Archive - 2011

Anyone else have issues with pissing after edging?

I know this isn't exactly sexy or erotica, but I find myself unable to, y'know, go after I edge. No matter how badly I may have to go. Also irritating is the fact that needing to go kills my arousal completely. I'll be in the middle of edging and the slightest pressure on my bladder makes me completely cooled off. I go to relieve myself so I can continue and I can't go.

It's driving me slightly crazy, since the meds still have me with barely any sex drive.

Does this happen to anyone else?

Did I leave you hanging after my orgasm. I can't believe it has been 3 weeks since.  I do have to say I have not been denied the entire time.  We have been trying new and different things which I will try to explain.

We are no longer keeping track of "how long".  My orgasms are at his discretion and are for his entertainment.  So this is a different dimension than I had even imagined.  But as I was going thru the last denial and reading other posts, I realize just how open the world is to try new and different things.  As long as my dom is up to it.  

Hi everybody!

So...I tried my hand at writing porn today. Orgasm-denial, obviously. It was really fun, and I'd love some feedback. I hope you all really enjoy it. It was super fun to write. ;-D

He had kept her in strict bondage for years and years and years…by her own choice…at first. Now she writhed and begged him to cum, did everything he ever asked of her while he kept her hopes up…she hadn’t cum in twenty long years. They’d gotten married, but why have kids – he had a sex slave to take care of.

I decided to try writing a blog in the middle of this experience. Here goes. What I've done so far before I started writing this: put a slice of ginger root on my clit, which burned for about 20 minutes, then put a vibrator on my clit for an hour. For the first half of that hour, I also played with and clamped my nipples. I've been fooling around with these hair clips, the kind that are like two curved wide-tooth combs (about a centimeter between the teeth) that are brought together by a spring clip. The teeth of the combs interlock if there's nothing between them.

The week of ruins ended yesterday with the ultimate task of 12 ruined orgasms. It was a very difficult day. It started with quick arousals and struggles not to ejaculate. Then it moved to more sexual frustration, aching balls, and sore skin as the rubbing created more chafing and chapping. And the day ended with agonizing tugging and rubbing as I tried to get hard...and then struggles to get to the edge and ruin it. So many times I got to the edge and nothing happened. I was simply so drained of cum that nothing came out. And I would have to stroke even more.