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Tantalism: A teasing or tormenting by the hope or near approach of good which is not attainable.

Welcome to, an exploration of the delicious tension arising from thwarted sexual release. We hope to provide a friendly community atmosphere, and a hotbed of eroticism for devotees of this kink. Diversity of input is encouraged, as we prefer to travel the less worn paths, including female denial, same-sex activities and the extreme bounds of fantasy.

female denial

Female orgasm denial.

My little itch

Hello, everyone. I thought I'd come out of lurking and try exploring my interest in T&D.

I have a little bit of an interesting collection of fantasies and fetishes, but my biggest might be denial and chastity in combination with body shame, public humiliation, degradation, and misogyny. All in play, of course.

Bittersweet satisfaction.

Sir and I are both in the same bed, and it does not take him long to notice how wet and needy I am, as for now I have not orgasmed for a while.
He sends his hand between my thighs and I tremble, I know I don't have a word in this. All I can think about is how badly I want him to touch His clit, and while he rubs my flesh, I am trying to resist the urge to squeeze my thighs together.
And he knows it. He knows how much I'd want him to slip his fingers in and fuck me. Though he just smirked, remarking how badly wet I am.

More than just a while

Story, Fiction: Reading online listings you find the following:

Listing: Looking for a lady willing to experience more than superficial lust. You must be willing to actually live a monogamous submissive lifestyle. You must be clean, free of St-d's or other communicable diseases. It is preferred you use Mirena or other copper IUD as sex will include fluid exchange and we will not be using any barrier methods of birth control. The copper IUD not only helps prevent pregnancy but for reasons still not understood tends to increase sexual desire.

What happended to chat?

What happened to Tantalism chat? It has been a few months since I could log on. I miss it. Sure, most of the time there was no activity, but when there was activity I often found it to be quite rewarding. I miss it.

New Fiction Story- hope you enjoy it....

Writing a new fiction story- an excerpt is below. BTW if any ladies are interested, I am a male Dom, age 37, located in the NJ/NYC area and would love to chat, etc. so hit me up anytime! I would love a sub in her 40s or early 50s, as I prefer mature women. Also, the story below needs a title- any ideas?


Evil "chance to cum" opportunity..............

She is stripped buck naked and her chastity belt/device is removed.

Next, a pair of handcuffs secure her hands behind her back, and she is taken into the shower and washed, with His soapy hands paying extra attention to her breasts and vagina. Her crotch is also shaved baby smooth in the shower, and then she's dried off.

Next, she's taken into the candle-lit bedroom, where a large array of virbrators, lube, dildos, and other toys are laid out on the bed on a small, black velvet sheet.

Good god

Good god. Edger88's videos have always gotten me going, but I was literally whimpering out loud long before I'd reached the end of this series, just watching---not touching. The description of this video series is: "Tied and tormented with feathers, soft tipped paintbrushes and massage oil, cruelly deliberate fingertips and the slowest tongue movements and gentlest sucking motions."

You can just barely make out the woman's vocalizations and some of the things that he says to her if you turn the volume all of the way up.

Suddenly, on no-touch!?

I mentioned to my Master yesterday that I'd been thinking of asking to edge for a few days now-----for some context here, it has been almost 2 months since the last time that I asked for permission to edge-----and I told him directly that I was most likely going to ask for permission to do it today.

Giving myself to you

Hello community!

I'm looking to have a good night, and what better way then to hand myself over to your mercy? I'm looking to be edged and denied. I am a female sub and I have a vibrator. I will do whatever you ask of me and report back in the comments.

Thank you, I am grateful to sub for you all!

De-Lurking and First TD Attempt

Hi, everyone! I've been lurking on this site for over a year now, and I finally got the courage to make an account. So, here's a little bit about myself and my first attempt at orgasm denial.

Because of my religion, my boyfriend/Master and I have decided not to have sex until we are married. So we have a lot of boundaries in place. However, we are both incredibly interested in denial, and we had the opportunity to give it a shot a week or so ago.

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