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Tantalism: A teasing or tormenting by the hope or near approach of good which is not attainable.

Welcome to tantalism.org, an exploration of the delicious tension arising from thwarted sexual release. We hope to provide a friendly community atmosphere, and a hotbed of eroticism for devotees of this kink. Diversity of input is encouraged, as we prefer to travel the less worn paths, including female denial, same-sex activities and the extreme bounds of fantasy.

female denial

Female orgasm denial.

new post first post

So I finally figured out how to post on here. This will be the first of many posts I'm sure. My Sir suggested it to me so I can write about female orgasm denial. We shall see how this goes.

Thinking about being accompanied in denial until easter sunday evening - someone interested?

Hi folks, I am thinking about sharing some days of denial with someone male (preferably dominant) - although it might es well be someone who is in denial himself. A real master/slave relationship would not work. I would call it rather accompanying. On Thursday I see my boyfriend for the next time, wether with sex or without is unknown, then again on sunday evening (at least hope so). garanteed on monday. Until then I would like to be very horny. From friday to sunday I will visit a female friend of mine - not much time to give feedback. Only friday in the early morning.

Day 5 (teasing dream AGAIN!)

Day 5: My Owner has been generous letting me cum last week, but now I'm on no-touch till we can get on voice chat the 31st. Last night had a dream I was being masturbated by someone, couldn't see clearly, but fairly sure it was a woman. I remember her stroking my thighs and then rubbing my clit, asking if it felt good and me begging her to go faster. Woke up in the middle of everything, as usual. Day 3 of menstrual cycle.

Video Projects - Are you interested in financially supporting denial video projects with cam girls that SELL custom videos?

I want to support female orgasm denial video projects.
33% (9 votes)
It's a good idea to gather money for custom female denial videos.
7% (2 votes)
After the custom video is made (80$ - 200$ depending on girl), the video should be purchased directly from the girl at (10-20$)
4% (1 vote)
I trust the money will be used fairly
0% (0 votes)
I am skeptical about this
22% (6 votes)
I want more denial videos with sexy girls!
33% (9 votes)
Total votes: 27

new game....

I have been doing something new for me. Interval training for my ability to hold off orgasm. Each night, for the last 3 nights, I will play my clit while my nipples are clamped. My goal is to go as hard as I can, for as long as I can without cuming. I normally cum from insertables and wanted to play around with my need driven through clitoris alone.

Hello to the Site

Felt It was time I join and get on with what I enjoy. A recent college grad who has discovered being teased and wanting for pleasure that doesn't always arrive is a huge rush for me. I have convinced myself I am normal but maybe a little anxious to be open about this in a public forum. Would be willing to share more as I get the hang of this site and posts. Thanks to a previous boyfriend who had a magical way to make me nearly burst when teasing me to the edge of orgasm.

UPDATE 9/1/14

Advice for a couple

Hello all! I have been lurking on this site for many years in an attempt to learn, as a Dom, to use these concepts in my personal life. That time came sooner than anticipated, as I now have a precious slave that I cherish deeply. But now that I have the one I am to train, I can't seem to find the wealth of information that I know is buried under all of these posts.

Hi again :) Happy to hear from you!

Hi all. I am very happy about the feedback of my last post. I even hope to make some internet friends! Maybe even from the country I am from. I just wanted to say that I am very happy that I wrote here :) I Love that site :)
Karolina :)

Day 30

Day 30 (I can't believe I made it this long!): Well, I got thru all of February (my mom had been sick most of Feb. and I was busy helping her, I think that helped take my mind off things). No wet dream unfortunately, did have a couple sex dreams but didn't write them down and can't remember now. Except the 1 from today. I dreamed I was sharing an apartment with a bunch of ppl, including my beloved (belusted?) Tom Chaplin. We were in the kitchen with some ppl, some others were hanging out in the living room, but we could all see each other.

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Maddening

I am a hot, wet, shaky mess right now. Literally, my hands are shaking.

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