I am looking for a single, female sub interested in using orgasm denial as a motivation to get more physically fit.
how will you use it then?
There's a thread on the orgasmdenial forums about a malesub whose Mistress is using orgasm denial as motivation for him to lose weight.
I am desperately to loose some weight. Orgasmdenial would only work alongside the permissions of my dom, but some rather artistic teasing-technics may do the trick. So you give the teasing and time to do it and I would only have an orgasm in the range i am allowed.
Give it a try?
I might be interested. Could you say any more about what you're thinking of?
I was just planning on starting an OD diet of sorts...I am very interested.
I once had a 24/7 slave who had struggled with anorexia/bulimia as a teenager. She had a fantastic body, very naturally curvy, great tits, but she had to work out a lot to stay fit. She was totally orally fixated, always chewing on ice cubes or eating rice cakes or chewing gum or had something in her mouth. If she wasn't so into working out, or so into healthy foods, she'd no doubt have been very chubby or even seriously overweight.
One day we were playing and, just trying random stuff, I had her kneel on the ground naked next to me with her arms tied behind her back, while I sat and ate dinner-- and she sucked my cock. I told her she'd not be allowed to eat; she was only allowed to suck my cock.
She loved this in so many ways, it was pretty amazing. She kneeled there and sucked more hungrily and blissfully than ever. It satisfied her deeply sexually and psychologically-- her whole body and soul resonated with this scene in a powerful way.
She asked me to do it to her again and again, and to do some longer-term denial where she could not have food only cock, and it would have been fun for me, but I had some serious doubts about doing such a mind-fuck on someone who I loved and who had a history of eating disorders. It just seemed like there were forces there I wasn't sure I could control once they were let out. I didn't want to open that door and see what was on the other side of it. So we never did that scene again.
So, yeah, it could be very fun to combine orgasm control and eating control, but also be careful. Eating disorders can be fatal.
Wow! I forgot I had posted this. My previous experience at Tantalism probably made me feel not very optimistic.
Lately I have been visiting the site daily and will continue to do so. Also, I have been much more dominant than I was in April of 2010.
It has been my experience that a desired orgasm can be a powerful incentive to meet exercise goals. An exercise tease can be motivating, fun, and exquisitely frustrating. It can also be empowering while the sub is still submitting.
Any particular exercise tease needs to be designed based on the fitness level, goals, and denial limits of the individual, but one basic format would be to have the sub earn an orgasm by completely X number of miles on the treadmill, elliptical trainer, stair climber, etc. Once, and only once, the goal is met she will be allowed to cum. During the period of days or weeks that it takes her to meet the goal I would offer daily teasing assignments and/or chat teases to make her want have an orgasm so much that she will be sure to exercise more in order to earn her orgasm. Some teases may be directly incorporated with the exercise.
The interested sub should be unmarried and willing to let me hear her during a tease. She should respond in this thread and we will workout further contact details from there.
I am still interested and still monitoring this forum on a regular basis.
I checked this topic earlier already, but forgot to leave a comment because real life got in my way. I'm really interested in t&d but have had some problems with it since I've been practicing it alone and cheating was always just too easy. What you wrote earlier sounds very good and I'd like to discuss more about this if you're still interested. :)
Droppy, I commented on your blog and I am still interested. I would like to have some private correspondence so that I can get to know you better and find out more about what your goals and denial limits are. I'm not sure the best way to do that on this site though, since it does not have member mail as far as I know. If you think you can chat Wednesday night, let me know and I will hang out in it for a couple hours around 7PM EST. Otherwise, maybe you can give me a YIM name or an email address that you feel comfortable sharing.
I haven't used the chat yet and sadly don't have any time to experience with it tonight. However, you can send me email at firstname.lastname@example.org, just notice the .fi instead of .com. It might not be the fastest way to communicate but I hope it'll do for now. :)
I am interested in having another sub who will earn her orgasms through exercise while I motivate her by teasing her.
I'm interested :)
I would also enjoy working with a single, female sub interested in using orgasm denial as a motivation to get more physically fit. My tendency would be to want to focus on INPUT measures (e.g., did you work out today, did you eat according to plan today, did you maintain a positive attitude today, etc.) rather than how close to a target of some sort of target you are.
Anyone who is interested can write me at NashYCaldwell@aim.com or NashYCaldwell@hotmail.com. I can IM at these addresses also if I know to expect you.
I have some ideas for who to make this really fun and erotic I'd like to test out.
i just wanted to thank You Sir for the wonderful job You've done keeping me in denial and extremely horny. Thank You very much!
It is My pleasure. ;)
marie is a wonderful plaything. I am open to working with more than one sub though. I can be reached at Endorphin7fbs@gmail.com if any women are interested in having exercise be a part of your denial.
Once again I am looking for a female sub to help with her exercise goals. Teasing is fun :), but it is even more rewarding when I feel I am helping the sub out with some other goals.