Archive - May 14, 2009

Just the beginning

Today is denial day 3, card game day 2.

I'm glad day 1 was a diamonds day so I could get in all the edging I wanted before the harder stuff hit (5 of clubs today, and by 8am I'd already used two), and also because of what happened after I'd quit for the day. H and I took a shower and he was looking all gorgeous in nothing but a bathrobe.

Burning Down The House (of cards)

Well, the burn-down commenced in earnest this morning. Here's today's draws:

* Red 6. 6 edge maximum. That was the 'official' card. I did that last night, had a ruined orgasm, and went to bed
* Red 5. 5 edge maximum. Did that early this morning and ended with a ruin.
* Black 2. 2 edge minimum. Did that a few hours after the previous ruin, but didn't end with another one so I'd be ready for the next cards
* Red 3. 3 edge max. Did that just now, no ruin
* Red 4. 4 edge max. Did that just now, no ruin
* Black 10. Free play, though I forgot it at the time! Did 10 edges, followed by a ruined orgasm. And thank god for that...

Roulette-style Denial Game

Shuffle a deck of 54.

Make a wager. A wager is which card you think will be drawn. You can wager on more than one card, but each one 'costs' you an hour of deinal. If the drawn card is any of your wagered cards, you get to orgasm. If you lose, you stay in denial for that many hours before your next chance. After that, reshuffle and repeat.

New Teaser / Teasee

My girlfriend and I have recently started a new kind of tease session, and I'm looking for input. Right now, it's pretty basic: she edges 3 times a day until we see each other this Saturday (it's Wed. as I write this). On that day, I decide if she's lucky enough to cum with a dice roll.

1 = cum
2 = ruined orgasm
3 = edge / no orgasm
4 = edge (multiple) / no orgasm
5 = orgasm
6 = teasing / no orgasm

However, we left the situation open for special instructions. I.E. she could escape the 3 daily edges in exchange for another task. However, I haven't thought any up. Neither of us have any toys to play with (yet) so our options are limited, but I'm looking for input. Any suggestions?

Day 15, Draw 12 (not counting extras)

Wow. An introductory essay, a guide to ruined orgasms, advice on post-orgasmic letdown, two card games (and another in the works), and a story/mock game to go with them. I'm well on my way to writing the definitive guide to T&D without even trying! ;)

So, today I had an hour and a half session minimum. I finished that without much difficulty, ending it with a ruined orgasm. I woke up horny and gave myself another one. Then, just for fun, I drew an extra card, and it was another king, this time red. An hour and a half of tease, followed by no touch. I did the hour and a half, 45 of which was spent in one session, pretty much riding the edge the whole time. (Though not one single edge) I ended with a nice, relaxing ruined orgasm. I finally had to impose a new rule: No more ruined orgasms until I finish my daily 'tasks'!

So anyway, tonight's draw is...

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Introduction and comment

Hello

New member here and I'm taking this time to introduce myself.
My very first encounter with orgasm denial was when I watched a hentai movie (Japanese Animated porn), called F3 (Frantic, Frustrated & Female).
If you never saw it and/or heard of it, here's a little review link:
http://www.animecritic.com/hentaireviews/f3/hnr-f3.html

I found the situation of a woman not being able to have an orgasm, no matter how much she tried, so arousing that I started to look up more and more of that on the internet. Teasing, Chastity, real life, fiction, captioned images, everything I could get my hands of. And so I ended up here, and I really like what I see, reading the stories and real life experiences of the different members.