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Tantalism: A teasing or tormenting by the hope or near approach of good which is not attainable.

Welcome to, an exploration of the delicious tension arising from thwarted sexual release. We hope to provide a friendly community atmosphere, and a hotbed of eroticism for devotees of this kink. Diversity of input is encouraged, as we prefer to travel the less worn paths, including female denial, same-sex activities and the extreme bounds of fantasy.

female denial

Female orgasm denial.
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He sat down on the bed beside me last night and started asking questions. Had I been good? Yes- no touching all day. Did I want to come? Yes, very much. Okay, he says, go ahead.
What, right now? I squeaked. Yes, apparently, right now.

He pulled the covers down exposing my pussy, which was soft and naked feeling with the new shave job. Get to work, he told me, looking down at me coolly.

Day 2 and 3 - chat is dangerous

This whole business started with a chat and yesterday again a chat drove me crazy. The morning started alright with working and I was even al littkle disappointed, that I got not horny. but in the afternoon I chatted again with the other man. We talked about how to create a nice meeting for us 4 and he proposed me being bound to a chair, him teasing my nipples until I beg the other to touch my cunt. I never beg easily. Too proud. This drove me very horny. Very. In the evening my friend came to take me with him for swimming, but we had 20 minutes left and I just threw myself at him.

Day 11

Day 11: Feeling a lot like yesterday, my whole body is insanely sensitive and I sometimes feel that Im very closeto orgasm even without touching at all. Also REALLY looking forward to playing out my full bladder ultrasound fantasy with mastersubswitch tonight! You can read about it in my Pee Fantasy post it was super-hot, every time my poor lil baby bladder overflowed and made me have an accident, I felt like i was having a weak orgasm! Can't wait to do it again!Day 9 of menstrual cycle.

Needing a new willing submissive!

I am an experienced Dom looking for a new sub to deny long term via online communication. I know very well what I'm doing and will challenge your limits. You will enjoy the torment ;) please email me at or (preferably) if you have a kik my name is Bigcock37 on there
Hope to here from you soon! Thank you, Dom.

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Stress relief

I have some really stressful stuff coming up this weekend (and had a really stressful weekend last weekend). I'm wishing for an intense play session as a "reward" if I live through all this and do good, but apparently I suck at designing teases for myself. I can't think of anything good. I'm much better at teasing and playing with him. Guess I'll have to ask him for something special. Maybe I should read him some of the ones off here and see if they inspire any thoughts.

Day 1 of 4

We agreed to meet another couple on Saturday. I chatted with the other man. I am pretty busy working, no mind on sex. Although I was cumming almost every day once or twice by vib, as we had the last week no sex. This chat set my mind back on sex immediately. I send it to my friend and it enkindled him also. So yesterday evening he visited me and he drove me deliciously crazy. Touching my clit, my nipples, putting his fingers inside me, at last also his cock. I was wet, dripping, even more wet, juice running down my inner tights.

Day 10! Half-way there!

Day 10: Half-way there! Well almost, halfway plus 1 extra day at the end since I'm doing 21 days. Did hump my bed for 10 mins last night, felt really good but just couldn't quite get to the point of orgasm, though i did get the occassional lil pulse.

His. <3

This last weekend, we sat down and fully negotiated the first draft (to be reviewed in 6 months) of our D/s contract. Tomorrow (our anniversary,) we will review it once more and sign it. And then I will be His.

In the new year he's going to take me shopping for a collar, and also a "token" (perhaps a piece of jewellery) which I can wear 24/7 so that, even when I cannot wear his collar, I carry a piece of him and a reminder of my submission with me.

Day 9

Day 9: Thismorining Edged by rubbing my pubic area/lower belly again. Again got to where I could edge by poking my belly button. In fact I almost lost it! As in pull my hand away, freeze like a statue, orgasm's still building, toes starting to curl, then I shift my body just a tiny bit and get a couple week pulses almost lost it! I'm like the Pilsbury Doughboy, only instead of giggling when poked I go "Oh!Oh!OHHHH!" LOL So prolly that needs to be off limits too, I'd nevvver have allowed it in the 1st place if I'd known I'd be able to edge that way.

Week Two: earn those touches!

This week I will have to earn minutes of touching with exercise.

Touch can be earned:

100 crunches = 5 minutes
15 minutes of stretching = 5 minutes
(Stretching only counts if I can get low enough to touch my dildo with my pussy. Until I can do that, all stretching earns me ZERO minutes).
10 sets of tendus and releves = 5 minutes
Walking: 1 mile = 5 minutes
(Walking only counts if I have a toy inside while I'm doing it. I must be wet before I can put a toy in, so if I oversleep and don't have time to get horny in the morning, that day's walking doesn't count).

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