Archive - Dec 2012

Absolutely must read history of the vibrator from its origins as a medical device for the treatment of hysteria, caused by the build-up of girl-semen. The doctors or midwives who treated the condition generally through vulvar massage to elicit the mysterious "paroxysm" that seemed to alleviate the symptoms for a time. It's a serious history but the author is certainly aware of the playful, and also misogynistically sinister, possibilities. Truly amazing. http://www.amazon.com/Technology-Orgasm-Hysteria-Vibrator-Satisfaction/dp/0801866464

My RL relationship, while loving, is not kinky or sexually satisfying. I used to masturbate daily, sometimes having to come as many as four times in a row before I felt sated. I fantasized of a strict Dom who would take control of my orgasms. I thought I wanted someone who was stern and would force me to submit to him.

The first time Master and i made a 'serious' attempt at orgasm control and denial, it ended badly. We didn't communicate enough about what our individual desires were before we started playing with it. i should've asked him more questions regarding his vision and goals about it before i agreed to anything. And, as his submissive, it's much more difficult to propose an adjustment once play starts than to have myself heard and considered BEFORE play starts. Anyway, after a short trial, i was back to giving myself an orgasm whenever i wanted, so long as i reported it to him. i was both relieved to be without such strict rules and feeling kind of depressed that i had so much freedom. (Freedom sometimes feels so empty and lonely.)

And then i found this site...

I suspected this was some pretty intense orgasm control, but it wasn't really clear to me that that's what was happening until she choked out the "Pleeeease can I cum?" at 21:06.

Wow.

http://www.xvideos.com/video1980831/cumming_so_hard

Surely, as a nice central resource, we can assemble 50 self-teases (S), 50 teases with friends (F), and 20 tasks to do before an orgasm is allowed (T). Mine are written with females in mind, obviously male versions are welcome.

S1) Go on a sexual chat site and tell them you need permission to come, and that you'll have to earn it. Carry out any commands given you which you can do without endangering yourself or leaving the chat site. Beg them to let you come. If given contradictory commands from many people, choose which one to follow, but aside from that you must obey every command given to you by anyone. You start out with a command to edge every five minutes and let them see it, or if you aren't okay with video, tell them you're doing it. If nobody gives you permission to come after 30 minutes, go on no-touch the rest of the day. As soon as somebody gives you permission to come, edge, pinch your clitoris painfully hard for 30 seconds, and then it's over - do not actually come.

S2) Read erotica at your favorite site for 30 minutes. Edge each time somebody in the story has an orgasm. Afterward, stay on no-touch for the rest of the day.

S3) Tease yourself to one level of arousal below the edge, stay on there for a minute, let it fade a little, tease yourself up again. Never edge. You must do this for at least 30 minutes. You can touch yourself as much as you want today, but can never get any closer than this to the edge.

F1) Find one or more people you can give orgasms. Serve them. Each time they have an orgasm, you will be punished with a hairbrush, switch, nipple twisting, or your other (least) favorite punishment. Carry on for at least an hour or until they let you go.

Hi. I've been away from this site for a while. Almost forgot about it!

This is just a little taster of a scene I have been thinking about.
It could be John's birthday present or the revenge of a lover finding John and Sheila cheating.
Its a very short scene setter at the moment. Please let me know what you think about it.

Recently I have been working on a new game to play. Obviously one of denial and with some odds. I am looking to have 100 different options of things I will do in a day. Such as: Edging five times in the day with at least three of them being in public restrooms or edge for five minutes every two hours.

At the beginning of each day, I would choose one of the 100 at random, using either a 100 sided die, or asking a friend to pick a number from 1-100. Thus my teasing will be new and different from day to day.