male denial, solo male

I've practiced self denial for a few years now, and some time I had an on-line Mistress. My time with her was mostly pleasurable, sometimes torturous, but always amazing. We got to know each other quite well, and we learned a lot about each other and each others' kinks. She developed a way to handle me that was nothing short of phenomenal, and even made my denial record of 100 days happen. Unfortunately, a few months back our ways parted. Nothing dramatic, but both of our lives just got into the way. We still sometimes chat, but can't really keep up a longer play going on.

I'd like to increase the intervals between ejaculations and make the most of teasing/edging/denial and "get to cum? games" for the times when I do orgasm.

I last ejaculated over a week ago so now seems a great time to start. I decided no touching until I couldn't stand it any longer, which was this evening. Wanted to cum or at least edge some. I decided to allow edging as long as there were no interruptions. Cum not likely but not impossible either. Well..I got to enjoy a glorious 15 minutes or so of edging when something erupted, but probably not what you're thinking. A fierce thunderstorm unexpectedly erupted. I took this a my cue to STOP edging. So I was able to edge without cumming with a little help from Mother Nature. I did NOT cum.

Update: Now I've made it to the end of yet another week without cumming. Been doing a bit more edging lately, and it's getting harder and harder to stop in time without ejaculating. Incredibly horny would be an understatement!

UPDATE:

I haven't cum since Jan 31, 2013 and for several days now I'm desperately horny like hell too and want to cum so badly it's driving me to more intense sexual frustration than I thought possible. All I can think about is an orgasm. 22 days without ejaculating feels like my absolute limit. I had only agreed to 20 days, but then rolled the chastity bingo, which says my next chance to cum isn't for 19 more days! And even then no guarantee. omg I can't wait 1 more day, let alone 19 or more. Please let me cum...I really NEED to cum. I've never been this desperate to cum.

Long time reader, first time writer.

I am going to begin a little experiment starting on July 22nd (this coming Tuesday). I shall remain without release for a period of no less than 2 weeks. Each day I shall be required to edge while watching porn no fewer than 3 times. If I experience release, ruined or otherwise, during any given edge, the consequences are as follows:
For the first orgasm during edge:
1) Duration of experiment is extended by 18 days from day on which orgasm occured.
2) Number of edges per day is increased to 4.

So here is my first edging blog. I have not come for a week or so. This morning wanked for about 3 hours with the last hour or so spent on the edge - very intense and pre orgasmic with plenty of precum and one spurt of cum. I plan to keep this level of activity going for the rest of this week at least.

We would like to re-introduce the group to Reynard's wonderful video from some years ago.... The essence of the group--sweet, sweet, denial torture, this time a male, please read the streaming banners. http://tantalism.org/node/1566

Now, if a female would do the same!!

I started practicing with edging a week ago after reading several of the Jester's blog entries. Simply put, edging seems to me an exciting form of sexual activity. I spend anywhere from 10 minutes to 3 hours edging.
First I use a large metal cock ring to get my cock engorged; I then let it get soft; I then remove the ring since the orgasmic waves are more intense. I have not cum in a week.

Well I think I'm finally adjusting to the meds, hopefully for the last time.

I edged this morning, for the first time in a while. For some reason it's so much more intense than it used to be. When I finally got there, I was craving an orgasm, yet I didn't want to stop. I was humping the air at the end.

My libido is a bit lower now with the change in meds, but hopefully edging will stimulate it a bit. Certainly higher than it would be if I were just cumming whenever I felt like it.

I'm not sure what my next teasing game will be... perhaps the once-a-week rationing plan that I was considering some time back but never quite followed through on.

Well, I went back to the 20mg of Paxil again. I can't stand what the 40s do to me. I got my other anti-anxiety medication upped, and hopefully it'll keep the anxiety in check -- it seems to help more than the Paxil does to begin with, and it doesn't have the sexual side effects of the Paxil.

Nevertheless, my body still seems to be 'adjusting' somewhat. It may not have finished flushing the higher dose out of my system yet. I have noticed an improvement over the 40mg dose however. I was able to edge tonight for the first time in weeks, although it took quite a bit of time (and work!) to get to that point.

So, Archer666 left me with a tease, having me play with myself once an hour, just enough to get rock hard, but no edging.

This has turned out to be an unexpectedly fun tease. The touching feels so good, but it leaves me aching for so much more, having to stop so soon. I just did my hourly tease when I got home from work, and already I can't wait for my next chance at the top of the hour!

Archer suggested I sneak in a tease during lunch at work, but I'm just not adventurous enough to get into public play, and a bathroom stall is still a little too public for my liking. Besides which, it's such a cramped and un-relaxing position to be in it's not very conducive to masturbation.

I've suspended the Tease-A-Day program, since the response has been disappointing so far. Most of the teases I've gotten were given at my own instigation, which kinda defeats the purpose. Plus it's so frustrating getting stuck on no-touch day after day just due to lack of interest :p

If anyone comes up with some good teases, I'm still willing to do them. But in the absence of that I'll just be teasing and edging myself.