A Noteworthy Experience
Well, after my somewhat whiny post about not having enough "hands on" experience with denial, the fates decided to smile upon me. :)
This past week I've spent a bunch of time with a friend of mine because she's moving back to the east coast (actually, she left this morning). We knew we wouldn't have much time, but decided to make the most of it while she was still around. Even aside from having the best sex I've ever had, we had a truly wonderful week.
That's all well and good, yes, but not the point of the post. Last night, which was her last in the area, we spent a good amount of time fooling around--making out, light petting, that sort of thing. Once she started getting a little more.....insistent.....I slowly took off all of her clothes (except panties) and gave her a long, drawn out massage. You know, the kind where your skin starts to tingle and you just want to get to the sex as soon as possible, except it feels too good to complain? Something like that. :)
After that, I started lightly caressing her through her panties, and whenever she seemed to be getting into it too much, I'd pull back and kiss and touch her thighs, stomach, or breasts. With a little bit of trial and error, I was able to keep her quite close to orgasm the whole time, but still building her up higher with each careful touch. Finally, she started begging me to at least take off her panties, which I did--only to stop touching her right where she wanted for a little while. Damn, those were some sexy moans! *grins*
When I moved back to her by now soaking wet pussy, I used the technique that's been recently discussed on the board--I had two fingers inside of her while stimulating her clitoris and whenever I felt a clench, I'd back off. I can't thank you all enough for that little tidbit--it worked wonders! Once I finally relented to her begging to be fucked, she had the most explosive orgasm I've ever seen, and seemed to keep cumming the entire time we had sex. Fucking brilliant!
Later on, I was teasing her about how much she enjoyed not getting to cum and she very quickly agreed, even saying something like "the more buildup, the better". So, naturally, I told her I'd be sure she regretted saying that next time we got together. }:)
Sadly, this will be the last time we get together, at least for a while, but it was still a wonderful night.
Thank you all for the tips, encouragement, and for being around to share this with. :)