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Main Subject — Master subjects - most content on the site must fit into one of these.
general erotica (288)
General related material, suitable for all.
female denial (1034)
Female orgasm denial.
male denial (275)
Male orgasm denial.
site-related (53)
Anything to do with the web site itself.
off-topic (31)
Off-topic material.

Main Category — Master categories - most content on the site must fit into one of these categories.
miscellany (425)
For submissions that are hard to categorise (may result in creation of a new category).
book (13)
Relating to published works (including printed and electronic media).
experience (743)
Real-life experiences.
fantasy (187)
Dreams and fantasies.
news (75)
General news related to the subject.
opinion (49)
Your personal views.
poll (28)
A survey of other people's opinions.
resource (66)
Links to other sites, books or other related materials.
review (7)
Reviews of books, movies or any other related resources.
story (247)
A story, be it based on fact or fiction.

Sexual Orientation — Straight, gay, bi, or anything in between.
bi female (230)
Bisexual female.
bi male (49)
Bisexual male.
hetero female (522)
Heterosexual (straight) female.
hetero male (351)
Heterosexual (straight) male.
homo female (162)
Homosexual (lesbian) female.
homo male (14)
Homosexual (gay) male.
solo female (134)
Female self-stimulation, indeterminate preference.
solo male (127)
Male self-stimulation, indeterminate preference.

Power Exchange — The dynamics of dominance and submission.
dom female (188)
Dominant female.
dom male (297)
Dominant male.
sub female (590)
Submissive female.
sub male (116)
Submissive male.
switch female (144)
Switch female (part dom, part sub).
switch male (64)
Switch male (part dom, part sub).

Sexual Activities — The things people do.
abstinence (214)
Not engaging in sexual relations of any kind.
anal sex (41)
Anal penetration (sodomy).
anilingus (10)
Oral stimulation of the anus.
asphyxiation (3)
Breath control.
autocunnilingus (2)
Orally stimulating one's own vulva.
autofellatio (4)
Orally stimulating one's own penis.
bondage (195)
Bound and restrained.
coitus (72)
Sexual penetration, insertion of the penis into the vagina.
coprophilia
Sexual response related to faeces.
cunnilingus (99)
Oral sex performed on a female.
cybersex (32)
Sexual activity involving computers or networks.
discipline (111)
Chastisement and punishment.
dry humping (18)
Rubbing bodies together, especially sexual organs.
exhibitionism (65)
Arousal achieved by undressing or performing in front of others.
fellatio (80)
Oral sex performed on a male.
fetishism (30)
Arousal occuring in response to a nonsexual object.
fisting (9)
Insertion of a hand into a vagina or rectum.
foreplay (107)
Caressing, touching, kissing and stroking that promotes excitement.
frottage (8)
Arousal achieved by rubbing against another, particularly in public.
group (23)
Sexual activity in a group or with multiple partners.
interfemoral (2)
Inserting and moving the penis between the thighs.
intermammary (5)
Inserting and moving the penis between the breasts.
lactation (2)
Got milk!
masochism (52)
Sexual arousal dependent on receiving punishment or discipline.
massage (32)
Stimulation of the body or genitals using hands, body or mouth.
masturbation (363)
Manual stimulation of oneself or a partner.
modification (18)
Consensual scarring, piercing, tattooing or other body modification.
mutual (23)
Mutual masturbation, either masturbating each other or watching.
piercing (17)
Creating holes in a person's skin and inserting a metal ring, stud or other piece of jewellery.
role play (27)
Acting out fantasies, sometimes using costumes or masks.
sadism (51)
Sexual arousal dependent on giving punishment or discipline.
safe sex (22)
Activities which lower the risk of disease or pregnancy.
sixty nine (11)
Mutual, simultaneous oral sex.
spanking (47)
Slapping a partner with a hand or paddle, particularly on the buttocks.
striptease (18)
Eroticised, gradual undressing.
tantric sex (22)
Practices based on sexual yoga.
tickling (38)
Excessive but pleasant overstimulation of nerves.
transvestism (2)
Cross-dressing, dressing in clothes normally worn by the opposite sex.
tribadism (4)
Lesbian sex involving the rubbing together of vulvas.
urolagnia (6)
Sexual arousal or response to urine.
voyeurism (21)
Sexual arousal achieved by watching others.
water play (15)
Slippery wet fun in the water, indoors or out.
whipping (22)
Flagellation with a whip or crop.

Sexual Toys — Toys and equipment used for play.
anal beads (4)
A string of beads inserted into the anus, and then slowly removed.
ben-wa balls (17)
Weighted balls, inserted into and held inside the vagina to strengthen the muscles.
blindfold (51)
A device to prevent one from seeing.
butt plug (44)
A large plug, designed solely for use in the rectum.
catsuit (10)
A tight-fitting leather or vinyl outfit, covering almost the whole body.
chain (16)
For securing, restraining or attaching things to bodies.
chastity (130)
Any kind of chastity belt, harness or device worn on the genitals to restrict or prevent sexual arousal.
clips (18)
Small clips or clamps, attached to various body parts.
cock ring (10)
A ring, fitted around the male genitals to restrict blood flow and prolong erection.
corset (11)
An item of lingerie, tightly cinched around the waist and secured with laces or hooks.
crop (15)
A firm type of whip which delivers a stinging blow.
dildo (84)
Any penis-like object inserted into the vagina or rectum.
flogger (14)
A type of whip with many short tails.
gag (32)
A device for blocking the mouth.
handcuffs (44)
Handcuffs and manacles, restraining the hands.
harness (15)
To be worn on the body or the crotch, for restraint or for attaching items.
lingerie (25)
Soft and silky, revealing underwear.
mask (5)
Worn on the face when acting out fantasies, sometimes to block vision.
nipple clamps (55)
Small clamps attached to the nipples, sometimes with chain attached.
oil (18)
Slick, slippery, shiny oil, slathered over sexually swollen skin.
paddle (12)
A flat, hand-held toy for slapping and smacking.
rope (53)
For restraint, suspension and bondage.
strap-on (13)
A dildo attached to a harness, worn by one partner to penetrate the other.
tens unit (5)
An electrical toy which delivers controlled current to parts of the body through electrodes.
vibrator (188)
A mechanical vibrating device, used to stimulate the genitals and other erogenous areas.
violet wand (13)
An electrical toy which delivers a tingly, static discharge to its victim.
whip (20)
Any device used for whipping a partner.

Taboo Subjects — Extreme and nasty things. Please keep discussion of these subjects restricted to FANTASIES only.
*bestiality (7)
Sexual contact with animals.
*blood play (7)
Any activity involving exposure to blood.
*drugs (17)
Illicit drug use.
*incest (12)
Sexual contact between close relatives.
*modification (15)
Extreme, but consensual body modification, possibly involving surgery.
*mutilation (7)
Body modification, circumcision, castration or nullification (without consent).
*occult (7)
Magical or supernatural themes.
*rape (13)
Any sort of coerced or non-consensual activity.
*torture (32)
Cruel or violent torture.
*underage (17)
Sexual activity between or involving minors.
*violence (13)
Non-consensual forms of sexual violence.