Methods for... stopping.
So.... I know this is going to sound like a really basic newbie question but... how do you.... just... stop?
Are there personal methods or tricks you girls (& guys) use to prevent yourself from accidentally cumming? I know it supposedly gets easier with experience, but the urges also get stronger the longer it's been since I... since I.. *sob*
I've only got 12 more days to go for this denial period, but the edges are getting more and more brutal.
I know for girls using a vibe or something, it's easy -- you just hit the switch and it does all the stopping for you, but I like fingers (takes longer more intimate for me), and so...
I've had more than a few close-calls, and I am really trying to just edge, but it's tricky.
My partner once used an ice-cube on me, right as I was about to get off, and that seemed to stop it, but it's not always available, and I tend to play a lot.... even as I write this I am a wet mess of need.
I toyed around with the idea of slapping myself (my partner is often unavailable) squarely in the crotch with an open palm hard, but just thinking about slapping myself right as I edge is almost enough the send me over.
Distraction seems to work well for me, but I am really curious if there's anything you girls (& guys) do to help you control your .... urges.