes that helps a lot. I hope
yes that helps a lot. I hope that i keep getting more and more ideas. he did cheat other day by touching when he was not allowed to. so i am trying to think of how to punish him for that
Punishments ;)
make him hold it for an hour (or you know 30 mins, 15 mins?) but no stroking...just holding it lightly, he can do this while watching porn or something fun like that. Or just kneel in the corner like the naughty boy he is, holding his little thingy...