Archive - 2005

I have permission to publish. Most of the installments I have were tailored specifically to me where I was at the moment, and I do not have all the accompanying emails anymore... so future posts may be just "out of the blue" appearing, but still they are good.

Tobby (Sir TJ) was starting to formulate an interactive website, but life intervened.

The point (or at least what *I* got out of it) is to delay orgasm and appreciate the nuances of the feelings at the different levels, instead of just orgasm or no orgasm. Lotttttts of feelings, dragging it out, making it last and then finally going over the edge really slowly.

I'll be spending Christmas and New Year's in the US, but I'll continue to check in here when time and internet access permits. Hope you all have a great holiday!

It doesn't get any easier. I get more used to it, but I think there's an important if subtle distinction there. Woke up (slightly horny as usual—say hello to Mr. Morning Wood), read through email, newsfeeds, did a bit of organizing, ate breakfast, etc. Then I went to take a shower in preparation for getting out of the house. Oh, how that hair conditioner calls. For those readers unfamiliar with the myriad uses of hair conditioner for men, suffice it to say that it is a slippery, wet, and rather non-abrasive lubricating substance that's easily washed away.

Aside from the fact that it's somewhat more difficult not to toy with myself when I'm not locked safely away in the CB, it seems like it's much more difficult to do the same when she is not nearby. It's not even that her presence is some form of active monitoring of my behavior—it's not—but even so, just knowing she's not more than an hour or so away from home is enough to make it easier for me to give up that longed-for orgasm for yet another day. I believe I briefly mentioned this in my last post, so it needn't be elaborated upon too much here.

Hey everyone! I haven't been around in a while because of some craziness in my life, but figured I should send out an update if I'm going to start lurking again. ;) The culmination of the insanity was when I moved across the country (CA to TN) to be with the woman of my dreams (mentioned in a previous post). Our story is all very sappy and reads like a slightly-twisted romantic comedy, but now that the dust has settled and we're done moving, things are going really well. Unfortunately, we both got a bit sick on our trip across the country (2100 miles in 3 days isn't always easy), so no interesting tales for the board just yet. I'm sure there will be, though, and I'll try to be better about just lurking.

On December 4, 2004 thegoodstranger answered my online ad.

He wrote: "Think I'm cute? Interested in a dom guy?"

And I responded: "Yes. and yessss."

I've been CONSTANTLY aroused, wet, and needy ever since!

This has been the most T&D-licious year ever!

Who can suggest something very special that I can do for my owner in honor of our 1 year + 1 day anniversary?