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Tantalism: A teasing or tormenting by the hope or near approach of good which is not attainable.

Welcome to, an exploration of the delicious tension arising from thwarted sexual release. We hope to provide a friendly community atmosphere, and a hotbed of eroticism for devotees of this kink. Diversity of input is encouraged, as we prefer to travel the less worn paths, including female denial, same-sex activities and the extreme bounds of fantasy.

female denial

Female orgasm denial.

Weekend of stimulation and service

My last orgasm was six days ago. I edged morning and night on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. This morning (Saturday) I crawled under the table and sucked bf's cock as he was enjoying his morning coffee. I got him hard quickly, but didn't finish him, knowing that teasing him like that is the best way to get him to be forceful with me. I sucked him again after breakfast, and this time he pushed my face down into the pillows and fucked me hard from behind. He didn't let me grab my vibe so there was no chance I would come, even though it felt heavenly. This was all about his pleasure.


I've spent the last few days edging morning and night and wearing my benwa balls during the day. I promised myself that my next orgasm will be with the bf's cock sliding either into my pussy or my ass. If he cums before I do, or decides he wants my mouth instead, I'll just have to wait till the next time. That, combined with a story I've read on here a while ago, inspired me to write my own. This is part one. I am working on part two, to be posted soon.



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hello Sir,

I'm still new at this, so be patient with me.

No where else to turn :(

I have desperately been looking for a female who would be willing to tease/deny and also humiliate and punish my little penis :( I have tried fetlife, Craigslist, kik, and have found no one :/ so I'm hoping someone here would find it amusing to take control of my 3 inch member...
If you are interested please contact me at or kik me at bigcock37 (when I used to lie about my size :/ )

Being Teased by my GF

Wanted to do a post on last night. It seems my GF knows exactly how to get me to a boil. Being hot all day working around the house I share, Labor day was near enough for me to want to get off sexually. I am letting myself be teased and denied as I of course enjoy it. So after the days tasks were done, we proceeded up to my bedroom, and got ready for a teasing session. First she put a blindfold on , then, proceeded to use several small brushes gently teasing my clit and pussy. OMG it was excruciatingly hard to be edged like this. She knows when I am close to the cliff, and backs off.

My little itch

Hello, everyone. I thought I'd come out of lurking and try exploring my interest in T&D.

I have a little bit of an interesting collection of fantasies and fetishes, but my biggest might be denial and chastity in combination with body shame, public humiliation, degradation, and misogyny. All in play, of course.

Bittersweet satisfaction.

Sir and I are both in the same bed, and it does not take him long to notice how wet and needy I am, as for now I have not orgasmed for a while.
He sends his hand between my thighs and I tremble, I know I don't have a word in this. All I can think about is how badly I want him to touch His clit, and while he rubs my flesh, I am trying to resist the urge to squeeze my thighs together.
And he knows it. He knows how much I'd want him to slip his fingers in and fuck me. Though he just smirked, remarking how badly wet I am.

More than just a while

Story, Fiction: Reading online listings you find the following:

Listing: Looking for a lady willing to experience more than superficial lust. You must be willing to actually live a monogamous submissive lifestyle. You must be clean, free of St-d's or other communicable diseases. It is preferred you use Mirena or other copper IUD as sex will include fluid exchange and we will not be using any barrier methods of birth control. The copper IUD not only helps prevent pregnancy but for reasons still not understood tends to increase sexual desire.

What happended to chat?

What happened to Tantalism chat? It has been a few months since I could log on. I miss it. Sure, most of the time there was no activity, but when there was activity I often found it to be quite rewarding. I miss it.

New Fiction Story- hope you enjoy it....

Writing a new fiction story- an excerpt is below. BTW if any ladies are interested, I am a male Dom, age 37, located in the NJ/NYC area and would love to chat, etc. so hit me up anytime! I would love a sub in her 40s or early 50s, as I prefer mature women. Also, the story below needs a title- any ideas?


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