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Tantalism: A teasing or tormenting by the hope or near approach of good which is not attainable.

Welcome to, an exploration of the delicious tension arising from thwarted sexual release. We hope to provide a friendly community atmosphere, and a hotbed of eroticism for devotees of this kink. Diversity of input is encouraged, as we prefer to travel the less worn paths, including female denial, same-sex activities and the extreme bounds of fantasy.

female denial

Female orgasm denial.
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when he leaves me

The hardest part is at night after he puts me to bed.

I love being with him. Pleasing him, performing for him, obeying him... I love it all. Even when what he asks of me is hard or embarrassing. As long as he's with me I'm being loved and being touched.

any women on here interested in signing up for webcam site and getting paid for tease & denial vids?

I get video content from webcam girls. Problem is most of them don't know what edging/tease&denial is, or are bad at it. Willing to pay "professional" female edgers to make video content. Any girls on here interested in signing up for a cam site, give me their user name and make some cash?

Domme looking for gay/bi sub to deny

I'm a 24 year old lesbian looking for a gay or bi submissive woman to play with. I love giving masturbation instructions and saying 'no' when being begged to come. Good communication skills are a must. I'd like to swap photos occasionally, but if you're not comfortable with that I won't push. Let me know, let's have some fun.

Kik: misscarmellap
fetlife: carmpietri


This past weekend I was not very compliant....with anything. I felt the need to fight him on everything. The hose was not working and I blamed him, the house was full of dog hair and it was his fault, he would tell me to do something and I would flat ignore him every time. Eventually he would punish. They started light enough that it was laughable to me. 10 spanks here, 10 there. At one point I did Smith at him. Then I heard the belt. I was over his knee and I was best not for a number of times but until i cried out.


I finally was allowed to cum last night. To be honest it was fairly uneventful but it was a beautiful first for me. I work in the health field and at the moment have hard hours. I have been getting off late working 13 hour days then getting up early. He decided last night he wanted me and No it's never an option for us. He was complaining of not being able to sleep because of my late night and early mornings because he does not sleep without me being home safe and told me to get him hard. Once I did he got on top pushed my knees back and out and started.

First blog, Info on me

Hi, I have been a lurker here for some time. I am newly married and thought I would join to share some thoughts. My husband and I have been together for a little over 5 years. I am 26 years old, he just turned 30. We have played around with D/s for almost our whole relationship. Sometimes more serious and longer than others but usually life would get in the way or we simply would hit a rough patch where one of us was not getting what we sought from it. Before tying the knot though we decided that we would give it a real go.

Another original story for the wonderfully denied pussies here ;) Chastity Slut, Ch 1-2.

I'm still working on this one, but here's the first couple of chapters. As always, no cumming without permission ;) Hope you guys enjoy it, let me know if you want more!

Ch. 1
The night you have been looking forward to is finally here, and your excitement is palpable, though an occasional flutter of nervousness still passes through you. You read over your Master's note again, ensuring that you have done everything exactly as he asked. It is only Thursday, but after leaving work early with a few false coughs, you managed to get Friday off as well, and you know you are in for an exciting weekend.

You admire yourself in the mirror; your Master instructed you to wear an elegant, but easily accessible outfit, and the short black dress you have chosen will be sure to please him. You wear no jewelry, save for the collar which never leaves your neck, discrete enough to be worn in public, yet obvious to any passing Dom that you are owned...

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Two questions

I have two questions for you ladies who have some experience with this under your belts (or locked in your belts... or whatever!)

Do you ever find yourself getting kind of depressed or let down after he lets you come? (This sounds somewhat stupid, but is your climax ever kind of anti-climactic?)

The second question is, when coming off denial, have you ever been in a situation where you orgasmed enough that you hurt?

Checking in

I've had a rough winter so the sexy stuff went on the back burner. Now that this winter is finally over, I'm baaaaack!

The BF will be out of town for a week starting tomorrow *sniff*, so I'm thinking this would be a great time to drive myself nice and crazy. Ideas, anyone?

third day

So this is the start of my third day and in fact i am not realay horny, but the queer thing happens again: thinking about, that I am intended not to make myself cum, DOES create the need to do so. Although normally this would not occur. My mind is on working and children and the old friend I will visit - all those everyday things. Sometimes I think, being sexually creative needs as much inner freedom and relaxation as being an artist. A few fantasies come to me nevertheless. It would be so nice, if my boyfriend would fix a little lock on my piercings as symbol for my denial.

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