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Tantalism: A teasing or tormenting by the hope or near approach of good which is not attainable.

Welcome to tantalism.org, an exploration of the delicious tension arising from thwarted sexual release. We hope to provide a friendly community atmosphere, and a hotbed of eroticism for devotees of this kink. Diversity of input is encouraged, as we prefer to travel the less worn paths, including female denial, same-sex activities and the extreme bounds of fantasy.

female denial

Female orgasm denial.

Going crazy...

I think I'm going mad from this long rounf of denial. It's only been a week and five days since I last came, but it feels like forever. I spoke to Him this morning, and he ordered me to touch myself, and to "stick to the rules" - which, of course, means get as close to the edge as possible without coming.

Restrictions

A while ago a reader asked how my submission to Sir interacts with RL. This is one of the ways. Sir has asked me to describe a particular change we made during my submission that involves my spouse.

In the last post I wrote about all the ways Sir has graciously allowed me to have a little cummie. And one of them was during sex. I did used to enjoy coming during sex when Sir allowed it. But after some months of submission we both decided it was time. Since I have pledged my pussy to Sir, since I relish his ownership of it and of me, I have now given up orgasms during sex.

My Current Predicament

So my Love went away last week for a two-and-a-half week business trip. The last time we played together, on Monday, he teased me with the suggestion of denying me for the whole time he's away - longer than I've ever gone before except for a time when I was physically unable to orgasm due to medication.

Introducing myself...

Hello there, everybody! I'm Miss Amaranth (or Amaranth, Miss A or Missy, as you prefer.)

Who am I? 22-year-old female, bisexual, polyamorous switch living in Oxford, UK, and so glad I've found this place! My interest in t&d and tantalism has been steadily growing for quite a while, and in the last few months my Love and I have been experimenting with playing with it.

In the vanilla world I'm a writer (just venturing into writing smut,) and also enjoy crafting, theatre, playing guitar and reading.

Oh, and I'm a partner-abuse survivor. So there's that.

Let me count the ways

This time Sir has asked me to share the different ways he’s allowed me to have a little cummie.

I’ve told you about the corner. Sir has allowed me to press myself against the nice, hard surface and wiggle out my relief. Although he calls it a little cummie, those cums on the corner don’t feel little to me. The waves of orgasm feel big and strong and satisfying and I cannot help but cry out in glorious release. In my current state, just writing about how good it is makes me clench and moisten with need.

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This may be relevant to your interests...

a short story:

Jessica’s Ruined Orgasms
Submitted by Gil

Jessica has a problem. She has to masturbate, to orgasm. And she has to do so quickly....

Horny New Year

Or alternately titled I may have created a monster... (xposted in fetlife)

So at the HACKS meeting, last year I volunteered to help lead the discussion relating to orgasm control/denial. I'd been dying for another round of denial play since M'Lord has been feeling better. Seemed like the perfect reason...as if we needed one...LOL.

More sharing

When Sir and I started talking about me posting here, I knew he would require me to share some embarrassing things. Already the things that I’ve written about are embarrassing. But not so much as what I’m going to share now. A very real part of me wants to scream and run away from this task. But the lure of erotic humiliation is a strange, strange beast indeed. Another part of me has a twisted need to share. It is a need I would never sate for it would be far outweighed by embarrassment were it not for Sir. But Sir has instructed me to share on this topic. And so I will.

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