Long time lurker finally saying hello
I've been following this site for some time now (a little more than a year I think....time flies!). I first discovered it when browsing the net for material on forced orgasms. At the time I hadn't even heard of orgasm denial....but after reading the posts on here, I was an instant fan.
I've been fortunate enough to have a few experiences trying some things out with women online in this kink. It's a ton of fun to focus my erotic energy into coming up with teases, challenges, and ideas for them to try out.
For me, the enormous appeal here is the challenge between mental and physical. Pushing your body to the limit and exploring new sensations are wonderful things, but they become much more intense when there's a mental challenge attached. Something as simple as an order not to cum, a time limit, anything along those lines makes everything more interesting. I've enjoyed reading about the challenges on here (the card game, the various vibrator challenges, the slideshow challenge), and I always enjoy coming up with more.
At any rate, hi. Good to meet all of you!