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Tantalism: A teasing or tormenting by the hope or near approach of good which is not attainable.

Welcome to tantalism.org, an exploration of the delicious tension arising from thwarted sexual release. We hope to provide a friendly community atmosphere, and a hotbed of eroticism for devotees of this kink. Diversity of input is encouraged, as we prefer to travel the less worn paths, including female denial, same-sex activities and the extreme bounds of fantasy.

female denial

Female orgasm denial.

My Adventures as a Handy Woman

Master set my latest denial period at 10 days. It was not an unbearable task, but it did push at my submissive limits a few times. Mostly because I managed to earn myself a painful punishment during the stretch for skirting around the answer to a question he asked me, but I also had a minor hiccup (out of my control) along the way. My punishment was 6, 10-Minute sessions with clothespins on both of my nipples (I despise the clothespins). However, I completed each session, dutifully followed my orders, and neatly drew my tallies on my thigh each night in an effort to please him.

Day 17

Day 17: Master allowed me 2 edges before starting a month of no-touch in February. The 1st edge came in less than a minute, but I stopped before going over. The 2nd time I felt like I was about to cum in just a few seconds, I took my hand away and tried to be still, but it was like my body had a mind of it's own and my pelvis thrust itself against the air involuntarily and I couldn't stop myself from cumming.It was a pretty complete orgasm, not a ruined 1, in spite of me not touching thru it. I didn't use the showerhead (or anything else) this time, just my hand.

A new record!

Day 15: A new record for me! Yay! Had really been struggling the last couple days but today my period started and put a damper on things. I expect I'll be feeling like I'm gonna explode again soon though. My Master said I can edge 2 times on the 31st before going on no-touch for all fo February. Day 1 of menstrual cycle.

A different way to learn

Author: Mr.Ocontrol

Title: A different way to learn

Keywords: Mf, Female Orgasm Denial

A different way to learn

Think, what would it be like if you could start over, if you were once again innocent, untouched, totally naïve about sex; What if time were turned back, if everything was different…

Day 8

Day 8: OK, this time I'm kinda confused about what happened last night. I remember the very strong sensation of being masturbated, and seeing hands down there, I know I didn't actually masturbate, but I'm unsure about whether this was a dream or a fantasy as I was falling asleep. I'm not even sure if I was dreaming/fantasizing about masturbating myself or someone else doing it. I do remember getting very close to cumming several times, even thinking I was going to, but it never quite happened. :( Day 18 of menstrual cycle.

Day 7

Day 7: Been on no-touch since my unfortunate edging accident on the 14th. I'm getting better at dealing with the horniness, I think. Practice makes perfect I guess. Had a dream last night that I was looking at a catalog of men's clothes, all the models were fully dressed but also really hot, and I was thinking about masturbating to the pics but knew I shouldn't and managed not to. Have been looking at a fair amount of porn, though perhaps I shouldn't. Day 17 of menstrual cycle.

Feeling Brave

I am thinking about finding someone to tease and deny me for a while. I am a mature woman, married, but in need of some controlling :) I have asked here before, but guess i wasn't quite ready, so, being hopeful and asking again.

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Playmate for my slave

I have a dedicated online female slave who is curious about subbing to another female for denial play, or maybe whatever you have in mind. Send me an email or gchat at cokyasak@gmail.com if you are interested in talking about it.

We don't care if you are submissive to men or switchy, as long as you know how to treat a submissive girl, nice and strict.

Be Careful What You Wish For

On my eighth night of denial, he ordered me to go back on no touch after I had been on a few days of edging. I knew how much no touch was going to test me, so I worked up the courage to ask him for a couple more opportunities to edge before starting no touch once again. He was very generous as he granted my request and ordered me to complete 10 more edges before bed. I had expected him to assign me more than 2, but I honestly was not expecting 10. My greediness and desperation to cum had gotten the better of me and now I was facing a major challenge.

Day 14 Edging Accident

Day 14: I broke my previous no-touch record by making it to the 2-week mark! Master said I could edge when I got to this point, but being stupid I decided to do it with the showerhead (which is always such an intense sensation I have trouble with control). It took 40 seconds before I got that "I'm about to cum feeling", at which point I removed the water spray from my clit but the orgasm just kept cumming! Physically it felt wonderful of course, but I was also disappointed in myself. I told my Owner and He was very understanding about it being an accident.

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