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May 30th

site, forum and especially chat very slow

Submitted by MindDevourer on Mon, 05/30/2011 - 18:24

Hi,

posting it here as this seems the most fittign cathegory. Tantalism has been very slow for me lately. When i opened the forum to post this, it basically took forever to open up.

The chat has been laggy the last few days already, and it seems to be getting worse. It is not any fun to be there and chatting currently. I have no idea what it may be caused by, could you please look into that raynard? (hope i have spelled your name right)

Thanks in advance already!

May 30th

Idea for a new chastity device for women

Submitted by Girl_with_boots on Mon, 05/30/2011 - 01:14

So I've been ruminating on female chastity devices and have an idea for a new kind. It would only work for those of us who are exclusively clitoral for orgasms, but many women are.

Basically it seems that traditional chastity belts are not very comfortable, not very discreet and honestly, not truly secure, especially regarding clitoral stimulation. Men have the very versatile and comfortable CB family and this is a girl version.

Wants2cutloose

Submitted by Mongojerry_2 on Sun, 05/29/2011 - 16:04

Jerry, you are telling us that you don't have enough teasing to do and desperation to delight in w/your toy? We are to believe that you are lacking in this area? Having read your and your toy's posts, this is hard to believe!

And if I asked very nicely, would you tell us about your recent weekend w/o the kids? A few weeks ago I think.

cheers,
Wants

May 29th

Postcard 2: The Darkness

Submitted by A on Sun, 05/29/2011 - 06:24

My second postcard. (I'll try to be in the chatroom on Sunday at 3pm Pacific. I'm a practiced writer of general fiction, and am interested in writing an erotic story for a woman while teasing her, if anyone has a longer story inside them that wants out, or a fantasy they've always wanted to read.)

Subjects from girl_with_boots: blindfolds, orgasm denial, and sensory deprivation.

9:06:11 pm [A]: In the dark she can pretend she's safe.
9:06:31 pm [A]: (She told him to breathe as softly as possible, before she put in the earplugs.)

Postcard 1: Clit pump

Submitted by A on Sun, 05/29/2011 - 03:36

From a challenge in the chat room; I asked for an image from which to create a postcard-length short-short story, and this is what resulted (minor editing).

8:13:58 pm [A]: I'd like to try the postcard format. Do you want to give me an image/scene/character? (Pick a powerful image for you, don't worry about it being a good story seed.)
8:14:27 pm [Girl_with_boots]: A: Hmmm. Clit pump scene.
8:15:22 pm [A]: Her eyes are trembling, the lids fluttering every so faintly. Pain, frustration, pleasure in pain.
8:15:47 pm [A]: The ringing keen of the timer-chime sounds again.

May 25th

The Opportunity To Jerk

Submitted by SubEd on Wed, 05/25/2011 - 19:51

My Domme told me to write about orgasm denial. But then all these posts are about that. In this posting, she wanted me to write about two specific things…

1. How I responded to an offer to have a solo orgasm, and why.

2. How I feel about indefinite denial.

My Domme, in her generosity, did offer me the opportunity to have a solo orgasm recently. Just a chance to masturbate and fully enjoy my release. That would have been the first time I had done that in over seven months! And it was on a day when I was particularly horny!

I said “thanks…but no thanks”.

May 25th

I guess this is my hello?

Submitted by kitten0lyfe on Wed, 05/25/2011 - 06:36

I'm really new here and I don't know how any of this works. I've been a fan of the site for nearly a year now though. Anyone have any advice for how exactly I'm supposed to go about this?
-Lyfe

I'm new to this, wondering about embarrassment

Submitted by poppy_bird on Tue, 05/24/2011 - 15:59

hi

I'm new to all this, I read some stories in a book I found on holiday... Black Lace.... that features "denial". They um, really worked, and since then during 'special times' it's often in my mind.

This is the first place I've found that talks about it, but for me there seem to be a strong link with embarrassment... the embarrassment of being needy, the obvious tell tale signs that I am.

Being made fun of becos of it.... does anyone else have these feelings... that the 'shame' of it kinda makes it worse / work kore

btw I have only thought about this sort of stiff

poppy

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