Contest of denial
Dear all,
inspired by Elisha, valcor and me start a denial contest on who lasts longest without orgasm. he manged 2-3 Weeks already whereas 1 upt to 1,4 weeks is my longest, most times few days suffice. We are 7 hours apart - me in Europe ahead off him in the USA. Maybe Elisha will still join us tomorrow.
We start with an orgasm to be on even terms. To make us horny again we describe it here. Until now we agreed upon him doing about 4-5 edges within 1 to 2 hours. preferably at about 14.00 his time and 21:00 my time. I have a visitor, a man I do not know until now. This will be our first Sex/SM. Normally I do not cum by anything a man does. Most hard will be not to do it myself after he did some teasing. He likes to tickle and arouse while the woman is bound to the bed he says.
Valcor and me agreed upon a scale to compare difficulties. To me afetr heavy teasing NOT touching myself is a 5 and doing such a lot edges is a 5 for him.
We will try to describe our experience here.
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my orgasm
I just recently managed to play analy with a rather big (for me9 dildo. So today those 4 cm go in me gently with lots of lubricant. clamps to my nipples first, later on I put them on my labia. It was nice to feel this open to anything, submissive to one man I learned this anal play for. With some latex fingers i touched my clit. it was very frustrating for I had the vibrator on my clit for almost 2 hours and she was rather numb. But I did not want to touch with my own fingers in order to learn some day to cum by a man again. This already happaned twice in the last weeks. So i had to stimulate myself rather hard and for medium long time to cum. I give this experience a 2 for horniness. Writing here is 1 - at least at the moment.
Question to valvor. maybe we find something to do during sleep? I could put my balls in. They do not do very much, but in the long run make me horny and I could start doin kegel exercise - today before sleeping and tomorrow after waking up. I give the balls a 1 and the kegel approx a 2 - depends upon my state. what will you do to match that?
i am invited to cinema by a female friend. maybe i amage to have a look here before sleeping. read you tomorrow!
My Starting Orgasm
I'm not accustomed to describing my orgasms. In fact, I don't believe I've ever been asked to do it before, but I'm glad to do so now.
I started arousing myself slowly, taking my time, knowing that this may be my last climax for a while. I watched as the incredibly attractive woman on my computer screen teasingly undressed herself. My hard cock began weeping its precum for me to lubricate my strokes.
I stroked slowly and alternated with light tapping on the shaft, bringing myself closer and closer. I reached the edge sooner and more forcefully than I really wanted to. I wasn't ready to cum, so I stopped and pulled my hand away, but a single drop of cum made its way out of my cock and slowly dripped down my shaft. There was no contraction, no orgasm, just a cum drop.
After calming down a bit, I continued to work myself up. This time I would be ready to enjoy my orgasm. Just as I approached the edge, my mind turned to the realization that camsub may very well have been doing the exact same thing during the same moment miles away. This thought seemed to double my arousal, and it brought me over the edge into ecstasy. Then, everything else faded into the background. For those brief moments, there was nothing but orgasmic bliss. My thoughts, the world around me, even myself, ceased to exist; orgasm is all there was.
I relished the experience of my rapid, hungry breathing, my pounding heart, the satiating contractions in my pelvis, and the full-body tingling, warmth, and satisfaction. My cum splashed onto my chest and all over the bathroom floor as I was violently overtaken by my full and satisfying orgasm.
I must try to remember how incredible it felt. There is no way of knowing how long it will be before I feel it again. How far will camsub push me? Can I crack her first? Can I make her fail in order to gain my freedom?
I'm eager to see what the next days will bear.
Sorry I didn't notice that
Sorry I didn't notice that you had started this thread, so I ended up posting about my orgasm on the other thread.
Anyway, I'm not sure what I could do during sleep, except maybe sleep naked. That does always make me horny. The trouble with it is that I find it difficult to sleep well while I'm naked. I'm always too distracted by my cock being free and rubbing against the sheets.
I think you mentioned that you're a bit of an exhibitionist. So am I. I like the idea of us going without underwear when it's practical. Sometimes I go on chat sites like Omegle and strip for people if they ask me to, or masturbate for them. We could do stuff like that. It does always make me horny.
Let me know what you think. I wish I had caught you before going to the movies. I would have told you to lose your panties. :-)
Panties
...and I would have lost them for sure :-)
Well there is still room for that. Not sleeping seems too hard. human beeings need sleep. By the way: I almost always sleep naked ;-) But it does not make me that horny. Not at all any more in fact.
So I cut out the balls inside and only do the kegel exercises and you may do some additional strokes with your cock, giving the feeling of slight arouseness. How about that? it is almost 23:00 here, I am going to sleep now
Maybe you would like to know my state. After this very laboury orgasm I am cool as any ice. and would not give myself even a "1" for horniness. But the kegel will alter that no doubt to an 1 or 2.
I would propose you tease yourself a bit in the morning after waking up still in bed, for I will do again some kegelexercise then. you will have to match for that ;-)
Sleep well "Mr. Panties"
Sounds good. I will tease
Sounds good. I will tease myself as you suggested.
Can I email you? You can email me and then I will have your address. I think it might be more convenient to have direct communication rather than having to come here to check whether there are any new messages from you.
Mail and morning
Not really. Using the anonymous adress is rather inconvinient to me. I would prefer to exchange informations here.
Well you are in deep slumber now I assume, while I already did my kegel exercise and reached a 1. This is rather astonishing. I thought it would be more. okay, last time I was some days longer in denial. We shall see. To match you I will put my balls in for a few hours.
Yes, I was in deep slumber,
Yes, I was in deep slumber, but I'm up now. I played a little bit in bed before getting up, as you suggested. I woke up with a sensitive, pleasant erection.
I will wait until later to do my edges.
For the past three or so weeks I have become accustomed to daily orgasms. Right now I am feeling a bit horny because my body is expecting an orgasm, but it won't get one.
By the way, we could always
By the way, we could always send messages through Yahoo Messenger. They will be there when we log on.
You very nearly won the
You very nearly won the contest before it even got started.
I couldn't resist masturbating for a bit this morning before my shower. The whole session lasted about 45 minutes. I twice came dangerously close to orgasm. I was on the teetering edge of climax, but I was miraculously able to control myself. So, the competition continues on.
Now all that playing without satisfaction has made me even more horny. I have to do some shopping today, and I'm thinking of going without my underwear. It will be a teasing reminder for me.
The night before Christmas
Dear valcor,
yesterday evening was a real real long looooong, crazy driving tease by my guest. I did not cum. not by him - no wonder - and not by me later on - this IS a wonder. He is new to SM so I tried a little bit playing my hands where bound. This was a fantasy of him so he got really turned on. stroke alongside my body up and down and up and hardly touched a nipple and down and so on for a long time. sometimes getting close to my clit, seldom touching it in general, very seldom circling around and obove it in earnest. He really drove me crazy by the long time he took. Sometimes I squirted by for the wish of "being touched properly", sometimes I almost was in the reach of cuming - if he only could touch me right! If my head just would allow it! Approx. 2-3 hours this lasted and in the last hour I really had to bind my hands. I could not resist touching myself otherwise. And in bed he started again! for pure selfdefence I made HIM orgasm. after that sleep was possible. In the morning it was about 1-2 hours the same all over again. making him cum did not stopp him. An unusual man. :-) Well, this was real teasing and me at last in the evening and in the morning stopping him. I could take no more. I would have hurt him, had he instisted on playing more. Horniness almost hurt then.
Today is chrismas and my thoughts during the day totally elsewere. But now, reading about your edging and writing about my teasing ordeal, my nipple are sensitive again and my cunt feels warm. So yesterday evening and this morning was definitely both 5 then going down to nill. Now smouldering at comfortable 2. before sleeping I will tease myself again, maybe edge? Or something alike. And again when I wake up. What will you do to match that?
Sleep horny
Camsub
I'm very happy to finally get
I'm very happy to finally get a post from you. I was starting to worry that you had disappeared.
Wow, reading about your steamy experience has made me hard and throbbing. It sounds as though you were very well-teased. I wish I could have been the man doing that to you.
I am also still without an orgasm. We are both enduring. I teased myself both last night and this morning with edging. My precum flowed freely and dripped down my begging shaft. I will do the same tonight. I will keep myself regularly teased to match you.
I'm impressed that you were able to endure your torture without giving in to an orgasm. You are really pushing me, but I am determined to win.
yesterday before sleeping
Thanks for your appraisal, but not to cum by him is - alas - something I normally do not have to fight for. let us say it is a curse I threw upon myself years ago.
But I am very proud not to have touched me afterwards. If it where not for christmas and lots of other things to do, I do not know wether I would have managed.
It was astonishing how fast my arousal was back when I touched myself yesterday in bed. A dildo in my cunt had to be, for she was very hungry while I teased my clit and nipples. Soon I had to move the dildo now and then and I was dripping wet.
Brace yourself (as I do) I see him again today. I do not know how I will manage this, but you should tease yourself again very hard for about 1 hour or two to stay even. For at least one agonizing lustful teasing experience will happen.
To keep you busy, I will start with some light teasing this morning...
Update: Now this is starting to be a real contest sweety ;-) I did two edges this [NOT tomorrow] morning instead of "some light teasing"
Will you endure today?
Update: I am in real play now. Comfortably horny :-) So I put a vibrator in my hungry cunt it will last for about 1,5 hours. Seems you will have to go without your panties some time longer to keep yourself on a "2-3"-level of arousal today.
I am a bitch and I like it *evil grin*
I lost
I have a Christmas gift for you, CamSub. You won.
As I was edging just now, I lost control and had an orgasm.
This is a rather humbling disappointment for me. I had high hopes for winning this contest, but it's not to be this time. I'm sorry that I wasn't able to provide more challenging competition for you.
Next time I'll keep my mouth shut and let my endurance do the talking.
Congratulations on your victory. Enjoy it!
LOL - Are you sure?
certainly one should have expected more of your stamina then just a few day - it is not even week - tsk tsk tsk.
But don`t worry, be happy: For I also gave up yesterday. After another mindblowing teasing session of about 2-3 hours I could not take any more. Maybe you won by just a few hours. I gave up about 22:00 my time which is about 15:00 yours...
We started with binding me properly right from the beginning. He new my body a bit better now and additionally talked about keeping me in this state for about 2 days. Through all the teasing we span this fantasy, what would happen within this two days. This time he dared to press my nipples tighter, he shoved about 4 fingers inside me and miracously moved them - I can't tell more folks, everything is in a haze. But the cushion he put under my but to have better access is almost wet throughout and the later added double layer of towle could not help the bed got wet in a hugh space under the towels, when I came at last.
It was a nice playful game with you valcor. Thanks!
Congratulations!
It was a little shorter than I thought it would be, but really fun! Maybe christmas didn't help much to focus you both on it properly.
But thanks to you both for this. Let's see if maybe there's much yet to come. New participants, new rules...
And congratulations camsub66 for the win! OK, just a few hours of difference, but it's still a win. I was betting on you.
If you want to, I'd be delighted to participate on a single contest like this one against you. We can start after the new year, maybe. It's up to you. I have some ideas that could make it more difficult. Think about it.
Greetings;
Even
Thanks latinphilip, but Valcor was kind enough to grant me a tie. He gave in about one hour later than me ;-) The time lap is a bit confusing.
Focus? Well depends upon what you want. I want fun. Too much "focus" would spoil that for me ;-) And rules are finde, but have to fit in real life. You may introduce them to me and I will have a look but be not taken aback if I think otherwise about them.
"Focus"
What I meant by "focus" is not to have such a great holiday like Christmas in the middle of it. I don't know about you camsub66, but I always spent it with my parents, who live many miles away from me. It demands a long travel and such thing could be a problem to perform the teases. But anyway, I couldn't agree more with you: this all has to be fun for everyone. Otherwise, it doesn't make sense at all.
Like you, I'm not a long-term denial person. I couldn't even imagine to be denied for several months like some people here, so I think our contest would be really "fair" on its purpose.
In terms of rules, what I would suggest is to maintain the goal: the last to cum wins. But I'd add some tasks for both of us to complete each day. I give you a task and you give me one, with similar levels of difficult. That could be adjusted if one of us will have a busy day and cannot fulfill it properly, but that's the main idea. Other idea is to write the reports here at a similar time, so we could hear about each other and grab next day's tasks.
What do you think to start it next Tuesday? My time zone is GMT -03:00 and now we are at daylight saving time, what makes us to be four hours away from each other. For me, now it's 16:49 (20:49 for you). This could be more or less our "report time" here.
Feel free to comment it and improve the contest!
Sorry
Sorry latinphilip, at the moment I am not in the mood for it. Maybe valcor?
OK!
That's all right, camsub! If you change your mind some day, I'm here.
A contest between me and valcor wouldn't make much sense to me, once this site is focused on female orgasm denial. A contest between two males just doesn't seem right to me at this place.