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Tantalism: A teasing or tormenting by the hope or near approach of good which is not attainable.

Welcome to, an exploration of the delicious tension arising from thwarted sexual release. We hope to provide a friendly community atmosphere, and a hotbed of eroticism for devotees of this kink. Diversity of input is encouraged, as we prefer to travel the less worn paths, including female denial, same-sex activities and the extreme bounds of fantasy.

female denial

Female orgasm denial.
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Getting Fucked

Week 41

Dear Diary,

It’s been over two weeks now and, apart from the insane arousal, I am getting used to denial. This is a good thing as I have at least 11 months denied and probably longer, as it will take a while to conceive. I am in for a long, long haul and I need to mentally accept it otherwise it’s going to be a long time waiting.

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A little night teasing

Sir has started a new round of torture. He teases me in my sleep, sliding his fingers inside me and stroking my hard clit.

I feel that it is somehow wrong to have my clit stimulated, an unnatural enjoyment, so I squirm and beg him not to. I weakly try to escape but he pins me down with one leg between mine and carries on.

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The First Two Weeks

Dear Diary,

Two weeks in denial, and it feels like longer.

At first I thought it wasn’t bothering me at all. I felt asexual and couldn’t get turned on, even when I wanted to, was thinking about sex stuff.

But, obviously, as it’s crept towards two weeks, the familiar pressure materialises and I feel more submissive.

And by ‘submissive’ I mean ‘raging pain slut who wants to get fucked in every hole, and cum in, and denied forever and ever and ever, amen.

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Great Video - My Oldest Fantasy

This video basically shows one of my very first fantasies - basically being in a box or blocked off from the waist up, so my vagina and clit can be used by whoever happens along.

As I got older and into denial, I imagine I've been injected with a drug that heightens my sexual arousal but makes it impossible for me to cum:

This is for the amusement and use of whoever my owner/tormentor is and to keep me in my place as a sub/slave.


Exp Dom 42 seeking submissive female who truly craves Orgasm Control and Guided Masterbation on a regular basis

Experienced Dom 42 searching for a submissive female 18-40 to explore primarily Orgasm control/Tease & Denial based submission. If you enjoy the thought of giving up control of when, where, how often and in what way you receive pleasure/orgasms then don't hesitate to get in touch.

Starting to Train My fucktoy

Hi All, I am a huge fan of this site and have been reading many of the blogs for quite a while. It's nice to see there are resources out there for female orgasm denial, since most of the information on the web in regards to denial is about males being denied. Some of the posts on this sight have gotten Me so hot and bothered I just didn't even know what to do with Myself! (The uppercase/lowercase pronouns and titles are used in My slave's and My communications to always remind her Who is in charge.

Looking for a female for denial fun!

I'm a 27yo Dom looking for a female that would be willing to either cyber or if close, get together for denial fun. I'm on fetlife as Gordrel and on kik as frankusc. Message me if you are interested

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Chastity Video

I found this video, it looks very good and it seems to be about a wedding (not a real one). Seems really good too, but I'm not sure about most of it because it's in german... anyone know german?

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displeased master and tormenting

Master was very displeased that i had taken it upon myself to put a vibrator in my pussy. He made me edge on the spot when he caught me on the couch looking at porn. Then he discovered the ice cubes. Despite the fact that they were almost melted, he made me put fresh ones on my nipples after i was done edging. He also shoved the vibrator deeper inside me and made me leave it in while i cleaned the kitchen which took another hour and a half. When i was done my ice cubes were melted again. I asked to take a shower which i was granted.

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Suffering much for my master today

I'm suffering much for my master tonight. He asked me to edge twice for him tonight, which I have already done. I wanted to please him more so I took it upon myself to put ice cubes on my nipples in a sports bra. They are about half melted now and the sharp pains in my nipples have subsided a bit. And i put a vibrating butt plug in my pussy to stimulate the production of more come. I have now increased the vibration to high after 30 minutes on low. Then I put excite stimulant on my clit.

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