Archive - Mar 2009

The whole T&D scene seems to be completely tied up with the idea of dominance and submission - that one person needs to control and deny another, who submits to his or her control. I think that can be wonderful when it works out, but I also think great things could happen between two people who like being teased and denied without any reference to submissiveness at all. Imagine this scenario:

Two people like to be teased and denied. They encourage, challenge and tease each other all week. Enjoy mutual masturbation, report their edges to each other, drive each other crazy. And then find release together at the end. Wouldn't that be a fine thing? Where does D/s come into it?

Hallo, I am looking for Reception.

I believe you do wonderful research here at this Institute. I have to tell you that when I was younger I had certain problems in the area you are going to be researching, which is why I have volunteered my services today. If only more men would come forward I am sure your work would be made so much easier.

I assume I answered all the questions correctly on the questionnaire you sent me last week? I have to say you are very thorough in your vetting procedures. I have one question that has been niggling me though, why do you need to know if I am allergic to leather? Oh yes of course I have total faith in your procedures, I wouldn't be here if I thought otherwise.

Thursday was a no-touch day for radiogirl, at least as far as her pussy and clit were concerned. I assigned her a task that I knew would be difficult for her, though, but also that I knew would be within her capabilities. Once she had the house to herself she was to strip naked, afix clothespins to each nipple, lube up her purple vibrator with gingered lube,and fuck herself in the ass with it for 45 minutes. Afterwards, she was to remain naked, with the clothespins on her nipples, for a total of 4 hours. When she received these instructions she was not at all happy about them, and even less happy that I asked her to do this task alone, without the sound of my voice to help pull her back from the edge. I knew that I was pushing her hard, especially on top of the tickle marathon on Wednesday, but I was unrelenting.

When i was in labor, there was someing inserted that could detect a contraction before I felt it. I'm not sure what the purpose was, but my partner would watch the monitor, and when it would start to show activity, he would warn me it was coming and to get ready.

It seems this could be really handy in T&D. Insert the detector, then tease all you want with fingers, mouth, vibrator, etc - until the detector sensed an impending contraction - then stop the stimulation.

Seems this could be done endlessly and mercilessly. :-)

Today was an edging day for radiogirl. In terms of sensations, she would be experiencing both less, and more. What I mean by that is that we dispensed with the karada harness, and limited the rope work to having her bind her legs, frogtie style. We also dispensed with nipple clamps, limiting the clamping to her breasts outside the areolae, and her inner thighs. The total number of clothespins was upped to 40 though: 12 on each breast, and 8 on each thigh.

The tease this morning was the "tickle marathon" from the denial contest on femaleorgasmdenial.blogspot.com. She applied Orexia to her clit, blindfolded herself, and was to tease her clit with an artist's paintbrush for 45 minutes. My slut hates the paintbrush. I also had a business related call I had to take this morning that caused me to do something I would not ordinarily do: I would be calling her during the middle of her play, and leaving her before it was over, rather than being with her for the end.

Hi, I'm Lisa and I've been reading the site for a bit and have decided to start posting. I have experience both being denied and denying others. In the past few months though I have really enjoyed being on the controlling side rather than being the one controlled. I have an idea for what I think would be a great denial experience. I am really only interested in girls, but this could work for guys too.

Here's how it would work, 2 girls would volunteer to play this 'game'. Each would then submit to me a length of time (could be days, weeks, months) without knowing what the other is submitting. There could be a maximum to keep it to some sort of limit or not if both girls are ok with that. The catch is that whoever submits the longer length of time is denied for that amount of time while the other is denied for the sum of the two. For example, if girl A says 10 days and girl B says 7, A would be denied 10 days and B 17. I would continue to be involved in tease sessions for both girls until their time is up.

A quiet evening together. We sit, your head against my chest, cuddled close. You are uneasy, restless, knowing something is coming. Maybe tonight, maybe tomorrow, maybe next week. I move slightly, standing up.

"I need to get something from the other room," I tell you as I turn and walk toward the hallway. Before disappearing, I turn and say to you. "And cunt, when I get back, I want you standing naked in the middle of the room for me."

I don't wait for acknowledgment, I just turn and continue to the bedroom.

I take my time, casually gathering items, thinking of you shifting your weight back and forth, standing naked, anxious, exposed. Knowing that my delay prolongs your anxiety.

Day 2 is a no touch day. Normally I really hate no touch days. But slut and Master were both busy this morning so we didnt get any time together. He had a meeting this morning and i had shopping to do. One of my assignments for today was to wear my rope harness for 4 hours today and peppermint oil on my clit at 715, lunch time, and before my child gets home. I asked Master to allow me to go shopping without the harness and he said it was fine, as long as I got 4 hours in the harness today.

This is basically what my harness is..

http://www.japanese-rope-bondage.com/karada-body-rope-bondage.htm

Today is radiogirl2009's last day on free orgasms. Midnight tonight marks the beginning of her 2 week denial period. I have already laid out the schedule for her. Monday, Wednesday and Friday of this week, and Monday and Wednesday of the following week, are going to be edging and teasing days. I am going to push her hard on those days, but not allow her to get there. She or I will post details of her edging here as they occur. All other days will be no-touch days. After today, she will have her next orgasm on Monday, April 6.

This is going to be so much fun.