Archive - Jan 2009

The princess was with her secret love when the temple priests came for her.

As the guards dragged him away he cried out, "I will come for you. Nothing will stop me! I promise!"

As the priests held her she replied, "I will wait for you. Forever. I promise!"

The priests carried her, weeping and struggling, to the temple and brought her to the high priest. She trembled, fearing what might be in store. The high priest took her arm and, not unkindly, led her to a chair and offered her a cup of wine.

"My child, please calm yourself," he said, "you are a princess. You will not be punished for desires natural to a healthy young woman."

Hi

Well I've been lurking around this website for quite a while. Probably about a year. I registered a few months in, and always said I'd do a post someday. Well finally, here it is.

I'm an 19yr old Aussie and I've been playing around with orgasm denial for a while now. I've been masturbating for as long as I can remember, and I was gatting a little bored with just normal masturbating, so I looked up some tips and found someone describing what they called teetering, where you work yourself up closer and closer to the edge, back off, then try to get closer the next time before eventually letting yourself cum. The thought of not letting yourself cum in that session never even occurred to me until I found this site and the few other subject related ones out there.

I thought i would share one of my old scripts with you all. It is one of my first attempts to write scripts, it works, and i had quite some success with it. But my newer ones are way better, as the practise and experience was a good teacher :). Not to mention that any IM or live session will be always more effective than any static text or file.

You should always be careful when reading hypnosis text, listening to hypnosis files or watching hypnosis videos. And if you ever consider getting hypnotized "live", via chat, phone, "in person" or whatever else, be sure to get to know the person first, so you have an idea what they may be up to. Hypnosis can be really wonderful when you take your time.

So I feel like I may have a talent for edging. I can get to the point where I can feel the start of the first contraction. I can get to the point where I swear to god I can feel my nipples clench. And stop.

But I do have to stop when I get to that point. Especially with a vibrator. With fingers I can slow way down or work around the edges a bit. I keep reading posts and seeing videos where the vibe is relentlessly applied but the order is not to cum. For me, if a certain type of stimulation is applied at the wrong time, I'm going to cum and there's not a thing I can do about it. I've tried relaxing. I can manage with short stops. But there's a point where I just have to stop or I'm going to go over.

I've been lurking for some time and finally decided to share my story, since it's a little different from most I've read here, and to say thanks.

I'm happily married. I've always had a high libido - perhaps too high at times but it's always been a source of joy to me. My husband and I make love, with plenty of kinks, about twice a week on average and I take care of myself the rest of the time. It always worked out fine.

Until menopause.

The first thing I notice was a gradual loss of feeling in my clit. It became harder and harder to reach orgasm or even feel it once I got there, though my libido was intact. I know this is the fantasy of a lot of you, but to me it was the end of the world. I became depressed. Most sexual encounters with my husband ended in tears. My marriage teetered. Doctors were no help. They just said "You're old" "It sucks but there's nothing you can do" "Get a vibrator" "It's nature's way of telling you you don't need sex anymore." Sheesh.

Thank you reynard for writing an article about the Story of Dorean West even before the first chapter was available. My first contact with female orgasm denial was on tantalism.org - it makes me proud that you recognized our efforts on the female orgasm denial blog and wrote about the Dorean West project here. Keep up the good work, I am a regular reader and enjoy the great content.

Why did we decide to post something on tantalism? We are currently looking for writers of side stories for this project. Our first idea was to ask on tantalism because many great writers are active here. I don't want to talk too much about the concept because many of the readers will know what's the idea behind Dorean's story already. Interested authors can get some ideas what such a cooperation could look like in our first introduction of Dorean. If anyone is interested to create something (here on tantalism or some other platform) to enrich our project, please reply to this posting or drop us a mail at femaleorgasmdenial@gmail.com. All authors are welcome :).

I had an orgasm a little while ago, but I did make it a challenge for myself.

We have this bed that is made of this super soft memory foam. It makes no resistance to pressure and is lovely to sleep in, but I have never been able to orgasm on it face down, rubbing my clit on the bed. I always could do this with other beds, but not this one. I even tried putting hard objects under my clit, but they would just sink in too and I couldn't get enough friction. As I was edging myself this afternoon I was extremely horny, so I decided to take the challenge on the bed. I think I came in less than a minute. It was intense and wonderful! I only had one and it usually takes me several orgasms to become fully satisfied so here I am, still horny but happy.