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Tantalism: A teasing or tormenting by the hope or near approach of good which is not attainable.

Welcome to tantalism.org, an exploration of the delicious tension arising from thwarted sexual release. We hope to provide a friendly community atmosphere, and a hotbed of eroticism for devotees of this kink. Diversity of input is encouraged, as we prefer to travel the less worn paths, including female denial, same-sex activities and the extreme bounds of fantasy.

female denial

Female orgasm denial.

New video!!

Hi all! As promised, here is a video of me being teased the other night: http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=YIk3U-S674-

I only want it to be watched by people that I feel comfortable with, so write me a note if you'd like to view it and I'll give you the pin. It has my face in a few shots, and I'd really like to be careful about it. Please use discretion!

I hope you all enjoy it very much : ) xx

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Welcome to the new(non)cummers!

The activity here cums and goes in spurts (all the puns intended).

I shall add my welcome to those who have recently posted their experiences. My compliments to all and 'tis good to see this place healthy again.

~ D

Delayher@gmail.com

How important is being made to feel embarrassed/ashamed about your arousal to getting aroused.

Not at all. It does nothing for me.
37% (17 votes)
I like to be teased about being turned on, but other things work for me.
30% (14 votes)
It's really quite important to me, I should be ashamed of my arousal.
11% (5 votes)
Massively. I'm wet reading this, and now everyone knows how degradingly wet I am.
22% (10 votes)
Total votes: 46
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I finally got to cum!

I've been rather busy but I wanted to tell you guys about my orgasm!

Newbie - please be gentle with me :)

Hi there, I'm completely new to this so please be gentle with me. I've recently starting actively participating in t&d. I have started having t&d sessions with my boyfriend and an online Dom. Between them they have had me in a constant state of pleasure. Tonight for example

Very horny, needy, and desperate

Hi all-- I'm in the process of uploading a video to youporn to show you how I was teased last night....

...but right now I am soaking and horny and would like to tease myself, but I don't have the willpower... I know I'll make myself cum if I don't have instructions...

CST

I’ve written quite a bit about restrictions now. About how I hold all my cummies for Sir. But there is actually one exception to that.

You see, my pleasure is to give Sir pleasure. I love to serve and please him. Often what pleases him is for me to be denied. But not always. Sometimes he finds it amusing for me to come.

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Mustn't be greedy

I don't know if anybody is reading this but that's okay, I'm writing this for myself anyway. Hopefully someone appreciates it.

I am supposed to finally come tomorrow after a 7 day denial. I was previously under the impression that I would be able to have my first orgasm at midnight, and offhandedly said something about this to Mister. He was swift to remind me that because I had been staying up far later than I should have been masturbating on my orgasm days, the new rule was that I had to wait until the morning.

Final restriction

Sir and I live apart. Our communication is restricted mostly to emails and IM. We very occasionally have a Skype session.

As you can tell from what I’ve written, I very much need Sir’s control. Without it I’m a naughty, slutty, horny little girl who masturbates and comes all the time.

So… the final restriction? I may only come when Sir is watching me. Watching so that he can manage my orgasm. Watching while I hump like a horny little bitch in heat. So that he can edge me over and over. Make me do it slow. Then fast. But hold it! Hold my little cummie for him.

The 100 Edges Game

Hi all. I think it's been a couple years since I posted here, but I do stop by and read from time to time. I thought I'd share a fun little game I like.

The 100 Edges Game

1. Start at the edge. Get yourself to the point where one more stroke would be one too many and then rest for a minute or two.

2. Stroke as much you need to get back to the very very edge and then stop.

3. Wait until you calm down a bit and do it again. Don't wait any longer than necessary though. Never more than a minute. Not less than five seconds.

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