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There's been a lot of talk about ruined or partially ruined orgasms around here lately and it really sounds like some of you rather like them. I had an experience yesterday I never want to repeat.

It had been exactly a week - about optimal for me - with intensive teasing sessions at my husband's hands twice a day! I don't think we were this active when we were in our 20s. The last few days I've been edging during the day as well. Last night was supposed to be the big release, so I put in one last session - 6 minutes by the countdown timer. Edging had been amazing, skirting the very brink so close, I was feeling the kind of intense downward pressure that sometimes results in a big squirting O (not usual for me, but not unheard of). Yesterday I wanted to feel that pressure again and run out of time right on the bell. It was tough! I repeatedly pushed to the brink and was leaking like crazy.

I gave myself another ruin this morning. It's like my self-control is shot. When did two days become so difficult??

That's it. I'm officially allowed no more ruins until the end of the work week. Which is sunday night.