Archive - Dec 2008

In case I am not on later tonight, I just wanted to wish everyone a happy new years. I have enjoyed reading about people's thoughts and exploits. For those long denied who are getting to celebrate with an orgasm...congratulations. For those long denied who will be, after new years, still long denied...you have my sympathy.

Hektor

Thanks again to Reynard for posting about my just-released novel, As She's Told (http://tantalism.org/node/view/1934/). Teasing and denial have always been central kinks for me, and so they've been very central in my books. My interest has not been quite so much around self-control and willpower, however; locked hardware is more my thing. My heroine starts with the one and is moved to the other in the course of the story.

As She's Told is about the development of an intense, loving, creative d/s relationship. It's a book with rounded and complex characters, lots of imaginative kink, and a grounding in the real world. It is also -- dare I say it -- a well-written book that offers a lot more to the reader than standard pulp. And it's hot as hell. ;-))

Take a string and fold it double so it forms a loop in the middle - take the loop and put it around your body above your pleasure center. Push the ends trough the loop so the string goes double round your body.

Move the string so the loop is in the middle of your back. Take the ends and let them hang down and move them between your buttocks and inside your pleasure centers outer lips - one of each side of the button of love.

Tie it hard so it presses against your flesh and move with every movement of your body. Each movement tugging and making you aware of the string going through the centerplex of stimulating. Each step making you horny, each step making you wanting it more.

Hi everyone, Sir NS finally let me have an Orgasm last week. It was five weeks since my last and i was ready to explode with sex. i did it while IMing with NS. The urge and force was an absolutely powerful shudder. i was sort of let down afterwords about it, to think all i had built up and the efort involved in denying myself. Also the almost instant desire to cum again and the re-charging of my sex drive was rekindled, to want it more. Are these feeling normal, the letdown and the stronger desires after a long awaited O ? Already i am feeling stronger urges only after about 1 week of fustration.